[music]
hello everyone i’m not a teenager
but recently talked to my
cousin who graduated
Kazakh school the year before last
told that somehow I came to their lesson
Oh that is a teacher who usually
leads physical education but this time he
came to talk boys
my tenth grader on how to communicate with
girls from school
what will he tell about how
meet girls or something in
that sort of thing but actually aha I came
to explain to the guys how
to protect themselves so that the girl does not
got pregnant he was embarrassed for a long time trying
pick up the words and in the end all he
said was
Abay Boulder I mean
be careful more he on this topic
said nothing and just the guys became
discuss football what did they learn from
of this lesson I said something from
unprotected sex that is without
condom use a girl can
get pregnant even the very first time
or he said that with unprotected sex
you can get a genital infection
including hiv and not even know about it
said and of course he didn’t say that
every year in Kazakhstan is registered
more than six thousand cases
teenage pregnancy then
there are the same 10 graders become
moms and tenth graders
become priests is anyone ready
you who else is in school after nine
months become parents and from their time off
thank you i think that sex education
very important for our teens
sex education is when on
regular basis in accordance with
children are given knowledge by age
how their bodies will change during
puberty as arranged
their reproductive systems and how
take care of your sexual
reproductive health
sexual and reproductive health
important for every person it allows
we live a full life getting
the pleasure of sexual intercourse have
children of course if we all want it
for myself
often parents are adults and mostly
parents say why my my
child learn safer sex
behavior to know something about sexual
health
he is still a child to him early when he grows up
then I will find out to such parents not
I want to ask a question, why do we introduce
children to school we want them to become
more literate so they learn
pissing read chatting with people being in
team and make friends it all
important skills for life also with
safe sexual behavior
no need to lay the right foundation and
values are now too late
how it became late for those guys and
girls who have become too early
parents and now they have much less
chances to get a decent education
build a career to become financially
independent and see the world i
researcher and in his studies
lately i’m studying questions and
constance access to youth sources
sex education school either out
schools what I found out schools from us
there is no sexual education as such
so that it is constantly like normal
the lessons
that is, no one teens explains no
just how to protect your sexual
reproductive health
but also what is sexual abuse and
how to protect against it and what can
ask for help if it’s with you
happens
nobody explains nobody explains them
that body is your own or any
the other person is inviolable and that
need to respect personal boundaries lately
time we often hear cases
sexual abuse against children i
I think that part of the problem is that we
teach children to respect adults and
obey them unquestioningly but we are not
teach them what to say no to them and
protect themselves our children do not know what they are
have a right
we are not allowed to family either
talk on such topics
even in one of his polls a plot of
My questions involved 57 people and
only eight of them said they had
there was a conversation with parents on this topic
for example about puberty while
even now i hear a case when u
girls start her period and she thinks
that she is seriously ill and will die soon
or what when boys start
night emissions, that is, night shifts and
This is a shame but it’s all natural
part of growing up
and this is no shame if
our parents don’t even talk about
puberty then of course they are not
discuss sexuality and sexual
orientation and under sexuality i’m not
mind’s ability to experience
physical emotional attraction to
another person and so schools with us
this is not taught in the family about it do not say
where do teens go for information
of course these are friends and internet friends
it’s good to discuss something with them
share experiences but in terms of
sexual literacy they are likely
know no more of yours
and you just pass each other
wrong information myths for example
very many teenagers think that if
the girl is the first sex that she does not
get pregnant or what if you engage
having sex in the water and then a sperm
dissolve and pregnancy is not
happens or what if doing it standing
then again, the sperm will not fall
where need to happen
pregnancy is all true and in all
these cases, pregnancy can
to occur
what about the internet on the internet
can find useful information if
very good search but also the same
simpler half of my respondents
said that when they tried something
googling on this topic they came across
online pornography why i think that
pornography is a bad source of knowledge
teen curiosity for her of course
naturally but when it is the only
source of adolescents who still have little
life experience but a lot of curiosity
it’s a bad source to understand
intimate relationships because we need
understand that pornography is a movie
it means the actors are being shot and therefore
they always almost always look good
they have the perfect figure and sex can
last a very long time it all forms not
realistic ideas about how
sex happens life also
mostly in porn videos or in
practiced unprotected porn
sex that is, without using
condom and also very often
there is violence against women all this
again gives the impression
teenagers what is it normal to have
unprotected sex and force someone
cassation therefore precisely because in
schools we have no sex education and
very few quality online
sources I decided to create my own
platform for teens by sex
I launched it on June 1
child protection and it is called hardly
You can find a month on this website.
short understandable articles in Russian and on
Kazakh language on various topics
it’s not just sex or contraception it
also great unhealthy relationships
bullying sexual abuse and a lot
different themes of others is also possible on
website read stories from people
real stories that have already passed
growing up period and that is what
tell teens to understand
that everyone has life difficulties
hard periods but they pass and exit
You can always find besides in the project
two specialists work this is a sexologist and
gynecologist and you can ask the most
intimate questions and
anonymous, they usually answer them in
we are asked about the first sexual
experience about what is normal or
abnormal for female male
sexuality and contraceptive methods
safe sexual behavior
this is a vital life skill
as well as a skill read write so i
I think that sex education
must be available to our
as a teenager and it should be available in
school because school is the only one
institute which has almost
100% coverage of all teens
well, so far I haven’t asked him for you
if you are a teenager then please
try to find quality
sources of information remember that porn
this is a bad teacher if you are a parent then
do your best
increase your own literacy in these
matters then you won’t be so scared
or ashamed if your child comes to
you with any questions or problems
or you can just advise them
some sources and literature
if you yourself can not talk to this
the topic of sexuality is normal for
each person and each of us must
have cares about your sexually
reproductive health is no
nothing shameful basi basi
[applause]
[music]
hello everyone i’m not a teenager
but recently talked to my
cousin who graduated
Kazakh school the year before last
told that somehow I came to their lesson
Oh that is a teacher who usually
leads physical education but this time he
came to talk boys
my tenth grader on how to communicate with
girls from school
what will he tell about how
meet girls or something in
that sort of thing but actually aha I came
to explain to the guys how
to protect themselves so that the girl does not
got pregnant he was embarrassed for a long time trying
pick up the words and in the end all he
said was
Abay Boulder I mean
be careful more he on this topic
said nothing and just the guys became
discuss football what did they learn from
of this lesson I said something from
unprotected sex that is without
condom use a girl can
get pregnant even the very first time
or he said that with unprotected sex
you can get a genital infection
including hiv and not even know about it
said and of course he didn’t say that
every year in Kazakhstan is registered
more than six thousand cases
teenage pregnancy then
there are the same 10 graders become
moms and tenth graders
become priests is anyone ready
you who else is in school after nine
months become parents and from their time off
thank you i think that sex education
very important for our teens
sex education is when on
regular basis in accordance with
children are given knowledge by age
how their bodies will change during
puberty as arranged
their reproductive systems and how
take care of your sexual
reproductive health
sexual and reproductive health
important for every person it allows
we live a full life getting
the pleasure of sexual intercourse have
children of course if we all want it
for myself
often parents are adults and mostly
parents say why my my
child learn safer sex
behavior to know something about sexual
health
he is still a child to him early when he grows up
then I will find out to such parents not
I want to ask a question, why do we introduce
children to school we want them to become
more literate so they learn
pissing read chatting with people being in
team and make friends it all
important skills for life also with
safe sexual behavior
no need to lay the right foundation and
values are now too late
how it became late for those guys and
girls who have become too early
parents and now they have much less
chances to get a decent education
build a career to become financially
independent and see the world i
researcher and in his studies
lately i’m studying questions and
constance access to youth sources
sex education school either out
schools what I found out schools from us
there is no sexual education as such
so that it is constantly like normal
the lessons
that is, no one teens explains no
just how to protect your sexual
reproductive health
but also what is sexual abuse and
how to protect against it and what can
ask for help if it’s with you
happens
nobody explains nobody explains them
that body is your own or any
the other person is inviolable and that
need to respect personal boundaries lately
time we often hear cases
sexual abuse against children i
I think that part of the problem is that we
teach children to respect adults and
obey them unquestioningly but we are not
teach them what to say no to them and
protect themselves our children do not know what they are
have a right
we are not allowed to family either
talk on such topics
even in one of his polls a plot of
My questions involved 57 people and
only eight of them said they had
there was a conversation with parents on this topic
for example about puberty while
even now i hear a case when u
girls start her period and she thinks
that she is seriously ill and will die soon
or what when boys start
night emissions, that is, night shifts and
This is a shame but it’s all natural
part of growing up
and this is no shame if
our parents don’t even talk about
puberty then of course they are not
discuss sexuality and sexual
orientation and under sexuality i’m not
mind’s ability to experience
physical emotional attraction to
another person and so schools with us
this is not taught in the family about it do not say
where do teens go for information
of course these are friends and internet friends
it’s good to discuss something with them
share experiences but in terms of
sexual literacy they are likely
know no more of yours
and you just pass each other
wrong information myths for example
very many teenagers think that if
the girl is the first sex that she does not
get pregnant or what if you engage
having sex in the water and then a sperm
dissolve and pregnancy is not
happens or what if doing it standing
then again, the sperm will not fall
where need to happen
pregnancy is all true and in all
these cases, pregnancy can
to occur
what about the internet on the internet
can find useful information if
very good search but also the same
simpler half of my respondents
said that when they tried something
googling on this topic they came across
online pornography why i think that
pornography is a bad source of knowledge
teen curiosity for her of course
naturally but when it is the only
source of adolescents who still have little
life experience but a lot of curiosity
it’s a bad source to understand
intimate relationships because we need
understand that pornography is a movie
it means the actors are being shot and therefore
they always almost always look good
they have the perfect figure and sex can
last a very long time it all forms not
realistic ideas about how
sex happens life also
mostly in porn videos or in
practiced unprotected porn
sex that is, without using
condom and also very often
there is violence against women all this
again gives the impression
teenagers what is it normal to have
unprotected sex and force someone
cassation therefore precisely because in
schools we have no sex education and
very few quality online
sources I decided to create my own
platform for teens by sex
I launched it on June 1
child protection and it is called hardly
You can find a month on this website.
short understandable articles in Russian and on
Kazakh language on various topics
it’s not just sex or contraception it
also great unhealthy relationships
bullying sexual abuse and a lot
different themes of others is also possible on
website read stories from people
real stories that have already passed
growing up period and that is what
tell teens to understand
that everyone has life difficulties
hard periods but they pass and exit
You can always find besides in the project
two specialists work this is a sexologist and
gynecologist and you can ask the most
intimate questions and
anonymous, they usually answer them in
we are asked about the first sexual
experience about what is normal or
abnormal for female male
sexuality and contraceptive methods
safe sexual behavior
this is a vital life skill
as well as a skill read write so i
I think that sex education
must be available to our
as a teenager and it should be available in
school because school is the only one
institute which has almost
100% coverage of all teens
well, so far I haven’t asked him for you
if you are a teenager then please
try to find quality
sources of information remember that porn
this is a bad teacher if you are a parent then
do your best
increase your own literacy in these
matters then you won’t be so scared
or ashamed if your child comes to
you with any questions or problems
or you can just advise them
some sources and literature
if you yourself can not talk to this
the topic of sexuality is normal for
each person and each of us must
have cares about your sexually
reproductive health is no
nothing shameful basi basi
[applause]
[music]
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