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Te educaron para ser ching@n. | Omar Villalobos | TEDxParqueLaLoma


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and it is assumed that he entered the stage
there are fireworks all the people of
tepic gets excited by race blanc
children
is supposed to be
I do not hear them as they are
that is clear to them well is a word
good ghost is a word that does not
exists well is a word that does not say
nor madrid well is a word that does not
communicates nothing is the problem of the
communication in houses in mexico like
you went at work my love good
here in the house very well to you my love in
the school rebién to that well
and again nothing there was no exchange of
information of emotions there was no
absolutely no interaction with the
people that you have around
we live as automatons expressing things
we feel and sometimes they do not tell us
we give what we feel grip take
right to the right to right everything
the world grab your right hand alias and
do you like this please remove this
cumulative gross of the day do arrive
happy for what has accumulated
something from someone make legal very well
left hand
Now turn to see something and next door
so you can see how it is moving the
very good hand now moves the other hand
the other the other moves the two the two
darts all over the world omar my preparation
Academic first grade I
it prevents to make your chingadera to new lama
name now moves the little shoulders
moves the shoulders so little
hips to one side to the other
imagine what they want
they have a funny imagination so
what I see
I am Mexican
and I have had the fortune the happiness
opportunity or misfortune like you
they want to call it traveling around
Latin America I have traveled
Latin America and doing something I do not know
do nothing really I’m very rough what
The only thing I know how to do is to speak in public
is the only thing in my house when a focus is
decomposes wey i speak pretty
no no I do not know how to do anything my only virtue
is to communicate but this virtue was never
so I was stuttering when I was 15
aged tata tata tata tartamudeaba
I could not articulate a word without
I was wrong I arrived with my father because
in the vocational orientations you
they say they dream they dream of what they love
big you want to be my father
I wanted to be an engineer but if I
I was an engineer or mine was not to be
engineer and I take the work to the
construction and to make a mistake
learn from construction from below
my son from below and the ox gave me the
peak and shovel and I get dirty from dirt
I have
I did not like the earth no no no
it was what I liked that he wanted me
wash my hands every time my dad
scared said this one has provenance
Sexually weird the dirt has it not
like the earth when my father and me
ask omar the rest that wants to be of
big i tell dad
I want to be like coco coconut
as a speaker
my dad looked at me
says omar the this
normal
As my dad told me, tell him relax
feel like he told me
imagine your dad who loves you the most
What supports you the one who should throw you
club
I arrive with my mother the woman who brought me
the world that bore me the one that charged me
the one that made me here came with her
I say mom is that I want to be like with
little by little
he smiled bowed his head
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I grabbed the cheek made my face
son is half gay
and my little son told me what you want in the
life what you want but be
speaker not
I start my first conference the
first plastic that was 16 years
age 16 I invited the friends of my
parents my mother’s friends
businessmen to hire me
according to I invited them to a hotel and copper
at that time they were five ten fifteen
ticket weights nothing nothing more for
cooperation 100 people I invited my
father put his assistant to call him
to everyone to tell them that it was a joke
bad taste of your son my first event
Hey, I was the dean, I was the
organizer I was the teacher of
ceremonies was everything and nobody was
nobody my first talk I gave it to chairs
empty was already in the hotel I was going
100 chairs I had pasted a letter to
the 20 special guests
telling them what my future was going to be
in that letter I was telling you that I was going
traveling around Latin them
I was counting that I was going to be the author of
books of audiobooks and I was
telling my life and I was inviting
to be part of the first day
no one was
I gave my lecture the first
with closed eyes
wait an hour for the audience
He did not reach anyone in my eyes
and crying I gave my first lecture only
to the chairs
It was horrible but it was very powerful
while they discovered the tears I
I made a promise, nothing, no one steals from me
my dream I became a what
nothing or nobody steals my dream what
would happen if the Mexican youth what
would happen if young Mexicans
they had this promise in their head what
would happen as I am the victim of a
educational system where with the
pretext of love and under the pretext of
great fathers and with the pretext of
send you to good schools I went
victim of an educational system that in
instead of supporting my dream
my dream and I started to study what I can
do I to create a model a model
of thinking a psychological model a
educational model so that the new
generations there are people who are
worried because mexico may be that
become socialist way for mexico
become socialist we need three or
four generations decades 40 years of
put them from the primary socialism
as a culture true that you can not what
theoretical truth that you can not truth
that the child sells lemonade truth that you
son already wants to sell lemonade for
earn money country be san blas true
that yes or already want to already understand the
business understands money understands the
free trade they bring in their blood is
very difficult to change habits
in a decade is impossible
they require two three four decades to
be able to modify cultural habits
I began to think how they have educated us
to us Mexicans and Latinos
I’ve presented this model throughout
Latin America more than 21 countries always
who presented this model people say
omar I swear that I will not go back to
educate my son equal
they are ready they are ready I want to make you
a question you were educated to do
chingolo to be asshole for you
educated ask the next door
ask in the one next to you that I
is seeing at home lady also the
ted people who are there on youtube
Stop living with digital emotions
bastards and come to a live event
so they can see what is this to play
what is the applause come
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They devoted raised five lobas of
stupid
they realize that the people who come to
the events we feel pure chingones
they realize I will investigate
that educated us to be and I got to
evaluate my education model and the
Latin American education model
evaluate yours for it let’s make a
journey of our childhood to take up again
grab your hand grab your finger and the
brain is five years old and the brain
has carlos do it cheat your brain
wayne everyone cheats him cheats what
had for the love of god
It’s free. You ‘re 5 years old, you want a snow
you want an ice cream you arrive with the only
source that has to get you everything
What do you want in your life, your mother or you?
father you arrive with your mother or your father
five years old
Mom buy me a notice snow
see how my mother did it for
agree with yours notice
mom
Mom, you buy me a snow
omar ernesto I told you that he stops
be away from everything or I’m leaving you
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and will applaud applaud come let go
to give a child that I tell him all the
days not every day, not every day
not that I’m generating in the why
we have millennials huevones that do not
want to do nothing of life because
we have people who bother everything because
we have people who do not want to achieve anything
because we have people who are already
disillusioned of the world and does not want
dream of nothing because from 5 to
18 years old, we told everyone not to
poor child and then at 18 because no
dream because you’re not a leader because it was not
boy
you know the child
second mistake that I realized in the
education we educate seeing the mistakes
we educate by seeing people the mistakes
Look how bad you look, look how bad
you walk, look at what sea you wear, look like
after those shoes just five years ago
I bought them
I want to ask you a question, do you think
that diagnose the healthy error
in psychology we say the diagnosis
cure and sick the diagnosis cures and
sick that you think makes him the
Mexican awakening
get up I’m going to be late always
the same with you walks away from the
scoured qatar that you think that makes
awakening in the child is that it does
reaffirm individually I do not hear you
is that it makes it chingón is that what
makes you fight for your dreams you think what
makes a new mica footprint
which is a new medical print
new neuronal information in your brain
what happens when instead of diagnosing
in a negative way diagnoses in a
positive
omar said is very unpunctual, so tell him
you are more punctual than yesterday
Women raise their hands that
you want very affectionate husband
always raise your hand women
raise your hand more retail though
come with the raise the hand raise
raise your hand raise your hand very well
very well very well wants a husband more
Affectionate true or false is not something
Stop telling me you do not buy me anything anymore
you do not love me anymore you do not love me anymore
it mattered you forgot the anniversary
You left me in seen
three minutes you took to answer
what were you doing goat
there is the dentist
that does not work when the husband
wants to give a detail opens the last
folder you remember, you do not buy me anything
arrive from the flower pass of dealer
take the flower to the beast ten pesitos
never take you will bring the flower to the
Appetite stone also the husband is
he agrees he brings ten pesos he’s doing well he’s going
the tea talks are motivated to bring
money is going to pay for the flower but in that
remember , you do not buy me anything anymore,
you want to say what to do
what do I have to do to make my husband
marc be retailer with me ask me
every day in the morning during
seven days who is the most tender husband
what do I have
Who is the most detailful husband who
loves me so much who gives me a gift who
who who who holds more
of five minutes that who wants
omar what am I doing with that
programming your husband’s brain
doing the same thing that the big ones do
companies doing the same thing they do
the great publicists schedule the
of the mass so that they buy a
product that they do not like
do the same with the people you love
you want your child to be smarter
tell smart trade do you want your
son be chingón tell him how are you
you want your woman to be more tender tell her
as you are tender and what you love is
the negative third error in education
Mexican educate us by comparing ourselves
compare with the sister compare us with
the aunt compares us to the premium because
you’re not like so-and-so there’s even a
TV series because you’re not a
normal girl grabs your finger grabs your
finger grabs everything long and sideways
we all have the right to be different
white and says it says what says it what
He says it says it says what you say
you are watching there in your house
also has the right to be different
what happens when I educate you comparing you
low gender self-esteem when you educate
comparing someone generates a lack of
identity because it is not reaffirming
what it is you are taking away something that
It does not have and it is making us feel bad
because he is not like someone and like him
can neither be a football player nor be
ballet dancer or be a singer or be
actor he can not stop is given to
public speaking to the slope is what
only one that is given when you compare
the skills of one with the other in
instead of praising what you are lowering your
self-esteem and what is the main
problem of societies in
Latin America low self-esteem true no
I hear you true as increase the
self-esteem of an omar individual as
increase the self-esteem of an individual
and the simple teaching him to love
just how do I do it to do that all the
world tells you increase in the soul is
theme but nobody teaches you how the
trick speaks with you out loud
you want self-esteem talk to you in voice
high so that you can omar so that your brain
program your five senses good idea
bad idea
next communication error
Mexican for the attention following error
of Mexican education educate us
getting scared must steal the police
poor that only I was in the
airport waiting for my plane was with
my suitcase and there was a child behind me I
missed half a dozen and liz and
Cariñitos to the child the children are like
puppies you make them love I start in
around you an adult same darling
my god made me in the world this wey and
started to run around me
suitcase the lady turned to see me
I said no problem let the child
is unloaded so that we chin in the
airplane
I have 6
the boy ran around my suitcase
throw my suitcase in the lady keys
you threw the suitcase the man is going to
Anger the gentleman is going to take you Mr.
it will take you
I lady loves father or that
has found copper is looking potato
children we are constantly
threatening them I’ll leave you here I’m going
to go I’ll leave you poor children we live
putting them in fear and then when they have
a company and they are afraid but because
I’m afraid of my son because it does not matter
is there china what the worm look
tending to bronx why not
good idea or bad idea that I do more
reaffirm your individuality educates you with
he is educated by seeing the positives
educates by reaffirming the individuality of
your people educate in value in value elevates
the value of an individual either
exaggerate and because the child won seventh
very good place very good bastard
strive to get to the first
second third you also have to be
realistic because if we educate
overprotecting the other day I
they asked
that he thought about protection over
overprotection answer something very strong
the lady did not like it but I said that the
overprotection to a human being is the
worst of the violations that we can
do
I’m not letting it be
the worst of the violations but the world
it’s going to hurt that it hurts my son zeus
I had the habit of sticking my finger in
electrical current terminals
my lady said you have to cover all
I tell him fat to go back covering
electrical current terminals by
where the child walks or imagines
adapt the kid to the world that is given
a touch of those not to be given a touch
and you’ll see that he’s going to forget something and
put your finger back as you think it is
will give a little bit you will stay
stuck not your method is very nazi
and sra went with mom we stayed
everyone at home and children therapies walks
I tell them he wants is up to the mother
to go chasing we do everything yo yo yo
me me me who wants to cure everything
me yo yo yo yo tell your mom
bastards and that’s what they’re going to do
the fuses of the house there is no current
I put a pin in his electric terminal
favorite and I said zeus do not put your finger
do not aim the deum is finished and ceuta
I had a year between walking and crawling
he sees us what the guy was seeing
put that pick up
I do not cry of staying that the good I do not
blood came from sucks and
we turn to see him I say zeus
What does that mean pendejo was not and
dad
instinct is instinct is called running away
of pain and seek pleasure
omar as cesc and in my family my world
my environment is my business running if
there is pleasure
if there is pleasure your environment is
working like this when you get home
and pleasure your environment is working and
When you get home, your children run
to you your environment is working if
when you get to your business the people who
comes with you your environment is
working and when you get to the
pizzerias people the Lord your
environment is working and when you
Tausif environment when you come to an event
of text environment is working if there
pleasure but if you arrive and flee
if you give a talk and people separate your
environment is not pain pleasure if you’re
pleasant is a magnet
if you are painful they will flee from you good
idea or bad idea and the last secret that
It makes me very wicked of families
very perverse the education model
we educate by reminding them eternally of
mistakes they have made or believe that
I forget or you think I still remember
and you know that the biggest secret to
the happiness
It has to do with a trick and this is what
He taught one of my greatest teachers
my wife I came from Spain on a tour
of conferences came very tired came
physically emotionally three
airplane days I got a flying storm
from madrid to barcelona from barcelona to
farr frankfurt from frankfurt sent us
stuttgart made a riot for all
europe to get to mexico afternoon three
days to get home my wife went for
me to the airport to me I do not like that
go for me to the airport I do not like
I have three days of travel I do not come seeing
well I have not eaten they are not or I am not
humor raise your hand how many of
you when you do not eat and when you smell
bad is not in a good mood they cited this
raise the sea and the rest I give it
sitting raise your hand to raise the
hand the sea flag I was wrong
humor and arrived at the airport and I see that
is there waiting for me at the exit my
woman by her heels her skirt her
very pretty exercise legs stop
Seeing me perfumed all pretty and that
the bastard
instead of feeling a surprise of love I
gives courage because they do not let me arrive alone
why do not you let me connect in the
passage from the airport to the house
come by me I did not wash my teeth
I feel that my mouth smells ugly
bad three days I have not eaten the one of another of
water for grandpa I want to take
over and I can not see to anger I get angry
with her I get on the car come
next to her I come disowning five
minutes later the psychologist comes in
that I have inside
I say fat sorry excuse me
truth that I come from Spain the truth that
I had a very heavy fat tour of I love
excuse me thank you for giving me the surprise
and come for my forgiveness, lady grabs me
the leg the leg
and he tells me with a divine smile tells me
chubby do not worry I forgave you from
before leaving the house
that is, the daughter of her mother already knew that
he was going to get pissed and he did not care
and it was because of my eventual flown and when
I’m angry with her she told me not to
worry I already forgive you what it is
that of forgiving on credit
what is it to forgive in small payments
ue week that gives the friend friend
Greater power of the human being forgives
fast forgive me fast is that my wife
forgive me quickly is that my son my husband
the valleys
forgive quickly the faster you forgive
stronger is to forgive is not a
weakness to forgive is a great power
omar and if I want to reach something beyond
of momentary happiness and guarantee
I am happy forever that I have
to ask good question bad question
forgive the future today
today they will hurt you getting married is that
you play your life once in a while
to have a girlfriend is to make you fart
start a project is wrong
organizing a ted event is to get into
problems
give a lecture is nerve I have
two hours wanting to talk wanting
speak put me public
then its sea
if the future is going
in the future, some pain awaits me and
I already know it
the best virtue to face the future
is to forgive today the future this is to love
on freedom
this is to love with wisdom and that is the
greater power that we can have as
individuals because nobody can offend you
unless you give them permission to breathe
deep
exhale
and I have done this exercise in many
cities countries places of Latin America
and it’s the last presentation of me
I would like to do it with you but for
I want to ask you to stand up
everyone standing have already been
heating the chair a long time come
everyone standing all world standing
everyone standing and the people who are in
the back come closer to this part
of the stage here there are three meters come
come do those who want come come
come in come without fear come come
come with a cup is free wey come come
for here they will not charge you come to
make them come nothing happens to them is
the end is that it started as a dream and
you are part of reality
to play the applause is not for us
the stickers wey we
we live of this is bread eaten chorizo
with eggs of m2
but he knows who the real ones are
stars tonight you know who
are the ones who believed in them when
nobody believed in them you know who they are
those who split the mother and many
of you are the relatives of them and
they know they are the organizers of this
event yes this ex park the hill left you
something for your life project the applause
it’s not for us speakers
compadre the applause is for the
organizers that are the real ones
stars for believing that dreams are
possible
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