“You Have to EMBRACE PAIN!” | #OneRule

you have to embrace pain pain is part of
you have to embrace pain pain is part of life let your pain Punk you
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people follow let pain fuel you also if
people follow let pain fuel you also if you want to know a dame – Tony Robbins
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thing you have to really never do is
thing you have to really never do is compare yourself to other people
compare yourself to other people
compare yourself to other people absolutely that’s the one thing you
absolutely that’s the one thing you
absolutely that’s the one thing you can’t do it judge the success to someone
can’t do it judge the success to someone
can’t do it judge the success to someone else’s the fact that human beings our
else’s the fact that human beings our
else’s the fact that human beings our strongest drive is the need to stay
strongest drive is the need to stay
strongest drive is the need to stay consistent with how we define ourselves
consistent with how we define ourselves
consistent with how we define ourselves it’s easy to make a buck very hard to
it’s easy to make a buck very hard to
it’s easy to make a buck very hard to make a difference
make a difference
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why’s it so hard to fit on yourself for
why’s it so hard to fit on yourself for a lot of people like what’s the hardly
a lot of people like what’s the hardly
a lot of people like what’s the hardly why why is that so hard for people to do
why why is that so hard for people to do
why why is that so hard for people to do to pull it down money in bet on
to pull it down money in bet on
to pull it down money in bet on themselves because when they see it
themselves because when they see it
themselves because when they see it really works out eventually because
really works out eventually because
really works out eventually because because when you couldn’t be a money
because when you couldn’t be a money
because when you couldn’t be a money that’s a struggle and a lot of people
that’s a struggle and a lot of people
that’s a struggle and a lot of people don’t just want to walk into a struggle
don’t just want to walk into a struggle
don’t just want to walk into a struggle almost like some people don’t even
almost like some people don’t even
almost like some people don’t even though they can fight they’re not really
though they can fight they’re not really
though they can fight they’re not really you know have the discipline to go to a
you know have the discipline to go to a
you know have the discipline to go to a training camp and really focus and see
training camp and really focus and see
training camp and really focus and see it through and like they don’t want to
it through and like they don’t want to
it through and like they don’t want to walk into the to the struggle to win you
walk into the to the struggle to win you
walk into the to the struggle to win you have to it to want to link it means you
have to it to want to link it means you
have to it to want to link it means you have to embrace pain you have to embrace
have to embrace pain you have to embrace
have to embrace pain you have to embrace stroke you don’t know saying like you
stroke you don’t know saying like you
stroke you don’t know saying like you have to know that nothing’s gonna be
have to know that nothing’s gonna be
have to know that nothing’s gonna be easy in order to be the best at it in
easy in order to be the best at it in
easy in order to be the best at it in the world you have to do it and push
the world you have to do it and push
the world you have to do it and push yourself from those people want you know
yourself from those people want you know
yourself from those people want you know what I’m saying you better be up for
what I’m saying you better be up for
what I’m saying you better be up for that yeah you know what I’m saying like
that yeah you know what I’m saying like
that yeah you know what I’m saying like you if you up for it you could do it but
you if you up for it you could do it but
you if you up for it you could do it but not everybody’s up for it not everybody
not everybody’s up for it not everybody
not everybody’s up for it not everybody really the intent conceptual evening
really the intent conceptual evening
really the intent conceptual evening when it for doing what the pain it takes
when it for doing what the pain it takes
when it for doing what the pain it takes to go get it and I have a lot like these
to go get it and I have a lot like these
to go get it and I have a lot like these people that like there’s things about
people that like there’s things about
people that like there’s things about them I don’t like but I respect the fact
them I don’t like but I respect the fact
them I don’t like but I respect the fact that they’re gonna fight to get what
that they’re gonna fight to get what
that they’re gonna fight to get what they want the fight and all as to
they want the fight and all as to
they want the fight and all as to whether that our perspective is
whether that our perspective is
whether that our perspective is different or not they’re frightened well
different or not they’re frightened well
different or not they’re frightened well every time whether it’s wrong right the
every time whether it’s wrong right the
every time whether it’s wrong right the person that fights the hardest plants
person that fights the hardest plants
person that fights the hardest plants you really ultimately know that if you
you really ultimately know that if you
you really ultimately know that if you really believe in yourself and you work
really believe in yourself and you work
really believe in yourself and you work hard at it you’ll achieve it the
hard at it you’ll achieve it the
hard at it you’ll achieve it the question is am i ready to work so hard
question is am i ready to work so hard
question is am i ready to work so hard that I’m better than everyone else
that I’m better than everyone else
that I’m better than everyone else you understand what I’m saying and you
you understand what I’m saying and you
you understand what I’m saying and you have to answer that question within
have to answer that question within
have to answer that question within yourself am I ready to embrace all the
yourself am I ready to embrace all the
yourself am I ready to embrace all the pain that nobody else wants to embrace
pain that nobody else wants to embrace
pain that nobody else wants to embrace yeah
yeah
yeah am I ready to really work harder and do
am I ready to really work harder and do
am I ready to really work harder and do it so much that I’m better at it than
it so much that I’m better at it than
it so much that I’m better at it than everyone that does it’s really about the
everyone that does it’s really about the
everyone that does it’s really about the work ethic really it’s a professional
work ethic really it’s a professional
work ethic really it’s a professional work ethic you can’t just be good at
work ethic you can’t just be good at
work ethic you can’t just be good at something you have to be able to see
something you have to be able to see
something you have to be able to see things through and do the things that
things through and do the things that
things through and do the things that you don’t enjoy it’s not really about
you don’t enjoy it’s not really about
you don’t enjoy it’s not really about the things that you enjoy that’s the
the things that you enjoy that’s the
the things that you enjoy that’s the easy part it’s the things you don’t
easy part it’s the things you don’t
easy part it’s the things you don’t enjoy that’s the things that people
enjoy that’s the things that people
enjoy that’s the things that people usually shut down
usually shut down
usually shut down they just don’t like it just cuz you
they just don’t like it just cuz you
they just don’t like it just cuz you don’t like something doesn’t mean it’s a
don’t like something doesn’t mean it’s a
don’t like something doesn’t mean it’s a failure when I was growing up I went
failure when I was growing up I went
failure when I was growing up I went through a really tough childhood my mom
through a really tough childhood my mom
through a really tough childhood my mom was a beautiful soul but she abused
was a beautiful soul but she abused
was a beautiful soul but she abused prescription drugs and alcohol and
prescription drugs and alcohol and
prescription drugs and alcohol and because people have different
because people have different
because people have different personalities in that area and she would
personalities in that area and she would
personalities in that area and she would I’m the oldest I have younger brother
I’m the oldest I have younger brother
I’m the oldest I have younger brother five younger sister seven years younger
five younger sister seven years younger
five younger sister seven years younger and she bashed my head against the wall
and she bashed my head against the wall
and she bashed my head against the wall she think I was lying and she pulled
she think I was lying and she pulled
she think I was lying and she pulled liquid soap down my throat till I threw
liquid soap down my throat till I threw
liquid soap down my throat till I threw up it was pretty brutal but it made me
up it was pretty brutal but it made me
up it was pretty brutal but it made me become a practical psychologist it made
become a practical psychologist it made
become a practical psychologist it made me have to learn what makes people get
me have to learn what makes people get
me have to learn what makes people get crazy get angry get excited yet love and
crazy get angry get excited yet love and
crazy get angry get excited yet love and I had to learn how to manage her to
I had to learn how to manage her to
I had to learn how to manage her to protect my brother and sister and to
protect my brother and sister and to
protect my brother and sister and to some extent myself and so you know if my
some extent myself and so you know if my
some extent myself and so you know if my mom had been the woman I’d hope she’d
mom had been the woman I’d hope she’d
mom had been the woman I’d hope she’d been I wouldn’t be the man I’m proud to
been I wouldn’t be the man I’m proud to
been I wouldn’t be the man I’m proud to be so it all worked out in a very
be so it all worked out in a very
be so it all worked out in a very beautiful way but it made me I had so
beautiful way but it made me I had so
beautiful way but it made me I had so much suffering in my life I don’t want
much suffering in my life I don’t want
much suffering in my life I don’t want any human to suffer and I’m F and driven
any human to suffer and I’m F and driven
any human to suffer and I’m F and driven to end suffering wherever I can possibly
to end suffering wherever I can possibly
to end suffering wherever I can possibly make a difference I don’t want to sin
make a difference I don’t want to sin
make a difference I don’t want to sin suffering I want them to experience the
suffering I want them to experience the
suffering I want them to experience the joy and the happiness and the freedom
joy and the happiness and the freedom
joy and the happiness and the freedom and the love and the opportunity to live
and the love and the opportunity to live
and the love and the opportunity to live life on their terms but do you have to
life on their terms but do you have to
life on their terms but do you have to fail to be successful yes you have to
fail to be successful yes you have to
fail to be successful yes you have to have suffering to be successful well you
have suffering to be successful well you
have suffering to be successful well you have to fail I don’t know if you have
have to fail I don’t know if you have
have to fail I don’t know if you have suffer you know the old phrase you know
suffer you know the old phrase you know
suffer you know the old phrase you know pain is part of life suffering is a
pain is part of life suffering is a
pain is part of life suffering is a choice right unless you go through
choice right unless you go through
choice right unless you go through sharpening
the pencil has to go through painful
the pencil has to go through painful sharpening before the sharp blade comes
sharpening before the sharp blade comes
sharpening before the sharp blade comes out and makes an impact ladies and
out and makes an impact ladies and
out and makes an impact ladies and gentlemen
gentlemen
gentlemen similarly in life unless we go through
similarly in life unless we go through
similarly in life unless we go through painful sharpening the best things
painful sharpening the best things
painful sharpening the best things within will never come out as they say
within will never come out as they say
within will never come out as they say no pains no gains I started Google
no pains no gains I started Google
no pains no gains I started Google AdWords in 2001 okay I was I got lucky I
AdWords in 2001 okay I was I got lucky I
AdWords in 2001 okay I was I got lucky I just stumbled and I was one of the first
just stumbled and I was one of the first
just stumbled and I was one of the first people to ever use online advertising I
people to ever use online advertising I
people to ever use online advertising I was in I think the second month Google
was in I think the second month Google
was in I think the second month Google AdWords launched and there was no
AdWords launched and there was no
AdWords launched and there was no YouTube videos there was no Perry
YouTube videos there was no Perry
YouTube videos there was no Perry Marshall books there was there was
Marshall books there was there was
Marshall books there was there was nothing you just kind of wasted money to
nothing you just kind of wasted money to
nothing you just kind of wasted money to learn now we’re the most spoiled
learn now we’re the most spoiled
learn now we’re the most spoiled generation everything this computer on
generation everything this computer on
generation everything this computer on this phone iPhone 7 is more powerful
this phone iPhone 7 is more powerful
this phone iPhone 7 is more powerful than the first rocket that put man on
than the first rocket that put man on
than the first rocket that put man on the moon that cost billions of dollars
the moon that cost billions of dollars
the moon that cost billions of dollars now we get that for under a thousand
now we get that for under a thousand
now we get that for under a thousand bucks and people are still like I’m lost
bucks and people are still like I’m lost
bucks and people are still like I’m lost yes your loss
yes your loss
yes your loss sit down and then open up Safari and go
sit down and then open up Safari and go
sit down and then open up Safari and go how to do Google ads and you’re gonna
how to do Google ads and you’re gonna
how to do Google ads and you’re gonna come up let’s see what I come up with
come up let’s see what I come up with
come up let’s see what I come up with AdWords they have their own tutorial
AdWords they have their own tutorial
AdWords they have their own tutorial word stream jump if I you got some paid
word stream jump if I you got some paid
word stream jump if I you got some paid stuff then you have some free stuff on
stuff then you have some free stuff on
stuff then you have some free stuff on HubSpot if you sit in a chair Charlie
HubSpot if you sit in a chair Charlie
HubSpot if you sit in a chair Charlie Munger calls it assiduity put your ass
Munger calls it assiduity put your ass
Munger calls it assiduity put your ass in a chair sit there and focus without
in a chair sit there and focus without
in a chair sit there and focus without being you know the average American
being you know the average American
being you know the average American right now the average first in the world
right now the average first in the world
right now the average first in the world our attention span has dropped to five
our attention span has dropped to five
our attention span has dropped to five seconds the sad news is the average
seconds the sad news is the average
seconds the sad news is the average goldfish has 6 seconds we’re now
goldfish has 6 seconds we’re now
goldfish has 6 seconds we’re now competing with goldfish and the goldfish
competing with goldfish and the goldfish
competing with goldfish and the goldfish are winning so if you don’t have
are winning so if you don’t have
are winning so if you don’t have assiduity to sit down breed there is no
assiduity to sit down breed there is no
assiduity to sit down breed there is no solution for you you will always be poor
solution for you you will always be poor
solution for you you will always be poor because you’ll always be beat by
because you’ll always be beat by
because you’ll always be beat by somebody who’s willing to sit in the
somebody who’s willing to sit in the
somebody who’s willing to sit in the chair is there a way for people to build
chair is there a way for people to build
chair is there a way for people to build that discipline yes pain and that’s why
that discipline yes pain and that’s why
that discipline yes pain and that’s why I’m not a big believer in delusion you
I’m not a big believer in delusion you
I’m not a big believer in delusion you know you asked me one of the rewiring
know you asked me one of the rewiring
know you asked me one of the rewiring things we have to do in this world
things we have to do in this world
things we have to do in this world tell you one you ever heard this myth
tell you one you ever heard this myth
tell you one you ever heard this myth everything happens for a reason so just
everything happens for a reason so just
everything happens for a reason so just accept it well there’s kind of truth to
accept it well there’s kind of truth to
accept it well there’s kind of truth to that
that
that if I jump off a building and break my
if I jump off a building and break my
if I jump off a building and break my legs yes everything happened for a
legs yes everything happened for a
legs yes everything happened for a reason
reason
reason the reason was gravity like that’s why
the reason was gravity like that’s why
the reason was gravity like that’s why you break your legs and physics legs
you break your legs and physics legs
you break your legs and physics legs brittle concrete not brittle so debt but
brittle concrete not brittle so debt but
brittle concrete not brittle so debt but people interpret everything happens for
people interpret everything happens for
people interpret everything happens for a reason be like well I was meant to
a reason be like well I was meant to
a reason be like well I was meant to learn from that thing and then BS read
learn from that thing and then BS read
learn from that thing and then BS read Richard Dawkins The Selfish Gene one of
Richard Dawkins The Selfish Gene one of
Richard Dawkins The Selfish Gene one of the most important books written in the
the most important books written in the
the most important books written in the last century he says organisms that only
last century he says organisms that only
last century he says organisms that only learn through trial and error lose to
learn through trial and error lose to
learn through trial and error lose to organisms that can learn through other
organisms that can learn through other
organisms that can learn through other people’s a trial and error is anybody
people’s a trial and error is anybody
people’s a trial and error is anybody here we got a little live audience
here we got a little live audience
here we got a little live audience anybody here ever had to be hit by a car
anybody here ever had to be hit by a car
anybody here ever had to be hit by a car to learn to look both ways I did it I
to learn to look both ways I did it I
to learn to look both ways I did it I kind of learned from just somebody
kind of learned from just somebody
kind of learned from just somebody telling me big car two tons velocity
telling me big car two tons velocity
telling me big car two tons velocity smash dead and I now always look both
smash dead and I now always look both
smash dead and I now always look both ways so if you’re myth is that the only
ways so if you’re myth is that the only
ways so if you’re myth is that the only way you’re gonna learn is just through
way you’re gonna learn is just through
way you’re gonna learn is just through massive mistakes in trial and error you
massive mistakes in trial and error you
massive mistakes in trial and error you have a read Richards talking book how
have a read Richards talking book how
have a read Richards talking book how does pain allow somebody to get more
does pain allow somebody to get more
does pain allow somebody to get more disciplined okay so going back to that
disciplined okay so going back to that
disciplined okay so going back to that myth of when you see your life and
myth of when you see your life and
myth of when you see your life and anytime there should be pain you go no
anytime there should be pain you go no
anytime there should be pain you go no no no no it was just how it was meant to
no no no it was just how it was meant to
no no no it was just how it was meant to be
be
be no look yourself in the mirror sometimes
no look yourself in the mirror sometimes
no look yourself in the mirror sometimes and go you know why I’m not happy it’s
and go you know why I’m not happy it’s
and go you know why I’m not happy it’s because I didn’t listen ten years ago
because I didn’t listen ten years ago
because I didn’t listen ten years ago and I got in the wrong career you know
and I got in the wrong career you know
and I got in the wrong career you know I’m not happy because I married the
I’m not happy because I married the
I’m not happy because I married the wrong damn person it wasn’t meant to
wrong damn person it wasn’t meant to
wrong damn person it wasn’t meant to happen yes everything happens for a
happen yes everything happens for a
happen yes everything happens for a reason you made a bad choice but it
reason you made a bad choice but it
reason you made a bad choice but it didn’t have to be that way and the
didn’t have to be that way and the
didn’t have to be that way and the second you build up pain and this by the
second you build up pain and this by the
second you build up pain and this by the way is not my opinion if you talk to
way is not my opinion if you talk to
way is not my opinion if you talk to guys like dr. David buss top ten most
guys like dr. David buss top ten most
guys like dr. David buss top ten most cited psychologist in history okay he’s
cited psychologist in history okay he’s
cited psychologist in history okay he’s one of my main mentors he told me I said
one of my main mentors he told me I said
one of my main mentors he told me I said to adults change like we do all this
to adults change like we do all this
to adults change like we do all this self-help videos and podcasts I said am
self-help videos and podcasts I said am
self-help videos and podcasts I said am I wasting my time he goes yeah kind of I
I wasting my time he goes yeah kind of I
I wasting my time he goes yeah kind of I said why he said well after 25 it’s very
said why he said well after 25 it’s very
said why he said well after 25 it’s very hard to teach old dogs new tricks
hard to teach old dogs new tricks
hard to teach old dogs new tricks by the way that’s why I’ve changed
by the way that’s why I’ve changed
by the way that’s why I’ve changed most of my stuff targets people 18 to 25
most of my stuff targets people 18 to 25
most of my stuff targets people 18 to 25 that’s why I do snapchat and all that
that’s why I do snapchat and all that
that’s why I do snapchat and all that because there’s hope for 18 to 25 well
because there’s hope for 18 to 25 well
because there’s hope for 18 to 25 well now if you’re over 25 before you get
now if you’re over 25 before you get
now if you’re over 25 before you get depressed he told me but I have good
depressed he told me but I have good
depressed he told me but I have good news for you time I said what he said
news for you time I said what he said
news for you time I said what he said adults learn through massive trauma so
adults learn through massive trauma so
adults learn through massive trauma so you will learn you have to let in some
you will learn you have to let in some
you will learn you have to let in some trauma into your life and that’s rough
trauma into your life and that’s rough
trauma into your life and that’s rough but no pain no gain like if you are 100
but no pain no gain like if you are 100
but no pain no gain like if you are 100 pounds overweight and you want to be
pounds overweight and you want to be
pounds overweight and you want to be able to play basketball here’s my news
able to play basketball here’s my news
able to play basketball here’s my news for you everything happened for a reason
for you everything happened for a reason
for you everything happened for a reason you got fat cuz you ate too much and you
you got fat cuz you ate too much and you
you got fat cuz you ate too much and you didn’t exercise so welcome to the gym in
didn’t exercise so welcome to the gym in
didn’t exercise so welcome to the gym in the first year is gonna be hell but that
the first year is gonna be hell but that
the first year is gonna be hell but that pain hopefully will reprogram your brain
pain hopefully will reprogram your brain
pain hopefully will reprogram your brain that every time you want to eat that
that every time you want to eat that
that every time you want to eat that nasty thing go wait I don’t want to go
nasty thing go wait I don’t want to go
nasty thing go wait I don’t want to go through that pain again so I think one
through that pain again so I think one
through that pain again so I think one of the myths of societies we won’t let
of the myths of societies we won’t let
of the myths of societies we won’t let pain in we just excuse it all away like
pain in we just excuse it all away like
pain in we just excuse it all away like nah that wasn’t meant to happen
nah that wasn’t meant to happen
nah that wasn’t meant to happen oh you wasted 20 years of life married
oh you wasted 20 years of life married
oh you wasted 20 years of life married the wrong person in the wrong career no
the wrong person in the wrong career no
the wrong person in the wrong career no Tom it wasn’t meant to happen
Tom it wasn’t meant to happen
Tom it wasn’t meant to happen where’s the people who go you you wasted
where’s the people who go you you wasted
where’s the people who go you you wasted 20 years and you will never get it back
20 years and you will never get it back
20 years and you will never get it back you better go in your room and cry and
you better go in your room and cry and
you better go in your room and cry and the truth is you only learn as an adult
the truth is you only learn as an adult
the truth is you only learn as an adult unfortunately most people can only
unfortunately most people can only
unfortunately most people can only change with mass and trauma I think most
change with mass and trauma I think most
change with mass and trauma I think most people they don’t get what they want in
people they don’t get what they want in
people they don’t get what they want in life because they don’t know what they
life because they don’t know what they
life because they don’t know what they want
want
want so they lack clarity and why do you lack
so they lack clarity and why do you lack
so they lack clarity and why do you lack motivation chances are they haven’t
motivation chances are they haven’t
motivation chances are they haven’t suffered a lot of pain
suffered a lot of pain
suffered a lot of pain you can see now we on a private jet
you can see now we on a private jet
you can see now we on a private jet I remember
I remember
I remember many years ago when I was struggling in
many years ago when I was struggling in
many years ago when I was struggling in business couldn’t pay the bills
business couldn’t pay the bills
business couldn’t pay the bills my father had his first stroke and I was
my father had his first stroke and I was
my father had his first stroke and I was so much in debt and I couldn’t even
so much in debt and I couldn’t even
so much in debt and I couldn’t even afford the plane ticket he was in the
afford the plane ticket he was in the
afford the plane ticket he was in the hospital he was an emergency
hospital he was an emergency
hospital he was an emergency and I couldn’t afford even to buy an
and I couldn’t afford even to buy an
and I couldn’t afford even to buy an economy ticket because I was in Canada
economy ticket because I was in Canada
economy ticket because I was in Canada and he was in Hong Kong that incident
and he was in Hong Kong that incident
and he was in Hong Kong that incident that experience just gave me so much
that experience just gave me so much
that experience just gave me so much pain when you have enough pain then your
pain when you have enough pain then your
pain when you have enough pain then your motivation I said to myself I’ll never
motivation I said to myself I’ll never
motivation I said to myself I’ll never ever ever want to live there like that
ever ever want to live there like that
ever ever want to live there like that again
again
again whatever it takes I don’t want to
whatever it takes I don’t want to
whatever it takes I don’t want to experience so helpless that I couldn’t
experience so helpless that I couldn’t
experience so helpless that I couldn’t do anything in order to protect my
do anything in order to protect my
do anything in order to protect my family in order to just have the freedom
family in order to just have the freedom
family in order to just have the freedom the ability to divide a plane ticket I
the ability to divide a plane ticket I
the ability to divide a plane ticket I need money I need money when if you want
need money I need money when if you want
need money I need money when if you want your kids suffer when your wife needs
your kids suffer when your wife needs
your kids suffer when your wife needs money when your family needs money who
money when your family needs money who
money when your family needs money who the is going to help them if it’s not
the is going to help them if it’s not
the is going to help them if it’s not you and you don’t get at that point
you and you don’t get at that point
you and you don’t get at that point well what kind of men are we to me this
well what kind of men are we to me this
well what kind of men are we to me this is just about raising your standards
is just about raising your standards
is just about raising your standards every single major breakthrough that you
every single major breakthrough that you
every single major breakthrough that you make in your life and your business will
make in your life and your business will
make in your life and your business will not come from you just understanding a
not come from you just understanding a
not come from you just understanding a certain strategy better is from raising
certain strategy better is from raising
certain strategy better is from raising your standards it’s saying where I am
your standards it’s saying where I am
your standards it’s saying where I am now is not where I am going to be I no
now is not where I am going to be I no
now is not where I am going to be I no longer accept this situation my living
longer accept this situation my living
longer accept this situation my living condition the size of my business is not
condition the size of my business is not
condition the size of my business is not acceptable anymore people bombard and
acceptable anymore people bombard and
acceptable anymore people bombard and you people picking on you people being a
you people picking on you people being a
you people picking on you people being a hater towards you negative people in
hater towards you negative people in
hater towards you negative people in your life I no longer accept how people
your life I no longer accept how people
your life I no longer accept how people treat me this is not acceptable anymore
treat me this is not acceptable anymore
treat me this is not acceptable anymore needs to change like it doesn’t matter
needs to change like it doesn’t matter
needs to change like it doesn’t matter about the specific strategies it starts
about the specific strategies it starts
about the specific strategies it starts in here it’s the mindset it’s raising
in here it’s the mindset it’s raising
in here it’s the mindset it’s raising your standards it’s feeling like you
your standards it’s feeling like you
your standards it’s feeling like you deserve more it’s knowing that you
deserve more it’s knowing that you
deserve more it’s knowing that you deserve more that you are capable of
deserve more that you are capable of
deserve more that you are capable of great things and you are going to go off
great things and you are going to go off
great things and you are going to go off and do it believing in yourself that you
and do it believing in yourself that you
and do it believing in yourself that you can accomplish this big thing and not
can accomplish this big thing and not
can accomplish this big thing and not accepting mediocrity anymore that’s a
accepting mediocrity anymore that’s a
accepting mediocrity anymore that’s a starting point and ok and then so great
starting point and ok and then so great
starting point and ok and then so great raise my standards awesome pay the fare
raise my standards awesome pay the fare
raise my standards awesome pay the fare awesome how do I do it Evan how do I get
awesome how do I do it Evan how do I get
awesome how do I do it Evan how do I get it to happen
it to happen
it to happen to me the greatest way to do it is to be
to me the greatest way to do it is to be
to me the greatest way to do it is to be around the people who have the standards
around the people who have the standards
around the people who have the standards that you want you are a product of your
that you want you are a product of your
that you want you are a product of your environment if you’re around people who
environment if you’re around people who
environment if you’re around people who have bad standards low standards low
have bad standards low standards low
have bad standards low standards low self-esteem low self-worth then guess
self-esteem low self-worth then guess
self-esteem low self-worth then guess what you get for yourself you’ll get the
what you get for yourself you’ll get the
what you get for yourself you’ll get the same thing you need to be around the
same thing you need to be around the
same thing you need to be around the people who have the standards that you
people who have the standards that you
people who have the standards that you aspire to and the more that you are
aspire to and the more that you are
aspire to and the more that you are hanging around those people the more
hanging around those people the more
hanging around those people the more it’s gonna rub off on you what power
it’s gonna rub off on you what power
it’s gonna rub off on you what power have you found in the darkness first I
have you found in the darkness first I
have you found in the darkness first I would before I answer that question I
would before I answer that question I
would before I answer that question I want to say about listen to this I’m the
want to say about listen to this I’m the
want to say about listen to this I’m the happiest man on the planet Earth so
happiest man on the planet Earth so
happiest man on the planet Earth so people may take this and as so many
people may take this and as so many
people may take this and as so many people do we live in a very weakened
people do we live in a very weakened
people do we live in a very weakened society so when they hear a throwback
society so when they hear a throwback
society so when they hear a throwback guy like me from back in the days of
guy like me from back in the days of
guy like me from back in the days of Garanimals they often think this guy’s
Garanimals they often think this guy’s
Garanimals they often think this guy’s just whatever so if you think that I’m
just whatever so if you think that I’m
just whatever so if you think that I’m some unhappy guy you’re wrong having
some unhappy guy you’re wrong having
some unhappy guy you’re wrong having lived a life I’ve lived in seeing the
lived a life I’ve lived in seeing the
lived a life I’ve lived in seeing the other side not being afraid to attack
other side not being afraid to attack
other side not being afraid to attack what was in front of me has made me
what was in front of me has made me
what was in front of me has made me happy to say that again
happy to say that again
happy to say that again in fact let me make sure I understood it
in fact let me make sure I understood it
in fact let me make sure I understood it getting to the point where you’re not
getting to the point where you’re not
getting to the point where you’re not afraid to face the thing on the other
afraid to face the thing on the other
afraid to face the thing on the other side of the door that wants to attack
side of the door that wants to attack
side of the door that wants to attack you has made you happy right right it’s
you has made you happy right right it’s
you has made you happy right right it’s really powerful I hope people heard that
really powerful I hope people heard that
really powerful I hope people heard that right that made me very happy so
right that made me very happy so
right that made me very happy so basically I just don’t walk around with
basically I just don’t walk around with
basically I just don’t walk around with a daggone smile my face all the time so
a daggone smile my face all the time so
a daggone smile my face all the time so you know Merry Christmas but but
you know Merry Christmas but but
you know Merry Christmas but but basically what the dark side is is we
basically what the dark side is is we
basically what the dark side is is we all have a cookie jar and we all have a
all have a cookie jar and we all have a
all have a cookie jar and we all have a jar that’s its official name it’s a jar
jar that’s its official name it’s a jar
jar that’s its official name it’s a jar of man which just it’s just ain’t going
of man which just it’s just ain’t going
of man which just it’s just ain’t going right and in hell week what they do in
right and in hell week what they do in
right and in hell week what they do in hell week okay this is where I really
hell week okay this is where I really
hell week okay this is where I really went to the dark side we’re doing hell
went to the dark side we’re doing hell
went to the dark side we’re doing hell week is a design hell week to find your
week is a design hell week to find your
week is a design hell week to find your flaws and they do a really good job of
flaws and they do a really good job of
flaws and they do a really good job of that it’s 130 hours of continuous
that it’s 130 hours of continuous
that it’s 130 hours of continuous training you may get two hours of sleep
training you may get two hours of sleep
training you may get two hours of sleep and they beat this study you will find
and they beat this study you will find
and they beat this study you will find everything wrong with your mentality and
everything wrong with your mentality and
everything wrong with your mentality and then they start hell week and that’s the
then they start hell week and that’s the
then they start hell week and that’s the beauty of it and for me I’m not some not
beauty of it and for me I’m not some not
beauty of it and for me I’m not some not no nasty guy giving guy you know I don’t
no nasty guy giving guy you know I don’t
no nasty guy giving guy you know I don’t have a great bit of talent in anything
have a great bit of talent in anything
have a great bit of talent in anything so what got me through horrible times
so what got me through horrible times
so what got me through horrible times was the dark side whereas I created my
was the dark side whereas I created my
was the dark side whereas I created my name is David Goggins I created Goggins
name is David Goggins I created Goggins
name is David Goggins I created Goggins Goggins is the guy that can take
Goggins is the guy that can take
Goggins is the guy that can take anything you put in front of them you
anything you put in front of them you
anything you put in front of them you want to break my legs so be it
want to break my legs so be it
want to break my legs so be it I have a way of going to a place I could
I have a way of going to a place I could
I have a way of going to a place I could did in that race where all the pain and
did in that race where all the pain and
did in that race where all the pain and suffering that they put on top of me in
suffering that they put on top of me in
suffering that they put on top of me in hell week I will reverse that pain and
hell week I will reverse that pain and
hell week I will reverse that pain and suffering and I will take your soul so
suffering and I will take your soul so
suffering and I will take your soul so every instructor that put me through
every instructor that put me through
every instructor that put me through buds my job what drove me was I wanted
buds my job what drove me was I wanted
buds my job what drove me was I wanted you to go home that night after you beat
you to go home that night after you beat
you to go home that night after you beat the living out of me and I smiled
the living out of me and I smiled
the living out of me and I smiled in your face I wanted you to feel worse
in your face I wanted you to feel worse
in your face I wanted you to feel worse than I did and you were going home to a
than I did and you were going home to a
than I did and you were going home to a nice warm bed with your wife or your
nice warm bed with your wife or your
nice warm bed with your wife or your kids and a nice meal and I was still out
kids and a nice meal and I was still out
kids and a nice meal and I was still out there in the grip suffering for another
there in the grip suffering for another
there in the grip suffering for another I want you to think about me knowing
I want you to think about me knowing
I want you to think about me knowing that I’m comfortable being very
that I’m comfortable being very
that I’m comfortable being very uncomfortable and I want you to think
uncomfortable and I want you to think
uncomfortable and I want you to think about when you went through hell week
about when you went through hell week
about when you went through hell week how uncomfortable you weren’t how bad
how uncomfortable you weren’t how bad
how uncomfortable you weren’t how bad you wanted to quit knowing I’m not
you wanted to quit knowing I’m not
you wanted to quit knowing I’m not thinking that way so the dark side is
thinking that way so the dark side is
thinking that way so the dark side is something that I’ve designed it’s an
something that I’ve designed it’s an
something that I’ve designed it’s an evil place I can go that very few things
evil place I can go that very few things
evil place I can go that very few things can hurt me
can hurt me
can hurt me I used to hurt you’re trying to put on
I used to hurt you’re trying to put on
I used to hurt you’re trying to put on me I flip it upside down and use it you
me I flip it upside down and use it you
me I flip it upside down and use it you try use it for Kryptonite know its power
try use it for Kryptonite know its power
try use it for Kryptonite know its power pillars for me I’m using it for strength
pillars for me I’m using it for strength
pillars for me I’m using it for strength I flip negative into positive Sartre is
I flip negative into positive Sartre is
I flip negative into positive Sartre is the transitions going to be hard I’m not
the transitions going to be hard I’m not
the transitions going to be hard I’m not gonna lie to you go from being on the
gonna lie to you go from being on the
gonna lie to you go from being on the block going to be a high school dropout
block going to be a high school dropout
block going to be a high school dropout to getting a GED is not the transition
to getting a GED is not the transition
to getting a GED is not the transition is not easy in order for you to go from
is not easy in order for you to go from
is not easy in order for you to go from running level to the next level in order
running level to the next level in order
running level to the next level in order for any woman to transition for any man
for any woman to transition for any man
for any woman to transition for any man to transition the thing that they want
to transition the thing that they want
to transition the thing that they want must be greater than the thing they
must be greater than the thing they
must be greater than the thing they fairly had you only go to another level
fairly had you only go to another level
fairly had you only go to another level when you roll when you own this level
when you roll when you own this level
when you roll when you own this level and you eat not a trash cans and you say
and you eat not a trash cans and you say
and you eat not a trash cans and you say enough is enough when you live in an
enough is enough when you live in an
enough is enough when you live in an abandoned buildings in the winter and
abandoned buildings in the winter and
abandoned buildings in the winter and you say enough
you say enough
you say enough you only transition from one level to
you only transition from one level to
you only transition from one level to the next when you tie to the level you
the next when you tie to the level you
the next when you tie to the level you are you keep telling me this happened in
are you keep telling me this happened in
are you keep telling me this happened in your life and that’s happened in your
your life and that’s happened in your
your life and that’s happened in your life and it who is happening to
life and it who is happening to
life and it who is happening to everybody do you let your pain Punk you
everybody do you let your pain Punk you
everybody do you let your pain Punk you you let your pain make you quit you
you let your pain make you quit you
you let your pain make you quit you thinking special you think you don’t
thinking special you think you don’t
thinking special you think you don’t only want we all go through I’m just
only want we all go through I’m just
only want we all go through I’m just gonna give some out of mine so you gonna
gonna give some out of mine so you gonna
gonna give some out of mine so you gonna have to go through it just like
have to go through it just like
have to go through it just like everybody else you gonna have to pay the
everybody else you gonna have to pay the
everybody else you gonna have to pay the fear sweat blow tears but guess what
fear sweat blow tears but guess what
fear sweat blow tears but guess what when you walk across that stage it’s
when you walk across that stage it’s
when you walk across that stage it’s gonna have that much more meaningful you
gonna have that much more meaningful you
gonna have that much more meaningful you said that every great change starts with
said that every great change starts with
said that every great change starts with pain and I found that really intriguing
pain and I found that really intriguing
pain and I found that really intriguing it feels dark it feels heavy when you
it feels dark it feels heavy when you
it feels dark it feels heavy when you say that but it’s that’s where my
say that but it’s that’s where my
say that but it’s that’s where my experience that it’s accurate is that
experience that it’s accurate is that
experience that it’s accurate is that the reason people change is because of
the reason people change is because of
the reason people change is because of pain the reason we grow is because we
pain the reason we grow is because we
pain the reason we grow is because we get uncomfortable and we embrace being
get uncomfortable and we embrace being
get uncomfortable and we embrace being uncomfortable but being honest with the
uncomfortable but being honest with the
uncomfortable but being honest with the pain that we feel is usually the prime
pain that we feel is usually the prime
pain that we feel is usually the prime mover for people to do the work that is
mover for people to do the work that is
mover for people to do the work that is necessary to push to the edge
necessary to push to the edge
necessary to push to the edge so there’s a difference between pain and
so there’s a difference between pain and
so there’s a difference between pain and suffering there is a difference between
suffering there is a difference between
suffering there is a difference between there where we’re all suffering we all
there where we’re all suffering we all
there where we’re all suffering we all have suffering we all have an emptiness
have suffering we all have an emptiness
have suffering we all have an emptiness or a dark place or corners inside of our
or a dark place or corners inside of our
or a dark place or corners inside of our spirit in our mind that are not
spirit in our mind that are not
spirit in our mind that are not fulfilled and watered and full like we
fulfilled and watered and full like we
fulfilled and watered and full like we we all can relate to that and when I’m
we all can relate to that and when I’m
we all can relate to that and when I’m talking about pain I’m not necessarily
talking about pain I’m not necessarily
talking about pain I’m not necessarily talking about suffering but
talking about suffering but
talking about suffering but acknowledging our suffering being in
acknowledging our suffering being in
acknowledging our suffering being in touch with the pain that’s enough to say
touch with the pain that’s enough to say
touch with the pain that’s enough to say when you’re really honest that’s enough
when you’re really honest that’s enough
when you’re really honest that’s enough to say I can’t do this I don’t want to
to say I can’t do this I don’t want to
to say I can’t do this I don’t want to do this anymore like this is not the
do this anymore like this is not the
do this anymore like this is not the person I want to become and be on a
person I want to become and be on a
person I want to become and be on a regular basis if that’s the case if that
regular basis if that’s the case if that
regular basis if that’s the case if that assumption is right then as a loved one
assumption is right then as a loved one
assumption is right then as a loved one my job is to help you get real and
my job is to help you get real and
my job is to help you get real and experience those places as often as you
experience those places as often as you
experience those places as often as you can
can
can so that you make that the declaration to
so that you make that the declaration to
so that you make that the declaration to say no no that’s not okay for me to feel
say no no that’s not okay for me to feel
say no no that’s not okay for me to feel and be this way on a regular basis so
and be this way on a regular basis so
and be this way on a regular basis so let me pull on that thread just a little
let me pull on that thread just a little
let me pull on that thread just a little bit further it is healthy and necessary
bit further it is healthy and necessary
bit further it is healthy and necessary to feel all of the human emotions but we
to feel all of the human emotions but we
to feel all of the human emotions but we ask people what do you want in life most
ask people what do you want in life most
ask people what do you want in life most people say I want to be happy wait hold
people say I want to be happy wait hold
people say I want to be happy wait hold on now if grandma dies do you want to be
on now if grandma dies do you want to be
on now if grandma dies do you want to be happy that’s it like really when your
happy that’s it like really when your
happy that’s it like really when your child is sick do you want to be happy no
child is sick do you want to be happy no
child is sick do you want to be happy no no I think the answer is that we want to
no I think the answer is that we want to
no I think the answer is that we want to feel all of the human experience to its
feel all of the human experience to its
feel all of the human experience to its fullest but never lose ourself in it but
fullest but never lose ourself in it but
fullest but never lose ourself in it but to experience all of it and so we’re
to experience all of it and so we’re
to experience all of it and so we’re getting into the weeds of some very
getting into the weeds of some very
getting into the weeds of some very esoteric and non scientific thinking
esoteric and non scientific thinking
esoteric and non scientific thinking right now but the practice is that if I
right now but the practice is that if I
right now but the practice is that if I care about you deeply the mistake I can
care about you deeply the mistake I can
care about you deeply the mistake I can make in your life is to help you feel
make in your life is to help you feel
make in your life is to help you feel like it’s all okay like oh it’s okay
like it’s all okay like oh it’s okay
like it’s all okay like oh it’s okay it’s okay that you’re drinking and
it’s okay that you’re drinking and
it’s okay that you’re drinking and driving and you killed a
driving and you killed a
driving and you killed a fourteen-year-old that’s no problem like
fourteen-year-old that’s no problem like
fourteen-year-old that’s no problem like you’ll do better next time
you’ll do better next time
you’ll do better next time no the work is to say well what’s this
no the work is to say well what’s this
no the work is to say well what’s this like for you to feel that pain so you
like for you to feel that pain so you
like for you to feel that pain so you make the commitment to say no no I can’t
make the commitment to say no no I can’t
make the commitment to say no no I can’t do this anymore and that’s when it
do this anymore and that’s when it
do this anymore and that’s when it becomes really real I did a lot of my
becomes really real I did a lot of my
becomes really real I did a lot of my growing up in Hawaii and all my
growing up in Hawaii and all my
growing up in Hawaii and all my as family I was evicted out of Hawaii we
as family I was evicted out of Hawaii we
as family I was evicted out of Hawaii we were picked it out of our little
were picked it out of our little
were picked it out of our little efficiency forced to move it forced to
efficiency forced to move it forced to
efficiency forced to move it forced to leave Hawaii
leave Hawaii
leave Hawaii my grandfather years ago bought the
my grandfather years ago bought the
my grandfather years ago bought the wrestling promotion in Hawaii
wrestling promotion in Hawaii
wrestling promotion in Hawaii and
and
and if he struggled with it he died
if he struggled with it he died
if he struggled with it he died struggling my grandmother took over the
struggling my grandmother took over the
struggling my grandmother took over the wrestling promotion she became the first
wrestling promotion she became the first
wrestling promotion she became the first woman promoter and pro wrestling in a
woman promoter and pro wrestling in a
woman promoter and pro wrestling in a very cutthroat shark infested the world
very cutthroat shark infested the world
very cutthroat shark infested the world and anyway
and anyway
and anyway Hawaii is always represented so much
Hawaii is always represented so much
Hawaii is always represented so much struggle I started getting arrested when
struggle I started getting arrested when
struggle I started getting arrested when I was 14 years old
I was 14 years old
I was 14 years old there’s a lot of stupid I should have
there’s a lot of stupid I should have
there’s a lot of stupid I should have been doing I would at that time when we
been doing I would at that time when we
been doing I would at that time when we got evicted out of our efficiency I
got evicted out of our efficiency I
got evicted out of our efficiency I thought it was the worst thing that
thought it was the worst thing that
thought it was the worst thing that could ever happen and actually at that
could ever happen and actually at that
could ever happen and actually at that time it was but now in hindsight it was
time it was but now in hindsight it was
time it was but now in hindsight it was the greatest thing to ever happen
the greatest thing to ever happen
the greatest thing to ever happen because it forced me into this mindset
because it forced me into this mindset
because it forced me into this mindset honestly the hard work it sounds like if
honestly the hard work it sounds like if
honestly the hard work it sounds like if I could do anything I will do everything
I could do anything I will do everything
I could do anything I will do everything I can to make sure we never get evicted
I can to make sure we never get evicted
I can to make sure we never get evicted again and anyway that kind of mentality
again and anyway that kind of mentality
again and anyway that kind of mentality drives me today
now I’ve got a really special bonus clip
now I’ve got a really special bonus clip from Robin Sharma on how to transform
from Robin Sharma on how to transform
from Robin Sharma on how to transform your pain into power but before that
your pain into power but before that
your pain into power but before that it’s time for the three-point landing
it’s time for the three-point landing
it’s time for the three-point landing questions time to move from just
questions time to move from just
questions time to move from just watching another video to actually
watching another video to actually
watching another video to actually taking action in your life or your
taking action in your life or your
taking action in your life or your business and if you’re feeling bold
business and if you’re feeling bold
business and if you’re feeling bold answer these questions in the comments
answer these questions in the comments
answer these questions in the comments below here we go question number one
below here we go question number one
below here we go question number one what is the most painful thing that you
what is the most painful thing that you
what is the most painful thing that you have been through number two how can you
have been through number two how can you
have been through number two how can you use it to serve others and number three
use it to serve others and number three
use it to serve others and number three what is your why
every great hero was broken if you were
every great hero was broken if you were look at Nelson Mandela
look at Nelson Mandela
look at Nelson Mandela he suffered more than most people if you
he suffered more than most people if you
he suffered more than most people if you look at mother Teresa she went through
look at mother Teresa she went through
look at mother Teresa she went through incredible adversity over the course of
incredible adversity over the course of
incredible adversity over the course of her journey if you were to study Mahatma
her journey if you were to study Mahatma
her journey if you were to study Mahatma Gandhi Nelson Mandela Rosa Parks
Gandhi Nelson Mandela Rosa Parks
Gandhi Nelson Mandela Rosa Parks Shakespeare and Tolstoy if you look at
Shakespeare and Tolstoy if you look at
Shakespeare and Tolstoy if you look at any great artist a Picasso jean-michel
any great artist a Picasso jean-michel
any great artist a Picasso jean-michel Basquiat if you look at the great world
Basquiat if you look at the great world
Basquiat if you look at the great world builders they all suffered let me put it
builders they all suffered let me put it
builders they all suffered let me put it to you this way with great love and
to you this way with great love and
to you this way with great love and respect they all out suffered the
respect they all out suffered the
respect they all out suffered the majority and what I’m suggesting to you
majority and what I’m suggesting to you
majority and what I’m suggesting to you is pain can be transformed into power
is pain can be transformed into power
is pain can be transformed into power with the intention to transform pain
with the intention to transform pain
with the intention to transform pain into power you see what most people do
into power you see what most people do
into power you see what most people do is this is why most good people lose
is this is why most good people lose
is this is why most good people lose they stumble and they fall and they
they stumble and they fall and they
they stumble and they fall and they become heartbroken or disappointed by
become heartbroken or disappointed by
become heartbroken or disappointed by life’s challenges that happens to every
life’s challenges that happens to every
life’s challenges that happens to every single one of us I mean just to be very
single one of us I mean just to be very
single one of us I mean just to be very authentic as I always want to be in
authentic as I always want to be in
authentic as I always want to be in these mastery sessions episodes I’ve
these mastery sessions episodes I’ve
these mastery sessions episodes I’ve gone through a lot of hardship in my
gone through a lot of hardship in my
gone through a lot of hardship in my life when I was you know going through
life when I was you know going through
life when I was you know going through school very few people believed in me
school very few people believed in me
school very few people believed in me and I was dismissed and called very very
and I was dismissed and called very very
and I was dismissed and called very very average and the principal at the school
average and the principal at the school
average and the principal at the school I was at said you’re not even gonna get
I was at said you’re not even gonna get
I was at said you’re not even gonna get into University and you might know my
into University and you might know my
into University and you might know my backstory on the monk who sold his
backstory on the monk who sold his
backstory on the monk who sold his Ferrari but that was a self-published
Ferrari but that was a self-published
Ferrari but that was a self-published book and I was at the American
book and I was at the American
book and I was at the American Booksellers conference in Chicago with a
Booksellers conference in Chicago with a
Booksellers conference in Chicago with a cover of one of my books over my around
cover of one of my books over my around
cover of one of my books over my around my neck shaking hands with all the
my neck shaking hands with all the
my neck shaking hands with all the agents that were coming up the escalator
agents that were coming up the escalator
agents that were coming up the escalator and when I was a self-published author
and when I was a self-published author
and when I was a self-published author and I used to go into bookstores and say
and I used to go into bookstores and say
and I used to go into bookstores and say would you take three copies of my book
would you take three copies of my book
would you take three copies of my book I’ll sign them could you put it on the
I’ll sign them could you put it on the
I’ll sign them could you put it on the shelf and I was treated rudely and I was
shelf and I was treated rudely and I was
shelf and I was treated rudely and I was laughed at and I was on radio shows and
laughed at and I was on radio shows and
laughed at and I was on radio shows and I was ridiculed and then I’ve gone
I was ridiculed and then I’ve gone
I was ridiculed and then I’ve gone through a lot of personal pain in my own
through a lot of personal pain in my own
through a lot of personal pain in my own life and I’ve been on the top of the
life and I’ve been on the top of the
life and I’ve been on the top of the mountain of victory and I must tell you
mountain of victory and I must tell you
mountain of victory and I must tell you I have walked the lonely path in the
I have walked the lonely path in the
I have walked the lonely path in the darkness in the valley of darkness but
darkness in the valley of darkness but
darkness in the valley of darkness but rumi the great philosopher said it so
rumi the great philosopher said it so
rumi the great philosopher said it so beautifully he said allow your heart to
beautifully he said allow your heart to
beautifully he said allow your heart to be broken over and over and over until
be broken over and over and over until
be broken over and over and over until it opens and what I’m suggesting to you
it opens and what I’m suggesting to you
it opens and what I’m suggesting to you is really to dial into this insight all
is really to dial into this insight all
is really to dial into this insight all great heroes have been broken but rather
great heroes have been broken but rather
great heroes have been broken but rather than blaming 27 years in imprisonment in
than blaming 27 years in imprisonment in
than blaming 27 years in imprisonment in the case of Nelson Mandela rather than
the case of Nelson Mandela rather than
the case of Nelson Mandela rather than blaming his naysayers and his detractors
blaming his naysayers and his detractors
blaming his naysayers and his detractors in the case of mahathma gandhi rather
in the case of mahathma gandhi rather
in the case of mahathma gandhi rather than saying life is hard why isn’t isn’t
than saying life is hard why isn’t isn’t
than saying life is hard why isn’t isn’t greatness easy in the case of a mother
greatness easy in the case of a mother
greatness easy in the case of a mother Teresa or Martin Luther King jr. rather
Teresa or Martin Luther King jr. rather
Teresa or Martin Luther King jr. rather than saying why did this happen to me in
than saying why did this happen to me in
than saying why did this happen to me in the case of Rosa Parks who refused to
the case of Rosa Parks who refused to
the case of Rosa Parks who refused to give up her seat to someone on a bus
give up her seat to someone on a bus
give up her seat to someone on a bus because she was being treated like a
because she was being treated like a
because she was being treated like a second-class citizen because of the
second-class citizen because of the
second-class citizen because of the color of her skin these great ones all
color of her skin these great ones all
color of her skin these great ones all had one thing in common they leveraged
had one thing in common they leveraged
had one thing in common they leveraged their pain and the power they turned
their pain and the power they turned
their pain and the power they turned their tragedies into victories if you
their tragedies into victories if you
their tragedies into victories if you have to think of one word that’s most
have to think of one word that’s most
have to think of one word that’s most important to you or that sums you Apple
important to you or that sums you Apple
important to you or that sums you Apple that would become like a little beacon
that would become like a little beacon
that would become like a little beacon if you want to know what’s stopping you
if you want to know what’s stopping you
if you want to know what’s stopping you from getting success I highly recommend
from getting success I highly recommend
from getting success I highly recommend the video right there next to me go
the video right there next to me go
the video right there next to me go check it out continue to believe and
check it out continue to believe and
check it out continue to believe and I’ll see you there oh I’ll believe it
I’ll see you there oh I’ll believe it
I’ll see you there oh I’ll believe it when I see it it’s like I’ll see it when
when I see it it’s like I’ll see it when
when I see it it’s like I’ll see it when I believe it if you really analyze your
I believe it if you really analyze your
I believe it if you really analyze your beliefs you’ll change