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peace and thinit waters diving deep once
again we are out here whoa breathing in
that good-ass prana baby in the heart of
nature and I got a question that came in
how can I become more likable so I’m
gonna share with you what’s helped me
along my journey cuz I really want to be
liked and a lot of people really want to
be liked ten secret behaviors of highly
likeable people I mean even at breakfast
yet can I get a Hello now every single
person you see on planet earth behaves
because they want to get something maybe
approval right we are social beings what
we do we do because we are responding to
somebody or something so anybody who
says I don’t want to be liked is
probably lying because every single
person you see does something to be
liked now here’s what you have to really
get
there is a reason why a lot of
entertainers a lot of artists even
comedians suffer from a lot of
depression because they are always
trying to be liked and then there are
people who just go about their own
business do what they love and they get
liked so what I’m gonna share with you
is how to be liked but at the same time
like yourself and become mentally
slow-motion aside now the first secret
behavior of highly likable people this
is what’s helped me along my journey is
to be original what say it again Ralph
originality you want to be liked be
original because you see we don’t
gravitate towards clones sometimes you
might hear a singer and you might hear
no is that the same thing but who the
hell is that because they sound exactly
like that person but it’s not them we’re
like I don’t want to hear them anymore
because we want the original an original
is always worth more than a copy and I
learned this through sharing videos that
I was making videos at a time where not
a lot of people were doing it so
everything I had to come up with was
coming from a very original place like
my intros all of this stuff right I
didn’t have anybody to see and say okay
that’s what’s working you see right now
when it we talk of content creation and
sharing and becoming your greatest
version and really fulfilling the dream
and goal and passion a lot of people are
seeing what works you’re like okay that
prank did really well I want to copy
that
or this person is starting this business
I want to do it exactly like how they
did it
but you’ve got to be original and then
you will find once you are original then
you will meet your reflections once
again you don’t control whether or not
people like you or not you can’t control
that
because liking somebody right people
like me has nothing to do with me I’m
just minding my own business it’s got
everything to do with them and what they
are resonating with at that moment in
time some people like you then they
don’t in the next day even the cat down
the road thinks that’s kind of strange
originality will make you more likeable
why because you are now expressing your
uniqueness like I want you to stand up
right now and then say okay what are
three unique things about me okay and if
you can’t call it with three unique
things chances are you’re copying
somebody right now
right I say my intro I say I’m pretty
strange and I’m very weird okay that’s
three easy no problem
I’m original that will make you highly
likeable the second secret behavior of
highly likeable people is total wait for
it vulnerability that’s right you got to
spill the beans you really you really
want to be liked like start confessing
all of those details you don’t want the
world to hear about because that’s what
we gravitate towards like totally open
and honest people and I’m still working
on even being more open and honest but
through the years I’ve shared so much
stuff that’s why I connect with amazing
beings every single day like the deep
divers I connect with are probably the
coolest people I know
true story and that’s only because
they’ve seen me go from this to this
right
only because by sharing what’s helped me
along my journey I’ve had to use myself
my own experience meaning I’ve had to be
totally open and honest and people
gravitate towards that so I want you to
ask yourself today
are you still holding back he’s still
hiding like I don’t wanna I don’t want
nobody to see me so once again if I
can’t see you how can I like you how can
I trust you because liking is based on
trust
if you trust somebody chances are you
like that person if you don’t trust that
person chances are you don’t like them
so trust comes from vulnerability right
when somebody ever been around somebody
who’s just telling you something
straight from their heart and you’re so
captivated you’re like get me some
tissue right now right you just want to
give them a hug and everything they’re
totally open which makes them more
likeable
now what’s the third secret behavior of
highly likeable people stand for
something like whatever you do just
stand for something be unapologetically
something like I am unapologetically
vegan I am an unapologetically third-eye
talker right I’ve spoken about like the
third eye past lives and Indigo’s now
all of these subjects these are subjects
most people wouldn’t touch with a
ten-foot pole
but we still dive into it because this
is what this whole channel is about but
you see in diving deeper in subjects
which a lot of people think what’s that
right pretty off-the-wall
it actually works in my favor why does
it work in my favor because it’s creator
it has created a split right some people
are gonna be like Oh what are you
talking about and other people are gonna
be like oh my gosh I always wanted to
say that thank you for saying here right
so when I made videos on Indigo’s a
while back do you know how many messages
I received thousands thank you so much
for making that video do you know how
many messages I receive for making the
one about the pineal gland thank you so
much because I too feel we’re living in
a kind of matrix and it’s great to see
more people awakening out of the deep
sleep if you don’t stand for anything
you will fall for anything slow motion
that side
if you don’t stand up for anything you
will fall for anything is he highly
likable people are pleased that they’re
not here to like people please not at
all no we don’t want people pleasers
because a people pleaser isn’t really
focused on something that just like
trying to please people and make people
happy no no no want to be really likable
you got to be able to be brave enough to
stand up for what you believe in I am a
moment of silence right you got to be
able to say okay yeah my third eye is
active right now you got to be able to
say yeah the world is maybe moving to a
different dimension with all of this
information being the Age of Aquarius I
tell you these kind of thoughts I’m
standing up for something so if you are
vibrating and resonating on that same
frequency you’re gonna vibe with the
message right but if I didn’t say
anything I was just all about
people-pleasing
singing Kumbaya under a tree well this
is a beautiful tree by the way come by
uh no we’re not gonna do that right now
right I would be holding back
information which I was really thinking
about once again your job is not to get
people to like you your job is to like
slow motion inside and make sure you’re
coming from a truthful or authentic
place it’s not about like or dislike
it’s about authenticity right which
makes us really like people people who
are authentic what’s the fourth secret
behavior highly likeable people won’t
highly likeable people don’t stick to
the script they don’t follow the rules
they are not following the crowd they
are doing something you haven’t seen
before can I get a hello right who else
is doing that right so ask yourself what
am i doing that nobody else is doing
because that’s how you stand out from
the crowd that’s how people notice you
most of us we don’t do that you might
see someone who’s very popular and say
okay I’m gonna follow in the footsteps
of that person but what worked for them
probably won’t work for you no in fact
it definitely won’t you got it you got
to come up with your own your own style
and your own uniqueness something that
makes you stand out and when you don’t
stick to the script
is more fun that way right a lot of the
times like I was inspired by people who
just quit their job and just went on
holiday I’m like how did you do that
right back in the days when I was just
stuck in a dead-end job boring like just
walking around like a zombie I was
reading stories about people who are
only working like five hours a week I’m
like how
by five hours a week that’s what I do I
do less than that right now
yet I create infinite abundance we’ll
come to that later so I was saying okay
why do I like these people so much they
don’t even know how much I like them
because they are inspiring me to become
my greatest version by not sticking to
the script they’re saying like you can
do whatever you want on this planet you
can travel the world you can go with
your partner to some exotic location and
make love all night long all night long
right and you don’t have to worry about
it I was like wow you can really do that
right they definitely gave me something
to think about only because they weren’t
sticking to the script now you probably
got people in both is right in your ears
saying do this
go and get a regular job you will only
be this you will only be that they’re
sticking to the script and a lot of the
times were around these people and it
doesn’t feel good
that’s why a lot of us we like rock
stars who say hey just do whatever you
want and forget about it right because
we talk about the fifth secret behavior
highly likable people they show you it’s
okay to be something like I’m showing
you it’s okay to make a video without
editing a video and still live in
infinite abundance I’m showing you it’s
okay to say seven day vegan challenge
and be proud that you love animals and
still inspire millions of people I’m
showing you it’s okay to talk about the
third eye and the matrix and still be
incredibly rich
I’m showing you you can go against the
grain and still have a pretty awesome
time right because for so long we’ve had
these programs which says I can’t do
this highly likeable people show you
it’s okay to be something they will show
you it’s okay to be kind and still be
and still not be taken for hope right
highly likable people will show you it’s
okay to be yourself right they will show
you miracles
literally that is why we gravitate
towards them because they are showing us
it’s okay to be who we are
unapologetically now number six seven
day vegan challenge got to throw it in
here now sharing when I first made this
channel a while back I said I gotta talk
about my amazing food journey I’ve got
to talk about how I got up from the
toilet and was actually able to go
outside for a change
cuz I switched my whole diet over right
started to eat more papaya
I had to share it highly likeable people
are sharing their food journey right now
right I’m just like ignore of people on
Instagram just like sharing like recipes
and smoothies do you know how grateful I
am for you like thank you cuz like they
take like hours trying to arrange
everything like in the perfect order
like the bananas they’re like flax seeds
I’m like how the hell’d you do that not
only that they take a beautiful picture
and they post it up so they are sharing
their food experience right they share
these delicious smoothies full of like
strawberries banana
they got hemp powder in their life then
they they make it look so beautiful
these are highly likeable people because
they are sharing their food journey like
some people make videos like I’ve done a
lot of people are doing they share their
recipes they share all of this great
food information and they just give it
away for free like they could actually
charge for that in a DVD or something
right who watches DVDs anymore nobody
knows right but they actually share
their food story their way sharing shout
out to all the people right now making
food videos cuz I’ve got to give you a
big shout out I know what goes into it
and I know a lot of these people right I
know a lot of them right the super big
ones we’re friends so shout out to you
keep doing it you know who you are
and those are highly likable people
because they give freely from the heart
they want to help humanity’s health
improve by eating a more plant-based
diet okay they are there to help people
all the time now let’s talk about the
seventh secret behavior of highly
likeable people now highly likeable
people don’t need to be validated all
the time you see that’s the difference
between some people who are the beginner
like me like me like me they’re always
trying to seek validation like when we
talk of content creation you could make
a video which you spend like three weeks
just because you want people to like the
video and for it to go viral that’s like
why a lot of people have depression I’m
a psychologist so I work with people to
get out of that state I’m trying to show
you you even become more likeable when
your aim is not to be validated which
means you are not trying to please the
crowd slow motion that side right we do
it we do it we will do as many slow
motions as we want baby
right but you see a lot of people you
might be on Instagram on these social
media sites or even Ralph smart or
common you might be on these sites and
you want to post pictures right off how
great your body looks and that’s
beautiful but then you’re like am i
posting it for me what am i posting it
because I want other people to like how
I look and what I’ve realized because I
used to be the same way I used to post
nude right nude selfies all the time do
you remember he remember right and guess
what I was like okay this has got a
I’ve got to do it for myself and it’s
not easy to do like even making videos
got it like have a balance of creating
for yourself and then creating for other
people that’s where the entertainment
comes in the problem is though a lot of
us are pure like we do for others only
because we want to get there accrue and
that’s why a lot of people have tons of
depression why because you want
validating yourself to begin with are
you gonna validate yourself first and if
people like it that’s beautiful because
everybody has this need to be like it’s
natural is healthy you want to look good
I want you to look good for goodness
sakes you look fantastic by the way Oh
what’s number eight the eight the secret
behavior highly likable people have is
that they like themselves that’s right
is that simple like they love themselves
they don’t even like themselves they
love themselves they’re like yeah I know
I’m amazing unapologetically now in our
society we talk about the ego like a lot
of the times under my Instagram I say
inspiring over 78 million people right
and this is what highly likable people
do Muhammad Ali highly likable but he
was some people might say he had a big
ego no he didn’t
he just knew how great he was he said
I’m the greatest and he was why because
he said it which made him highly likable
he was assertive he was confident and he
was proud because he knew the talent he
had he was a highly likable person
because of that
we’ve been programmed to say okay I’ve
just got to be humble I’m a nobody I’m
no good you see by being so humble a lot
of people end up hating themselves
because they are afraid to shine
you came here to shine therefore you
gotta start liking yourself you got to
start loving yourself a hundred percent
to say yes I’m proud of what I’m doing
now
highly likable people don’t just talk a
good talk yeah yeah yeah no they’ve
actually got proof to back it up so a
highly likeable person would say okay
I’m a great scientist and then they’ll
show you some inventions and you’ll be
like yeah you’re right some people will
say okay I inspire Millions then they’ll
show you the proof and then you’re like
okay yeah you’re right they have
something to back up what they’re
talking about
okay they always have something to back
up what they’re talking about
the proof
the proof is in the pudding baby what’s
the next one number nine highly likable
we’ll always be polite when they can you
see
nobody likes rude people why why don’t
we like rude people because you see when
someone is very rude they create
separation when someone is very polite
they it’s like open invitation say hey
come to my house for dinner no don’t
come actually come in come inside right
like that
highly likeable we gravitate towards
kind people for reason nobody likes a
stingy mofo right we don’t like stingy
people we don’t like heartless people we
like caring people we like compassionate
people highly likeable people are caring
people they’re compassionate they always
think about others sometimes even before
they think about themselves that is why
being highly likeable is great but
caution if you are very highly likeable
ask yourself today am i taking an am I
taking am I taking enough care of myself
am I taking enough care of myself
because it’s not just about being liked
all the time you gotta once again like
yourself it’s not just about helping
people all the time it’s about helping
yourself you can only help others when
you get yourself out of the projects or
get yourself out of that building or get
yourself out of that whoa my gosh you’re
in the zoo get out of there come into
okay so be polite at all times what I
always remind myself is sometimes when
you around people you don’t want to be
so nice because we’re told not to trust
people don’t talk to strangers but
always give people a chance because you
never know who you might meet and we can
talk about the last one and then we do a
bonus one even right the tenth secret
behavior of highly likeable people is
that highly likeable people always seek
to inspire people to become their
greatest versions and in that process
they don’t really harm people
you see people say gosh Ralph how did
you attract so many people to this
channel I said because when I first made
this channel I said okay I know what it
takes to get a viral video I’ve got
videos with millions of views and stuff
actually easy what’s a lot harder though
is to create an audience right that’s a
lot harder
trust me try it out and YouTube is one
of the hardest platforms to create an
audience that’s why a lot of people make
videos and they stop ask any youtuber
how hard it is they’ve been doing this
for years so highly likable people
always about lifting people up instead
of tearing people down at the same time
they’re not sugarcoat it like they don’t
sugarcoat the truth like I will tell you
hey you better check out your water is
probably full of fluoride oh my gosh I
don’t like your alpha angle nothing to
do with me I’m just telling you what I
feel baby right it’s not my job if you
like me or not I am NOT concerned I like
myself that’s all that matters
right they don’t have this concern about
being liked
highly likable people but ultimately
they still seek they do seek to help
people more than they do Tom okay so
there you have it let me throw in a
bonus one you want to be highly likable
people you want to be highly likeable
highly likeable person don’t be afraid
of making mistakes like show people how
you’re not so perfect because then that
will help us all out cuz nobody is
perfect I’ve never seen a perfect person
in fact will pretty will got a lot of
dirty laundry baby and it feels
fantastic feel so good to be alive baby
can I get a Hello and I’m a beautiful
day whoa breathing in that good ass
product have a good one infinite what is
diving deep once again stay well stay
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peace and thinit waters diving deep once
again we are out here whoa breathing in
that good-ass prana baby in the heart of
nature and I got a question that came in
how can I become more likable so I’m
gonna share with you what’s helped me
along my journey cuz I really want to be
liked and a lot of people really want to
be liked ten secret behaviors of highly
likeable people I mean even at breakfast
yet can I get a Hello now every single
person you see on planet earth behaves
because they want to get something maybe
approval right we are social beings what
we do we do because we are responding to
somebody or something so anybody who
says I don’t want to be liked is
probably lying because every single
person you see does something to be
liked now here’s what you have to really
get
there is a reason why a lot of
entertainers a lot of artists even
comedians suffer from a lot of
depression because they are always
trying to be liked and then there are
people who just go about their own
business do what they love and they get
liked so what I’m gonna share with you
is how to be liked but at the same time
like yourself and become mentally
slow-motion aside now the first secret
behavior of highly likable people this
is what’s helped me along my journey is
to be original what say it again Ralph
originality you want to be liked be
original because you see we don’t
gravitate towards clones sometimes you
might hear a singer and you might hear
no is that the same thing but who the
hell is that because they sound exactly
like that person but it’s not them we’re
like I don’t want to hear them anymore
because we want the original an original
is always worth more than a copy and I
learned this through sharing videos that
I was making videos at a time where not
a lot of people were doing it so
everything I had to come up with was
coming from a very original place like
my intros all of this stuff right I
didn’t have anybody to see and say okay
that’s what’s working you see right now
when it we talk of content creation and
sharing and becoming your greatest
version and really fulfilling the dream
and goal and passion a lot of people are
seeing what works you’re like okay that
prank did really well I want to copy
that
or this person is starting this business
I want to do it exactly like how they
did it
but you’ve got to be original and then
you will find once you are original then
you will meet your reflections once
again you don’t control whether or not
people like you or not you can’t control
that
because liking somebody right people
like me has nothing to do with me I’m
just minding my own business it’s got
everything to do with them and what they
are resonating with at that moment in
time some people like you then they
don’t in the next day even the cat down
the road thinks that’s kind of strange
originality will make you more likeable
why because you are now expressing your
uniqueness like I want you to stand up
right now and then say okay what are
three unique things about me okay and if
you can’t call it with three unique
things chances are you’re copying
somebody right now
right I say my intro I say I’m pretty
strange and I’m very weird okay that’s
three easy no problem
I’m original that will make you highly
likeable the second secret behavior of
highly likeable people is total wait for
it vulnerability that’s right you got to
spill the beans you really you really
want to be liked like start confessing
all of those details you don’t want the
world to hear about because that’s what
we gravitate towards like totally open
and honest people and I’m still working
on even being more open and honest but
through the years I’ve shared so much
stuff that’s why I connect with amazing
beings every single day like the deep
divers I connect with are probably the
coolest people I know
true story and that’s only because
they’ve seen me go from this to this
right
only because by sharing what’s helped me
along my journey I’ve had to use myself
my own experience meaning I’ve had to be
totally open and honest and people
gravitate towards that so I want you to
ask yourself today
are you still holding back he’s still
hiding like I don’t wanna I don’t want
nobody to see me so once again if I
can’t see you how can I like you how can
I trust you because liking is based on
trust
if you trust somebody chances are you
like that person if you don’t trust that
person chances are you don’t like them
so trust comes from vulnerability right
when somebody ever been around somebody
who’s just telling you something
straight from their heart and you’re so
captivated you’re like get me some
tissue right now right you just want to
give them a hug and everything they’re
totally open which makes them more
likeable
now what’s the third secret behavior of
highly likeable people stand for
something like whatever you do just
stand for something be unapologetically
something like I am unapologetically
vegan I am an unapologetically third-eye
talker right I’ve spoken about like the
third eye past lives and Indigo’s now
all of these subjects these are subjects
most people wouldn’t touch with a
ten-foot pole
but we still dive into it because this
is what this whole channel is about but
you see in diving deeper in subjects
which a lot of people think what’s that
right pretty off-the-wall
it actually works in my favor why does
it work in my favor because it’s creator
it has created a split right some people
are gonna be like Oh what are you
talking about and other people are gonna
be like oh my gosh I always wanted to
say that thank you for saying here right
so when I made videos on Indigo’s a
while back do you know how many messages
I received thousands thank you so much
for making that video do you know how
many messages I receive for making the
one about the pineal gland thank you so
much because I too feel we’re living in
a kind of matrix and it’s great to see
more people awakening out of the deep
sleep if you don’t stand for anything
you will fall for anything slow motion
that side
if you don’t stand up for anything you
will fall for anything is he highly
likable people are pleased that they’re
not here to like people please not at
all no we don’t want people pleasers
because a people pleaser isn’t really
focused on something that just like
trying to please people and make people
happy no no no want to be really likable
you got to be able to be brave enough to
stand up for what you believe in I am a
moment of silence right you got to be
able to say okay yeah my third eye is
active right now you got to be able to
say yeah the world is maybe moving to a
different dimension with all of this
information being the Age of Aquarius I
tell you these kind of thoughts I’m
standing up for something so if you are
vibrating and resonating on that same
frequency you’re gonna vibe with the
message right but if I didn’t say
anything I was just all about
people-pleasing
singing Kumbaya under a tree well this
is a beautiful tree by the way come by
uh no we’re not gonna do that right now
right I would be holding back
information which I was really thinking
about once again your job is not to get
people to like you your job is to like
slow motion inside and make sure you’re
coming from a truthful or authentic
place it’s not about like or dislike
it’s about authenticity right which
makes us really like people people who
are authentic what’s the fourth secret
behavior highly likeable people won’t
highly likeable people don’t stick to
the script they don’t follow the rules
they are not following the crowd they
are doing something you haven’t seen
before can I get a hello right who else
is doing that right so ask yourself what
am i doing that nobody else is doing
because that’s how you stand out from
the crowd that’s how people notice you
most of us we don’t do that you might
see someone who’s very popular and say
okay I’m gonna follow in the footsteps
of that person but what worked for them
probably won’t work for you no in fact
it definitely won’t you got it you got
to come up with your own your own style
and your own uniqueness something that
makes you stand out and when you don’t
stick to the script
is more fun that way right a lot of the
times like I was inspired by people who
just quit their job and just went on
holiday I’m like how did you do that
right back in the days when I was just
stuck in a dead-end job boring like just
walking around like a zombie I was
reading stories about people who are
only working like five hours a week I’m
like how
by five hours a week that’s what I do I
do less than that right now
yet I create infinite abundance we’ll
come to that later so I was saying okay
why do I like these people so much they
don’t even know how much I like them
because they are inspiring me to become
my greatest version by not sticking to
the script they’re saying like you can
do whatever you want on this planet you
can travel the world you can go with
your partner to some exotic location and
make love all night long all night long
right and you don’t have to worry about
it I was like wow you can really do that
right they definitely gave me something
to think about only because they weren’t
sticking to the script now you probably
got people in both is right in your ears
saying do this
go and get a regular job you will only
be this you will only be that they’re
sticking to the script and a lot of the
times were around these people and it
doesn’t feel good
that’s why a lot of us we like rock
stars who say hey just do whatever you
want and forget about it right because
we talk about the fifth secret behavior
highly likable people they show you it’s
okay to be something like I’m showing
you it’s okay to make a video without
editing a video and still live in
infinite abundance I’m showing you it’s
okay to say seven day vegan challenge
and be proud that you love animals and
still inspire millions of people I’m
showing you it’s okay to talk about the
third eye and the matrix and still be
incredibly rich
I’m showing you you can go against the
grain and still have a pretty awesome
time right because for so long we’ve had
these programs which says I can’t do
this highly likeable people show you
it’s okay to be something they will show
you it’s okay to be kind and still be
and still not be taken for hope right
highly likable people will show you it’s
okay to be yourself right they will show
you miracles
literally that is why we gravitate
towards them because they are showing us
it’s okay to be who we are
unapologetically now number six seven
day vegan challenge got to throw it in
here now sharing when I first made this
channel a while back I said I gotta talk
about my amazing food journey I’ve got
to talk about how I got up from the
toilet and was actually able to go
outside for a change
cuz I switched my whole diet over right
started to eat more papaya
I had to share it highly likeable people
are sharing their food journey right now
right I’m just like ignore of people on
Instagram just like sharing like recipes
and smoothies do you know how grateful I
am for you like thank you cuz like they
take like hours trying to arrange
everything like in the perfect order
like the bananas they’re like flax seeds
I’m like how the hell’d you do that not
only that they take a beautiful picture
and they post it up so they are sharing
their food experience right they share
these delicious smoothies full of like
strawberries banana
they got hemp powder in their life then
they they make it look so beautiful
these are highly likeable people because
they are sharing their food journey like
some people make videos like I’ve done a
lot of people are doing they share their
recipes they share all of this great
food information and they just give it
away for free like they could actually
charge for that in a DVD or something
right who watches DVDs anymore nobody
knows right but they actually share
their food story their way sharing shout
out to all the people right now making
food videos cuz I’ve got to give you a
big shout out I know what goes into it
and I know a lot of these people right I
know a lot of them right the super big
ones we’re friends so shout out to you
keep doing it you know who you are
and those are highly likable people
because they give freely from the heart
they want to help humanity’s health
improve by eating a more plant-based
diet okay they are there to help people
all the time now let’s talk about the
seventh secret behavior of highly
likeable people now highly likeable
people don’t need to be validated all
the time you see that’s the difference
between some people who are the beginner
like me like me like me they’re always
trying to seek validation like when we
talk of content creation you could make
a video which you spend like three weeks
just because you want people to like the
video and for it to go viral that’s like
why a lot of people have depression I’m
a psychologist so I work with people to
get out of that state I’m trying to show
you you even become more likeable when
your aim is not to be validated which
means you are not trying to please the
crowd slow motion that side right we do
it we do it we will do as many slow
motions as we want baby
right but you see a lot of people you
might be on Instagram on these social
media sites or even Ralph smart or
common you might be on these sites and
you want to post pictures right off how
great your body looks and that’s
beautiful but then you’re like am i
posting it for me what am i posting it
because I want other people to like how
I look and what I’ve realized because I
used to be the same way I used to post
nude right nude selfies all the time do
you remember he remember right and guess
what I was like okay this has got a
I’ve got to do it for myself and it’s
not easy to do like even making videos
got it like have a balance of creating
for yourself and then creating for other
people that’s where the entertainment
comes in the problem is though a lot of
us are pure like we do for others only
because we want to get there accrue and
that’s why a lot of people have tons of
depression why because you want
validating yourself to begin with are
you gonna validate yourself first and if
people like it that’s beautiful because
everybody has this need to be like it’s
natural is healthy you want to look good
I want you to look good for goodness
sakes you look fantastic by the way Oh
what’s number eight the eight the secret
behavior highly likable people have is
that they like themselves that’s right
is that simple like they love themselves
they don’t even like themselves they
love themselves they’re like yeah I know
I’m amazing unapologetically now in our
society we talk about the ego like a lot
of the times under my Instagram I say
inspiring over 78 million people right
and this is what highly likable people
do Muhammad Ali highly likable but he
was some people might say he had a big
ego no he didn’t
he just knew how great he was he said
I’m the greatest and he was why because
he said it which made him highly likable
he was assertive he was confident and he
was proud because he knew the talent he
had he was a highly likable person
because of that
we’ve been programmed to say okay I’ve
just got to be humble I’m a nobody I’m
no good you see by being so humble a lot
of people end up hating themselves
because they are afraid to shine
you came here to shine therefore you
gotta start liking yourself you got to
start loving yourself a hundred percent
to say yes I’m proud of what I’m doing
now
highly likable people don’t just talk a
good talk yeah yeah yeah no they’ve
actually got proof to back it up so a
highly likeable person would say okay
I’m a great scientist and then they’ll
show you some inventions and you’ll be
like yeah you’re right some people will
say okay I inspire Millions then they’ll
show you the proof and then you’re like
okay yeah you’re right they have
something to back up what they’re
talking about
okay they always have something to back
up what they’re talking about
the proof
the proof is in the pudding baby what’s
the next one number nine highly likable
we’ll always be polite when they can you
see
nobody likes rude people why why don’t
we like rude people because you see when
someone is very rude they create
separation when someone is very polite
they it’s like open invitation say hey
come to my house for dinner no don’t
come actually come in come inside right
like that
highly likeable we gravitate towards
kind people for reason nobody likes a
stingy mofo right we don’t like stingy
people we don’t like heartless people we
like caring people we like compassionate
people highly likeable people are caring
people they’re compassionate they always
think about others sometimes even before
they think about themselves that is why
being highly likeable is great but
caution if you are very highly likeable
ask yourself today am i taking an am I
taking am I taking enough care of myself
am I taking enough care of myself
because it’s not just about being liked
all the time you gotta once again like
yourself it’s not just about helping
people all the time it’s about helping
yourself you can only help others when
you get yourself out of the projects or
get yourself out of that building or get
yourself out of that whoa my gosh you’re
in the zoo get out of there come into
okay so be polite at all times what I
always remind myself is sometimes when
you around people you don’t want to be
so nice because we’re told not to trust
people don’t talk to strangers but
always give people a chance because you
never know who you might meet and we can
talk about the last one and then we do a
bonus one even right the tenth secret
behavior of highly likeable people is
that highly likeable people always seek
to inspire people to become their
greatest versions and in that process
they don’t really harm people
you see people say gosh Ralph how did
you attract so many people to this
channel I said because when I first made
this channel I said okay I know what it
takes to get a viral video I’ve got
videos with millions of views and stuff
actually easy what’s a lot harder though
is to create an audience right that’s a
lot harder
trust me try it out and YouTube is one
of the hardest platforms to create an
audience that’s why a lot of people make
videos and they stop ask any youtuber
how hard it is they’ve been doing this
for years so highly likable people
always about lifting people up instead
of tearing people down at the same time
they’re not sugarcoat it like they don’t
sugarcoat the truth like I will tell you
hey you better check out your water is
probably full of fluoride oh my gosh I
don’t like your alpha angle nothing to
do with me I’m just telling you what I
feel baby right it’s not my job if you
like me or not I am NOT concerned I like
myself that’s all that matters
right they don’t have this concern about
being liked
highly likable people but ultimately
they still seek they do seek to help
people more than they do Tom okay so
there you have it let me throw in a
bonus one you want to be highly likable
people you want to be highly likeable
highly likeable person don’t be afraid
of making mistakes like show people how
you’re not so perfect because then that
will help us all out cuz nobody is
perfect I’ve never seen a perfect person
in fact will pretty will got a lot of
dirty laundry baby and it feels
fantastic feel so good to be alive baby
can I get a Hello and I’m a beautiful
day whoa breathing in that good ass
product have a good one infinite what is
diving deep once again stay well stay
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