is there anything in your life that is
keeping you from being happy whether or
not it is your number one priority to be
happy for laughable
it is and for why people there’s
obstacles that are keeping them from me
happy whether it’s something as small as
not being able to light go off afraid
before you close the door or something
as big as an unexpected death of family
members after all I know a little bit
about exactly for you before you go I
did you wouldn’t put his feet I had to
deal with one of the hormones my life
creak imagine that was hard about girl
and it would be for anyone I was always
pretty upset about it and you can
imagine but I realized the head make a
change otherwise I would be like this
for the rest of my life
so every time I thought about it I
distract myself who was really happy so
that’s how at age of nine years old I
turned my life around
and that was my hardest battle
fortunately not all of us have to deal
with such a heartbreaking obstacle
especially for our students we have
slightly different concerns now that
we’re done with all that awkward stuff
over here in school is how everybody
wants to copy and that’s the only
motivation adding it has what about when
you’re in college enough something keeps
you motivated now does it matter what’s
going to be your model we should met
we’re not saying up elsewhere high
school doesn’t matter because it does
not just because of your great about
your future or about popularity
but when you go to college even when
you’re out of college you don’t
ethical choices that you made and wish
you would have got so much time trying
to be someone you’re not
now you may be thinking that is so
cheesy like been joking about the fridge
well you know who else’s
that guy was school Kobe Jack yeah I
guess I can try we only have ten minutes
okay anyway let me ask you a question
why can’t anyone be happens because they
are there’s nothing wrong itself all we
ever hear in school is oh my gosh she’s
so pretty
why can’t I look like that if you think
the only way to be happy is what you
love then you surely a bigger problem
because there’s so many ways be happy
but there’s also so many ways to be
unhappy think like I don’t even know
you’re doing like winning rounds new
assignment or procrastinate you general
because every time you do that this way
you fill your life in your dreams being
a seventh grader is puts a lot of
pressure on you because sometimes you’re
insecure about the way you look or the
way you dress or that big tomato on your
nose that experts call pimples or
puberty but really you just look like
you at all or that big post wedding ring
but nobody actually cares about the way
you look
in fact appearances our small portion of
what people think of you
we need to learn to be happy with their
bodies because we don’t always have a
certain car body look I ask your
business services when your eyes muscles
we they’re just to the inside for
outside for me adjust to that size when
I was little people always say was
creepy or weird I tried I patches and
ice exercises but they never really hope
almost every night had part of any mom
and she said it’s a wreck I think just
ignore them but how could I so we went
to the eye doctor Annette said they said
that surgery would help so I got surgery
doesn’t help I am gave four surgeries
they helped a little bit but never
really
the trip so to this day people still
come up to me and say and point this out
like I have wings or something like Oh
Cathy your eye just drifted out tough
from my can toys battle this is
something after looking except every day
I never really thought about my other
features like my baby girls I got from
my grandma and my blue eyes I got from
her mom and my mom and her mom my
friends and family showed me all these
amazing things
happiness is truly a choice we have to
accept the good and bad and everything
in between to get there but we have
ground except people not only care about
the way you care for them but the way
you hear for yourself I bet every single
one of you has been disappointed in
their life a stupid mistake you made
when you were presenting or the time you
trip to the hallway but I bet anybody to
saw you doesn’t care at all what
happened they won’t remember but do you
know what they will remember the time
you called them crying about the bully
at school say that you are back some
people say no you’re not
but the right people will say why are
you crying and stop caring about what
people think about you now are you spend
the rest of your life care about what
anyone says to you because yes that was
nice to say but then another really
learned to be happy with their body and
other qualities now that we’re done with
that cheesy skin let’s talk about the
science behind it homeland our center we
did some research at half of my life and
if I’m not that 40% of our happiness is
controlled controlled happiness the
community making islands and 50% of our
happiness
its genetic so people like a mom to
death for example if your parents had
depression there’s a big chance you’ll
have it too but we all know what the
growth mindset we can fix part of that
and we’re not a genius my genius this
year but we all know
another 10% that time boy said if it
happens to you what happens in your life
a couple weeks ago I asked my mom with
the difference between diversity and
advocacy was she told me that diversity
was different culture within two minutes
and adversity was problems problems or
difficulties in your life I really
wanted to my advocacy was my father but
we all know that I fixed up with the
girls mindset so when you tell yourself
every day you’re amazing just the way
you are you’ll gradually become a little
bit happy with yourself it would not
only put you in a better mood but also
make your ghost more attainable we’re
living proof overcoming a health issue
we can’t control or an unexpected death
of a family member isn’t always easy but
we’ve done it we just need to make a
conscious decision to get there so what
does will work for you and keep speech
means is that we need to learn to be
happy with yourself and that is the key
to happiness
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[Music]
[Applause]
you
keeping you from being happy whether or
not it is your number one priority to be
happy for laughable
it is and for why people there’s
obstacles that are keeping them from me
happy whether it’s something as small as
not being able to light go off afraid
before you close the door or something
as big as an unexpected death of family
members after all I know a little bit
about exactly for you before you go I
did you wouldn’t put his feet I had to
deal with one of the hormones my life
creak imagine that was hard about girl
and it would be for anyone I was always
pretty upset about it and you can
imagine but I realized the head make a
change otherwise I would be like this
for the rest of my life
so every time I thought about it I
distract myself who was really happy so
that’s how at age of nine years old I
turned my life around
and that was my hardest battle
fortunately not all of us have to deal
with such a heartbreaking obstacle
especially for our students we have
slightly different concerns now that
we’re done with all that awkward stuff
over here in school is how everybody
wants to copy and that’s the only
motivation adding it has what about when
you’re in college enough something keeps
you motivated now does it matter what’s
going to be your model we should met
we’re not saying up elsewhere high
school doesn’t matter because it does
not just because of your great about
your future or about popularity
but when you go to college even when
you’re out of college you don’t
ethical choices that you made and wish
you would have got so much time trying
to be someone you’re not
now you may be thinking that is so
cheesy like been joking about the fridge
well you know who else’s
that guy was school Kobe Jack yeah I
guess I can try we only have ten minutes
okay anyway let me ask you a question
why can’t anyone be happens because they
are there’s nothing wrong itself all we
ever hear in school is oh my gosh she’s
so pretty
why can’t I look like that if you think
the only way to be happy is what you
love then you surely a bigger problem
because there’s so many ways be happy
but there’s also so many ways to be
unhappy think like I don’t even know
you’re doing like winning rounds new
assignment or procrastinate you general
because every time you do that this way
you fill your life in your dreams being
a seventh grader is puts a lot of
pressure on you because sometimes you’re
insecure about the way you look or the
way you dress or that big tomato on your
nose that experts call pimples or
puberty but really you just look like
you at all or that big post wedding ring
but nobody actually cares about the way
you look
in fact appearances our small portion of
what people think of you
we need to learn to be happy with their
bodies because we don’t always have a
certain car body look I ask your
business services when your eyes muscles
we they’re just to the inside for
outside for me adjust to that size when
I was little people always say was
creepy or weird I tried I patches and
ice exercises but they never really hope
almost every night had part of any mom
and she said it’s a wreck I think just
ignore them but how could I so we went
to the eye doctor Annette said they said
that surgery would help so I got surgery
doesn’t help I am gave four surgeries
they helped a little bit but never
really
the trip so to this day people still
come up to me and say and point this out
like I have wings or something like Oh
Cathy your eye just drifted out tough
from my can toys battle this is
something after looking except every day
I never really thought about my other
features like my baby girls I got from
my grandma and my blue eyes I got from
her mom and my mom and her mom my
friends and family showed me all these
amazing things
happiness is truly a choice we have to
accept the good and bad and everything
in between to get there but we have
ground except people not only care about
the way you care for them but the way
you hear for yourself I bet every single
one of you has been disappointed in
their life a stupid mistake you made
when you were presenting or the time you
trip to the hallway but I bet anybody to
saw you doesn’t care at all what
happened they won’t remember but do you
know what they will remember the time
you called them crying about the bully
at school say that you are back some
people say no you’re not
but the right people will say why are
you crying and stop caring about what
people think about you now are you spend
the rest of your life care about what
anyone says to you because yes that was
nice to say but then another really
learned to be happy with their body and
other qualities now that we’re done with
that cheesy skin let’s talk about the
science behind it homeland our center we
did some research at half of my life and
if I’m not that 40% of our happiness is
controlled controlled happiness the
community making islands and 50% of our
happiness
its genetic so people like a mom to
death for example if your parents had
depression there’s a big chance you’ll
have it too but we all know what the
growth mindset we can fix part of that
and we’re not a genius my genius this
year but we all know
another 10% that time boy said if it
happens to you what happens in your life
a couple weeks ago I asked my mom with
the difference between diversity and
advocacy was she told me that diversity
was different culture within two minutes
and adversity was problems problems or
difficulties in your life I really
wanted to my advocacy was my father but
we all know that I fixed up with the
girls mindset so when you tell yourself
every day you’re amazing just the way
you are you’ll gradually become a little
bit happy with yourself it would not
only put you in a better mood but also
make your ghost more attainable we’re
living proof overcoming a health issue
we can’t control or an unexpected death
of a family member isn’t always easy but
we’ve done it we just need to make a
conscious decision to get there so what
does will work for you and keep speech
means is that we need to learn to be
happy with yourself and that is the key
to happiness
[Applause]
[Music]
[Applause]
you
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