wonderful deep divers never allow
yourself to be controlled by three
things that bird up there money and
[Music]
peace and finit waters diving deep once
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here another day in the heart of nature
baby
I’m sending you tons of great energy
fill that fill that and take that deep
dive is less just whoo breathing in that
good Oz piranha baby now let’s jump
straight into it I got a great question
that came in
you got a question add me on Instagram
right now at infinite waters so on us
Ralph yes how can I know it’s the right
time to forgive someone who has hurt me
fantastic question how can I tell Ralph
it is the right time to forgive someone
who has hurt me deep divers has someone
hurt you right now and you’ve been
holding on to a grudge you can’t forgive
them but you’re like maybe just maybe
right now is the time to let it go let
it go let it go is it the time let’s
find out and we even had breakfast yet
can I get a Hello so wonderful deep
divers let me share with you was helped
me along my journey you asked how can I
tell Ralph it’s the right time to
forgive someone who has hurt me when I
read this message it touched me because
I’ve been in a similar situation when I
was younger
I was very heavily into cinematography I
still AM but I was actually doing
commercials I did a commercial for a
football club and I actually I actually
filmed it the guy was like I’ll pay you
once I actually get the complete version
so I was always sending him different
versions of it until he liked it and
then he’s like yeah Ralph I’ll pay you
back
just wait I’m waiting and he didn’t pay
me back
I called him he’s like you have reached
the answer phone right I’m like okay
it’s like that now immediately I felt
kind of hard done by I felt kind of hurt
I felt kind of upset because I put in a
lot of time a lot of energy a lot of
effort in creating a great piece of art
it was really art a great commercial for
him and he didn’t really fulfill his
side of the bargain and I’m like if I
see him again oh if I you better hold me
back you better hold me back right now I
know what it’s like but at the same time
I had to let it go
not only because I’m a Pisces but
because I value my peace of mind so much
more mm-hmm
slow motion this side mmm I’ve been also
treated poorly by other people they’ve
called me names but I had to let that go
to why because I value my peace of mind
too much
never allow someone to steal your peace
of mind even if they have hurt you
because if you do they win how to tell
it’s time it’s the right time to forgive
someone
who has hurt you you see we forgive for
our sake not for this because it’s only
when you forgive that you can truly move
forward and move on with your life so
long as you are holding on to that
grudge it is not only affecting your
health in a negative way it’s also
stealing your peace of mind
now you can’t sleep now you can’t enjoy
beautiful walks into nature because you
are allowing this tenant to rent a room
in your mind and they’re not paying you
back so you have to really say today it
stops right now I can forgive it doesn’t
mean I have to forget what that person
has done to me but we really forgive for
our sake and you know the time is right
to forgive someone who has hurt you
when you are actually placing more value
on your peace of mind than on what they
have done to you oh you see deep divers
to tell the time is right to forgive
someone who has hurt you what has helped
me along my journey is to learn how to
take your power back and to say actually
now is the time I take my power back
have you ever noticed this phenomena
deep divers a lot of us we’ve got this
natural proclivity to think about
someone who has upset us heard us pissed
us off we spend the whole entire day
thinking about this person and we don’t
even like them yet they are controlling
us in that same time you could have
thought about someone who actually
uplifts you by the car down the road
Ralph smart someone else that’s why I
don’t have time right now to hold on to
a grudge
I’m too busy inspiring millions how you
can tell the time is right for you to
forgive someone for you to forgive
someone who has hurt you you are now
saying to yourself I’m gonna take all
the power back because you have
externalized your power you’ve made this
person out to be a monster maybe they
are but now you feel powerless right cuz
they’re the monster and you’re the
victim you have to move out of the
victim mindset and say actually this has
happened to me but I’m not gonna allow
it to keep me back hold me down why
because I’ve got way too much more
living to do why are you allowing this
person this one person who does so
little for you to take up so much room
in your mind it’s time and you have to
come to that realization to take all the
power back and start focusing on
beautiful souls who are really inspiring
you every single day make time for them
like you make time for people who aren’t
serving you how to tell the time is
right for you to forgive someone who has
hurt you you see a lot of people are
hurt and hurt people hurt people so if
you can realize that many people just
need a hug they might take out all of
their crap on you but you aren’t their
problem so you have to come from a place
of empathy you’ve got to come from a
place of compassion to say actually I’m
not their problem they need help and
then you can learn how to have even
empathy for them you can even learn how
to have sympathy for them and pass them
a tissue you don’t have to hug them but
you can now realize that all they need
is a hug and when they hurt you it was
because they were also hurt and
people what exactly hurt people how to
tell the time is right for you to
forgive someone who has hurt you
you have matured and if you are able to
have a bigger perspective on what has
happened to you
you are now maturing and for the first
time you’re like now is the time for me
to be happy again because for so long
Ralph like you said you’ve been feeling
sad about what this person has done what
this person has done to you there are a
lot of people who are doing all kinds of
craziness to other people and getting
away with it hurting other people making
other people’s lives miserable
but life is never something happening to
you it is responding to you what is your
next move are you gonna allow this
experience to defeat you or are you
gonna allow this experience to empower
you hmm
stop it Ralph slow-motion this side hmm
so you know that time is right to
forgive someone who has hurt you when
you’re like actually it’s time to take
my happiness back it’s time to smile
again and I’m gonna do it Ralph yes you
are seven day vegan challenge you
haven’t been eating have you that’s
right you haven’t been eating that
delicious plant-based food delicious
green juice you haven’t been drinking it
what’s going on Ralph because I don’t
have an appetite to eat I’m thinking of
that person who has hurt me so much
now you’re overthinking your ruminating
the food’s getting cold right now you’re
not eating it right now so you know the
time is right to forgive someone who has
hurt you when you’re like actually I
have to finish these strawberries today
and the taste is gonna taste like
strawberries because many times when
someone has hurt us we can’t even taste
the food because we’re thinking about
that person no it’s time to act
tastes the strawberries today getting
the real tastes and this person who has
hurt you is not going to interfere with
you stuffing a whole load of
strawberries in your mouth how to tell
the time is right to forgive someone who
has hurt you it’s time to whoa breathe
in that good ass prana baby again it’s
time to be an alchemist again what is
the secret of alchemy when you make the
best out of the worst and never allow
other people to control your internal
condition a lot of us we feel winded we
feel winded when someone has hurt us we
can’t breathe properly well it’s time to
make a vow to yourself to start
breathing again
whoa because you owe it to yourself you
owe it to yourself to be in equilibrium
and balance how to tell the time is
right to forgive someone who has hurt
you it’s time to move forward it’s time
to get on with your life because for so
long this person who has taken up so
much space in your mind has delayed you
once again if you’re thinking of them
they’re not serving you it creates what
we call a negative feedback loop so you
have to say actually I’m taking
responsibility for what I do right now
and I’m gonna move forward with him I’m
gonna move forward with my head up and
we’re gonna do this Ralph yes we are
right how to tell the time is right to
forgive someone who has hurt you you
have to say it is time to no longer feel
like a powerless victim and it is time
to be the hero of your story it is time
to realize that this person who has hurt
me is not all-powerful because they they
were only powerful because I said they
were powerful I said they hurt me no
they aren’t powerful I’m taking back all
that power and I’m getting my energy
back and if you can practice doing that
to say actually I’m gonna put my value
on investing in my mental wellness my
mental health my emotional health my
physical health I’m gonna place value in
actually feeling good inside of myself
getting my energy back that’s how to
tell the time is right to forgive
someone who has hurt you and then deep
divers you just say
so get to be a live baby can I get a
hello beautiful deep divers would just
whoo breathing in that good oz prana
baby
shout out to everybody who’s been
getting the amazing good oz prana shirts
a Ralph smart dog pum slash clothes you
got a question a message pull out your
phone add me on Instagram right now deep
divers at infinite waters
check out the new amazing book on Amazon
feel alive by Ralph smart deep divers
have a beautiful day
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy peace you I’m taking all the power back you tell them
yourself to be controlled by three
things that bird up there money and
[Music]
peace and finit waters diving deep once
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here another day in the heart of nature
baby
I’m sending you tons of great energy
fill that fill that and take that deep
dive is less just whoo breathing in that
good Oz piranha baby now let’s jump
straight into it I got a great question
that came in
you got a question add me on Instagram
right now at infinite waters so on us
Ralph yes how can I know it’s the right
time to forgive someone who has hurt me
fantastic question how can I tell Ralph
it is the right time to forgive someone
who has hurt me deep divers has someone
hurt you right now and you’ve been
holding on to a grudge you can’t forgive
them but you’re like maybe just maybe
right now is the time to let it go let
it go let it go is it the time let’s
find out and we even had breakfast yet
can I get a Hello so wonderful deep
divers let me share with you was helped
me along my journey you asked how can I
tell Ralph it’s the right time to
forgive someone who has hurt me when I
read this message it touched me because
I’ve been in a similar situation when I
was younger
I was very heavily into cinematography I
still AM but I was actually doing
commercials I did a commercial for a
football club and I actually I actually
filmed it the guy was like I’ll pay you
once I actually get the complete version
so I was always sending him different
versions of it until he liked it and
then he’s like yeah Ralph I’ll pay you
back
just wait I’m waiting and he didn’t pay
me back
I called him he’s like you have reached
the answer phone right I’m like okay
it’s like that now immediately I felt
kind of hard done by I felt kind of hurt
I felt kind of upset because I put in a
lot of time a lot of energy a lot of
effort in creating a great piece of art
it was really art a great commercial for
him and he didn’t really fulfill his
side of the bargain and I’m like if I
see him again oh if I you better hold me
back you better hold me back right now I
know what it’s like but at the same time
I had to let it go
not only because I’m a Pisces but
because I value my peace of mind so much
more mm-hmm
slow motion this side mmm I’ve been also
treated poorly by other people they’ve
called me names but I had to let that go
to why because I value my peace of mind
too much
never allow someone to steal your peace
of mind even if they have hurt you
because if you do they win how to tell
it’s time it’s the right time to forgive
someone
who has hurt you you see we forgive for
our sake not for this because it’s only
when you forgive that you can truly move
forward and move on with your life so
long as you are holding on to that
grudge it is not only affecting your
health in a negative way it’s also
stealing your peace of mind
now you can’t sleep now you can’t enjoy
beautiful walks into nature because you
are allowing this tenant to rent a room
in your mind and they’re not paying you
back so you have to really say today it
stops right now I can forgive it doesn’t
mean I have to forget what that person
has done to me but we really forgive for
our sake and you know the time is right
to forgive someone who has hurt you
when you are actually placing more value
on your peace of mind than on what they
have done to you oh you see deep divers
to tell the time is right to forgive
someone who has hurt you what has helped
me along my journey is to learn how to
take your power back and to say actually
now is the time I take my power back
have you ever noticed this phenomena
deep divers a lot of us we’ve got this
natural proclivity to think about
someone who has upset us heard us pissed
us off we spend the whole entire day
thinking about this person and we don’t
even like them yet they are controlling
us in that same time you could have
thought about someone who actually
uplifts you by the car down the road
Ralph smart someone else that’s why I
don’t have time right now to hold on to
a grudge
I’m too busy inspiring millions how you
can tell the time is right for you to
forgive someone for you to forgive
someone who has hurt you you are now
saying to yourself I’m gonna take all
the power back because you have
externalized your power you’ve made this
person out to be a monster maybe they
are but now you feel powerless right cuz
they’re the monster and you’re the
victim you have to move out of the
victim mindset and say actually this has
happened to me but I’m not gonna allow
it to keep me back hold me down why
because I’ve got way too much more
living to do why are you allowing this
person this one person who does so
little for you to take up so much room
in your mind it’s time and you have to
come to that realization to take all the
power back and start focusing on
beautiful souls who are really inspiring
you every single day make time for them
like you make time for people who aren’t
serving you how to tell the time is
right for you to forgive someone who has
hurt you you see a lot of people are
hurt and hurt people hurt people so if
you can realize that many people just
need a hug they might take out all of
their crap on you but you aren’t their
problem so you have to come from a place
of empathy you’ve got to come from a
place of compassion to say actually I’m
not their problem they need help and
then you can learn how to have even
empathy for them you can even learn how
to have sympathy for them and pass them
a tissue you don’t have to hug them but
you can now realize that all they need
is a hug and when they hurt you it was
because they were also hurt and
people what exactly hurt people how to
tell the time is right for you to
forgive someone who has hurt you
you have matured and if you are able to
have a bigger perspective on what has
happened to you
you are now maturing and for the first
time you’re like now is the time for me
to be happy again because for so long
Ralph like you said you’ve been feeling
sad about what this person has done what
this person has done to you there are a
lot of people who are doing all kinds of
craziness to other people and getting
away with it hurting other people making
other people’s lives miserable
but life is never something happening to
you it is responding to you what is your
next move are you gonna allow this
experience to defeat you or are you
gonna allow this experience to empower
you hmm
stop it Ralph slow-motion this side hmm
so you know that time is right to
forgive someone who has hurt you when
you’re like actually it’s time to take
my happiness back it’s time to smile
again and I’m gonna do it Ralph yes you
are seven day vegan challenge you
haven’t been eating have you that’s
right you haven’t been eating that
delicious plant-based food delicious
green juice you haven’t been drinking it
what’s going on Ralph because I don’t
have an appetite to eat I’m thinking of
that person who has hurt me so much
now you’re overthinking your ruminating
the food’s getting cold right now you’re
not eating it right now so you know the
time is right to forgive someone who has
hurt you when you’re like actually I
have to finish these strawberries today
and the taste is gonna taste like
strawberries because many times when
someone has hurt us we can’t even taste
the food because we’re thinking about
that person no it’s time to act
tastes the strawberries today getting
the real tastes and this person who has
hurt you is not going to interfere with
you stuffing a whole load of
strawberries in your mouth how to tell
the time is right to forgive someone who
has hurt you it’s time to whoa breathe
in that good ass prana baby again it’s
time to be an alchemist again what is
the secret of alchemy when you make the
best out of the worst and never allow
other people to control your internal
condition a lot of us we feel winded we
feel winded when someone has hurt us we
can’t breathe properly well it’s time to
make a vow to yourself to start
breathing again
whoa because you owe it to yourself you
owe it to yourself to be in equilibrium
and balance how to tell the time is
right to forgive someone who has hurt
you it’s time to move forward it’s time
to get on with your life because for so
long this person who has taken up so
much space in your mind has delayed you
once again if you’re thinking of them
they’re not serving you it creates what
we call a negative feedback loop so you
have to say actually I’m taking
responsibility for what I do right now
and I’m gonna move forward with him I’m
gonna move forward with my head up and
we’re gonna do this Ralph yes we are
right how to tell the time is right to
forgive someone who has hurt you you
have to say it is time to no longer feel
like a powerless victim and it is time
to be the hero of your story it is time
to realize that this person who has hurt
me is not all-powerful because they they
were only powerful because I said they
were powerful I said they hurt me no
they aren’t powerful I’m taking back all
that power and I’m getting my energy
back and if you can practice doing that
to say actually I’m gonna put my value
on investing in my mental wellness my
mental health my emotional health my
physical health I’m gonna place value in
actually feeling good inside of myself
getting my energy back that’s how to
tell the time is right to forgive
someone who has hurt you and then deep
divers you just say
so get to be a live baby can I get a
hello beautiful deep divers would just
whoo breathing in that good oz prana
baby
shout out to everybody who’s been
getting the amazing good oz prana shirts
a Ralph smart dog pum slash clothes you
got a question a message pull out your
phone add me on Instagram right now deep
divers at infinite waters
check out the new amazing book on Amazon
feel alive by Ralph smart deep divers
have a beautiful day
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy peace you I’m taking all the power back you tell them
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