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people and situations that upset you see
there’s some people that know just how
to push your button they know just what
to say but I’m not going to expend any
energy arguing with anybody life is too
short ladies and gentlemen and
unpredictable I don’t want to spend my
time arguing with anybody so I bought
situations that will get me upset I
don’t argue with people draw the line
ladies and gentlemen there are certain
things that we just go through life just
taking and at some point you just got to
draw the line and just say enough is
enough you got to do that with yourself
one negative stroke is 16 times more
powerful than a positive stroke and if
you have people around you who are not
sensitive to who you are and the people
that can hurt you the most ladies and
gentlemen are the people that you love
that you love they’re the ones that you
are vulnerable to they’re the ones that
can get to you and they’re Fitz
insensitive I don’t care who they are
see if you don’t draw the line with
people if you just let them run rampant
in your life and you let things happen
to you that you don’t feel good about if
you continue to allow it to happen you
won’t feel good about yourself your
image of yourself will erode so you’ve
got to draw the line a lot of people
just go to a job where they’re miserable
day in and day out
why do people stay together and they’re
miserable sleeping in separate rooms
arguing are the only thing they have in
common is paying the bills don’t talk
don’t communicate don’t share anything
together day in and day out is short and
unpredictable that life is being mean to
known Hills are preferable to strange
heavens because it’s familiar see life
is rough ladies and gentlemen it’s rough
and it’s scary it’s scary growing it’s
scary taking a chance it’s scary acting
on your intuition on your guts it’s
scary it’s frightening there are people
that just tolerating things right now
and they’re immobilized by fear they can
see the hammer coming and they afraid to
even move because it’s scary to go
against the dominant thinking of your
family friends and those people you
associate with every day is perhaps the
most difficult act of courage you will
ever perform see when you start growing
when you start changing the way you walk
the way you talk the way you act the way
you respond to things the way you use
your time when you start saying no I
can’t do that why you’re too busy you
don’t have the time – I have my own
agenda so if people can put you on a
guilt trip they will and use you and
abused you over and over and over again
you got to draw the line you have to
draw the line on it don’t go through
life feeling like you’re powerless
victims are people that are powerless
you’re not powerless you are powerful
you direct the power in your life
whatever your life is right now it is a
duplication of your consciousness
it’s a result of how you have decided to
use your power that’s all it is that’s
not who you are that’s just a perverted
use of your power that you aren’t
satisfied with and you’ve got the power
to change that wherever you are how I
don’t know but I know you’ve got the
power to do that but you don’t know what
has happened to me it really doesn’t
matter what has happened to you see the
only thing
really matters as what are you going to
do about it that’s all that matters
that’s all that matters you can allow it
to destroy you or you can allow it to
bill you up we never get to a level
where we feel that there’s nothing else
for us to do that we’ve achieved certain
number of goals and we figure that we’re
through no no you don’t want to stay
there and celebrate too long like a lot
of people do they do something they
consider outstanding they go around
talking about what they used to do see
let me tell you I used to do this and I
used to do that excuse me used to be
don’t make no honey what are you doing
now you’re still here breathing that
means you’ve got some more to give
doesn’t matter how old you are doesn’t
matter about where you are doesn’t
matter about what you have doesn’t
matter about what you’ve done
life is about growing it’s about being
productive is about stretching it’s
about challenging yourself so you start
looking around and decide hey hey what
else do I want to do what got me here is
the time for celebration but also a time
for reflection what got me here what
worked what did not work what do I need
to do to repeat so that I can get the
same kind of results in other areas of
my life if the dollars to improve my
health if the goal is to improve my
relationship if the goal is to improve
my income if the goal is to improve
something in society what is it I need
to do now don’t get confused with what
you do with who you are don’t trip don’t
go on some type of ego trip about
talking about how bad you are none of us
do anything by ourselves develop an
appreciation for external support as
well as good fortune because all of
those things play a role the other thing
is don’t go overboard celebrate you must
meet with triumph and disaster and treat
those two Impostors just the same you
look at hey I did it I feel good about
that now you’re moving on to the next
thing things did not work out the way
you wanted them to work out you didn’t
produce the results you wanted to
produce hey miss that win some you lose
them next move
right on don’t confuse who you are with
what you do and make your mind fertile
ground for the seeds of opportunity
think if you want to experience a sense
of fulfillment you’ve got to have an
open mind so that ideas can come in
there and take root and grow so part of
beginning to have fertile ground you
know you got to break that ground up you
got to break up that hard crust because
if you don’t seem to fall there and the
wind can blow them away the lens of
doubt when you’re set in your mind and
you refuse to grow and you’re not open
to new ideas new methods new ways of
doing things if your mind is already
fixed
you become stagnant you can’t grow you
can’t have a sense of fulfillment you
become extremely cynical and negative
about everything you know it all so you
want to begin to look at life and have a
sense of curiosity not know it all you
want to keep learning keep growing
realize that we had a theme you never
find out how much you know until you
find out how little you know there are
some people you can’t tell anything they
have all the answers or I’ve already
done that so many of us count ourselves
out of things prematurely you don’t know
what the possibilities are up in there
so you want to be open you want to
continue to learn you want to continue
to grow you want to begin to know that
their unlimited ideas out here waiting
for you to latch on to them and if you
don’t take advantage of them when they
come your way because you’re so
closed-minded do understand somebody
else will
we’ve all had ideas then we did not act
on and looked around and somebody else
add the idea and go on with it so be
open and receptive become involved in
life live your fantasy most people go
through life not living their fantasy
going sitting up in the bleachers
looking out on the field looking out
into the arena wishing that they were
down there just fantasizing seeing
themselves running with the ball decide
to live your fantasy see in life you can
go through life you can come up with
reasons or you can come up with results
you can come up with excuses
you can come up with achievements you
can go through life blaming or you can
come up with solutions the choice is in
your hands satisfaction or despair we
can choose that so look at your life and
decide what it is that you want to do
that will give you a life a sense of
Worth someone said yet your life worth
is measured by your accomplishments and
not by your complaints you want to have
a fulfilling life decide not to make
your life predictable so some people
their lives very predictable they got a
little routine they do that and they
follow that day in and day out day in
and day out you don’t get much juice and
happiness out of life like that if you
are predictable you want to change it up
variety most certainly is a spice of
life
here’s something else one it created
greater sense of fulfillment challenge
your fears challenge them look those
fears in the face and take them on don’t
allow them to rule you decide that
you’re going to take some chances you’ve
got to be willing to risk if you’re not
willing to risk you can’t grow in life
life has no power when you’re not
willing to risk it’s that to laugh is to
risk appearing the fool to weep is to
risk appearing sentimental to reach out
for another is to risk involvement to
expose feelings is to risk exposing your
true self to place your ideas your
dreams before crowd is to risk their
loss to love is to risk not being loved
in return to live is to risk dying to
hope is to risk despair to trys to risk
failure but risk must be taken because
the greatest hazard in life is to risk
nothing the person who risk nothing does
nothing has nothing is nothing they may
avoid suffering in sorrow but they
cannot learn feel change grow love
and live chained by their certitudes
they are a slave they have profited
their freedom only a person who wrists
is free you
people and situations that upset you see
there’s some people that know just how
to push your button they know just what
to say but I’m not going to expend any
energy arguing with anybody life is too
short ladies and gentlemen and
unpredictable I don’t want to spend my
time arguing with anybody so I bought
situations that will get me upset I
don’t argue with people draw the line
ladies and gentlemen there are certain
things that we just go through life just
taking and at some point you just got to
draw the line and just say enough is
enough you got to do that with yourself
one negative stroke is 16 times more
powerful than a positive stroke and if
you have people around you who are not
sensitive to who you are and the people
that can hurt you the most ladies and
gentlemen are the people that you love
that you love they’re the ones that you
are vulnerable to they’re the ones that
can get to you and they’re Fitz
insensitive I don’t care who they are
see if you don’t draw the line with
people if you just let them run rampant
in your life and you let things happen
to you that you don’t feel good about if
you continue to allow it to happen you
won’t feel good about yourself your
image of yourself will erode so you’ve
got to draw the line a lot of people
just go to a job where they’re miserable
day in and day out
why do people stay together and they’re
miserable sleeping in separate rooms
arguing are the only thing they have in
common is paying the bills don’t talk
don’t communicate don’t share anything
together day in and day out is short and
unpredictable that life is being mean to
known Hills are preferable to strange
heavens because it’s familiar see life
is rough ladies and gentlemen it’s rough
and it’s scary it’s scary growing it’s
scary taking a chance it’s scary acting
on your intuition on your guts it’s
scary it’s frightening there are people
that just tolerating things right now
and they’re immobilized by fear they can
see the hammer coming and they afraid to
even move because it’s scary to go
against the dominant thinking of your
family friends and those people you
associate with every day is perhaps the
most difficult act of courage you will
ever perform see when you start growing
when you start changing the way you walk
the way you talk the way you act the way
you respond to things the way you use
your time when you start saying no I
can’t do that why you’re too busy you
don’t have the time – I have my own
agenda so if people can put you on a
guilt trip they will and use you and
abused you over and over and over again
you got to draw the line you have to
draw the line on it don’t go through
life feeling like you’re powerless
victims are people that are powerless
you’re not powerless you are powerful
you direct the power in your life
whatever your life is right now it is a
duplication of your consciousness
it’s a result of how you have decided to
use your power that’s all it is that’s
not who you are that’s just a perverted
use of your power that you aren’t
satisfied with and you’ve got the power
to change that wherever you are how I
don’t know but I know you’ve got the
power to do that but you don’t know what
has happened to me it really doesn’t
matter what has happened to you see the
only thing
really matters as what are you going to
do about it that’s all that matters
that’s all that matters you can allow it
to destroy you or you can allow it to
bill you up we never get to a level
where we feel that there’s nothing else
for us to do that we’ve achieved certain
number of goals and we figure that we’re
through no no you don’t want to stay
there and celebrate too long like a lot
of people do they do something they
consider outstanding they go around
talking about what they used to do see
let me tell you I used to do this and I
used to do that excuse me used to be
don’t make no honey what are you doing
now you’re still here breathing that
means you’ve got some more to give
doesn’t matter how old you are doesn’t
matter about where you are doesn’t
matter about what you have doesn’t
matter about what you’ve done
life is about growing it’s about being
productive is about stretching it’s
about challenging yourself so you start
looking around and decide hey hey what
else do I want to do what got me here is
the time for celebration but also a time
for reflection what got me here what
worked what did not work what do I need
to do to repeat so that I can get the
same kind of results in other areas of
my life if the dollars to improve my
health if the goal is to improve my
relationship if the goal is to improve
my income if the goal is to improve
something in society what is it I need
to do now don’t get confused with what
you do with who you are don’t trip don’t
go on some type of ego trip about
talking about how bad you are none of us
do anything by ourselves develop an
appreciation for external support as
well as good fortune because all of
those things play a role the other thing
is don’t go overboard celebrate you must
meet with triumph and disaster and treat
those two Impostors just the same you
look at hey I did it I feel good about
that now you’re moving on to the next
thing things did not work out the way
you wanted them to work out you didn’t
produce the results you wanted to
produce hey miss that win some you lose
them next move
right on don’t confuse who you are with
what you do and make your mind fertile
ground for the seeds of opportunity
think if you want to experience a sense
of fulfillment you’ve got to have an
open mind so that ideas can come in
there and take root and grow so part of
beginning to have fertile ground you
know you got to break that ground up you
got to break up that hard crust because
if you don’t seem to fall there and the
wind can blow them away the lens of
doubt when you’re set in your mind and
you refuse to grow and you’re not open
to new ideas new methods new ways of
doing things if your mind is already
fixed
you become stagnant you can’t grow you
can’t have a sense of fulfillment you
become extremely cynical and negative
about everything you know it all so you
want to begin to look at life and have a
sense of curiosity not know it all you
want to keep learning keep growing
realize that we had a theme you never
find out how much you know until you
find out how little you know there are
some people you can’t tell anything they
have all the answers or I’ve already
done that so many of us count ourselves
out of things prematurely you don’t know
what the possibilities are up in there
so you want to be open you want to
continue to learn you want to continue
to grow you want to begin to know that
their unlimited ideas out here waiting
for you to latch on to them and if you
don’t take advantage of them when they
come your way because you’re so
closed-minded do understand somebody
else will
we’ve all had ideas then we did not act
on and looked around and somebody else
add the idea and go on with it so be
open and receptive become involved in
life live your fantasy most people go
through life not living their fantasy
going sitting up in the bleachers
looking out on the field looking out
into the arena wishing that they were
down there just fantasizing seeing
themselves running with the ball decide
to live your fantasy see in life you can
go through life you can come up with
reasons or you can come up with results
you can come up with excuses
you can come up with achievements you
can go through life blaming or you can
come up with solutions the choice is in
your hands satisfaction or despair we
can choose that so look at your life and
decide what it is that you want to do
that will give you a life a sense of
Worth someone said yet your life worth
is measured by your accomplishments and
not by your complaints you want to have
a fulfilling life decide not to make
your life predictable so some people
their lives very predictable they got a
little routine they do that and they
follow that day in and day out day in
and day out you don’t get much juice and
happiness out of life like that if you
are predictable you want to change it up
variety most certainly is a spice of
life
here’s something else one it created
greater sense of fulfillment challenge
your fears challenge them look those
fears in the face and take them on don’t
allow them to rule you decide that
you’re going to take some chances you’ve
got to be willing to risk if you’re not
willing to risk you can’t grow in life
life has no power when you’re not
willing to risk it’s that to laugh is to
risk appearing the fool to weep is to
risk appearing sentimental to reach out
for another is to risk involvement to
expose feelings is to risk exposing your
true self to place your ideas your
dreams before crowd is to risk their
loss to love is to risk not being loved
in return to live is to risk dying to
hope is to risk despair to trys to risk
failure but risk must be taken because
the greatest hazard in life is to risk
nothing the person who risk nothing does
nothing has nothing is nothing they may
avoid suffering in sorrow but they
cannot learn feel change grow love
and live chained by their certitudes
they are a slave they have profited
their freedom only a person who wrists
is free you
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