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10 Things You Should NEVER Forget When Everything Falls Apart


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once again first thing in the day we’re
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what breathing in that good-ass prana
baby
ten things you should never forget when
everything falls apart it’s gonna fall
apart like that is life initiation have
you lost your job recently maybe your
relationship has ended or maybe you’re
just having a really bad day and we even
had breakfast yet can I get a Hello it’s
happened to me I lost my job no I didn’t
even have a job for a long time and I
felt worthless it’s hard hard hard hard
a lot of different stuff is happening to
us at different times to test us and
I’ve been tested oh yeah
and I’m gonna share with you what I
never forgot that helped me get through
it when we talk of becoming your
greatest version let’s start with the
first thing you should never forget when
everything falls apart because it’s
gonna fall apart baby but then it’s
gonna come back together you got to have
a sense of humor it’s not funny
have you ever been in a conversation
with your friend and then yeah they’re
really serious and then you start
laughing in the middle and you’re like
you’re like ‘no i shouldn’t actually be
laughing but you have to cuz you know
it’s like it’s too serious to take
serious and they’re like don’t laugh and
they’re so serious that they create so
much resistance that now their problem
is harder resistance makes stronger when
i didn’t have a job for a long time
I would be laughing to myself like oh my
god like laughing so much when it like
you don’t you just like you don’t know
what to do anymore
like you can either cry but we’ve been
doing that or just love laugh it off and
once you’re laughing that is a process
of alchemy that releases all of this
oxytocin okay like you get that when you
hug someone and all of a sudden you’re
like what am i laughing about but it
feels good and that’s what gets you
through it because that is the catalyst
for helping you have a great attitude
to becoming your greatest version it
slow motion that side but it’s not funny
Ralph
a lot of serious stuff is happening to
me I get it but at the same time being
serious so serious won’t help you
you see if you don’t laugh at yourself
you are gonna be in for a rude awakening
because let’s face it a lot of life is a
joke that moment the moment you realize
that is your awakening I get it now like
you don’t want to take all of life so
seriously
because most of it is made up don’t rip
honey see even the cat down the road is
laughing at them laugh what’s the second
thing you should never forget when
everything falls apart
perception baby
you have this amazing ability everybody
has it to perceive things in a different
way
okay many artists have a different
perception from other artists okay they
are unique in their perception and they
create great art now when bad things
happen bad things which really aren’t
bad they’re just there to challenge you
to push you to the next level
I was driving one day on the Pacific
Coast Highway coming back from the OSI
and guess what happened
yeah the car broke down I was like in
this zone where I just wanted to get
home but I wasn’t really paying
attention so I went into a gas station I
went on the curb and the car just just
went crazy
yeah I had to cool someone it was
terrible but I was thinking I was
sitting in the car for like three hours
they were like I’ll be with you soon I’m
like hurry up man got to go home got to
feed the cat down the road I had to
learn patience something I didn’t want
to do there and then but I realized if I
could change my perception I said wait a
minute
there is some Bob Marley I haven’t
listened to so I spent like that whole
time enjoying some great music great
reggae like sending emails because I
don’t really send a lot of email
sometimes I’m so busy so I used that
time to do something else I changed my
whole perception to say yeah what’s
happened this happened but what am I
gonna do about it
you see it’s not what happens to us that
really gets us is how we react and
respond and how you react and respond
has the power to change the whole
situation itself so after listening to
music when the guy came to my car I was
I was in such a good mood he was like oh
you show you you show you the one that
this happened to I’m like yeah it’s all
so gravy baby
goodness gracious he said then then we
just like had the greatest fun
okay perception is everything it creates
reality the third thing you should never
forget when everything falls apart talk
to me perspective you see some people
say gosh life is so terrible right now
I’m going through such a hard time I say
take a plane somewhere okay where they
don’t even have the internet but you
lose your phone for like five minutes
and then you have a panic attack oh my
gosh where’s my phone don’t worry about
it
I do the same thing look I’ve been to
certain countries where there is no
internet okay some people don’t even
have the basic resources that we take
for granted yet we’re complaining that
there’s no internet signal don’t worry
about it it’s a real issue because you
see everything is relative so I’m not
trying to say that that’s not important
because it is because you made it
important but I’m saying change your
perspective to say it’s not the UH it’s
not the end of the world right now like
the world has amended has it the trees
are still up there that’s great okay you
thought they were thought they were
blown away somewhere perspective is
everything look if you come closer to me
you’re gonna start seeing me in a very
different way that’s what I mean about
perspective many times it’s about angles
okay sometimes you need to move a bit to
this side to get a clearer view or move
a bit to this side to get even better
view okay perspective is everything when
dealing with life challenges
okay some people say I don’t have any
money yet wait you just came out of
Whole Foods caught me that’s serious
maybe it is but at the same time if you
change your perspective to say actually
I can still earn more right what is
stopping me today’s a new day baby
that’s perspective for you slow motion
that’s it okay
the fourth thing you should never forget
when everything falls apart is the POA
which is the plan of action you see it’s
a shock I get it sometimes things just
happen
unexpected gosh life is full of
surprises
and we don’t know how to deal with it
like what are we gonna do and we spend
all of that time ruminating on the
problem that it grows why Ralph because
whatever you focus on grows so when I
was searching for a job over a decade
ago I was like okay what’s my plan of
action I’m not gonna feel down because
nobody wants to hire me I said screw
that I’m going into nature baby can I
get a hello and it felt fantastic then I
actually got a job in a school and it
was it was great but then I actually
left to see you see you see the plan of
action the plan of action is saying okay
this is the problem what are we going to
do about it because me thinking about
the problem isn’t gonna change it
that’s so obvious Ralph but when it
happens it isn’t you see because we’re
in a shock so the plan of action in a
very practical way is to what I do if
something happens out of the blue that
whoa breathing in that girl’s prana baby
well we you see you got to calm down
gonna calm down
got a slow down you see once you calm
down you gain clarity a lot of fuss when
things happen that we don’t expect when
it’s really hard we get into a frenzy
and that is beautiful in the initial
stage but you see a lot of us we keep
doing that and then we make the problem
even bigger so once I started to calm
down once I started to calm down just a
chill like do that say chill then the
plan of action comes okay and it’s not
easy it definitely is not easy nobody
said it would be easy
this ain’t kindergarten baby this is
life kindergarten is actually pretty
difficult I don’t know which one did you
go through to work out what’s the fifth
thing you should never forget when
everything falls apart 7 day vegan
challenge what’s your life like what are
you eating these days when things aren’t
going your way you see what happens to a
lot of us
subconsciously let’s just say someone
shouts at you someone puts you into a
bad mood no you put yourself into a bad
mood you just allowed them to okay
let’s just say that happens aren’t you
shout at me I just woke up hey now you
go to the kitchen or maybe you go to
nature and then you eat foods which are
exactly the same vibration as that
person that shouted at you sometimes
when people are very panicky very
anxious they go and eat a lot of fried
foods because that’s the kind of
vibration of fried foods maybe you’ll
fry it up okay so what I do is I reverse
it if I’m having a really bad day that’s
when I have to stop Comfort eating what
am I talking about that means I gotta
buy blueberries strawberries figs dates
avocados lemons limes papaya bananas
yeah you get my drift okay because I
want to feel good right now cuz I’m not
feeling good right now so I gotta feel
good by eating foods that make me feel
good you see a lot of us when things go
have you ever has this ever happened to
you let’s just say something not good
has happened to you and then you go and
blast your music really loud it’s really
aggressive the song and then it only
makes it worse
so you actually now amplify what you’re
actually going through it slow motion
so what’s helped me along my journey is
to sometimes play classical music while
I’m eating a bunch of grapes and it does
wonders now the sixth thing you should
never forget when everything falls apart
you have to imagine you up on Who Wants
to Be a Millionaire are you gonna ask
the audience phone a friend
yeah let’s phone a friend right now
please let’s do that because you see a
lot of us we love to do everything by
ourselves a lot of us say I’ve got this
no you haven’t
you need help I need help sometimes I’m
going through something then I call on
the cat down the road I even call on the
squirrels and then I call you like help
me out I’m not someone that likes to ask
for help because I’m a Pisces and Pisces
they might twist their ankle and then
ask is your ankle okay what the hell is
going on I’m a really compassionate
person so I always look out for other
people but at the same time I’ve learned
along my journey you see you got to
practice the art of self-love which
means you got to love yourself by asking
sometimes when you need help there is no
shame in asking for something there is
no shame in asking for something in
asking calling a friend and saying look
I’m going through a really hard time I’m
not here to drain your energy but just I
just need to talk to you right now you
see it is a good friend they’ll say okay
I hear you you see and if you are
someone who is phoning a friend you
don’t have to like drain them off their
energy just go in cool like yeah I just
need someone to talk to Dada Dada Dada
and then you find that they’re not
drained and then you both lift each
other’s energy up okay so phone a friend
whenever things all apart they might
might give you another perspective it’s
happened to me along my journey
sometimes I ask people for advice they
say Ralph hey do that and I’m like okay
let’s go with him no shame baby no shame
what’s number seven the seventh thing
you should never forget when everything
falls apart
ups and downs
I want them cups and downs are what
makes the world go around look ups downs
there would be no ups without down so
every time being sought to fall apart
just realize that you need to fall down
to experience the ups that’s why you
call the UPS the UPS now what’s helped
me along my journey is to realize that
there are no ups and there are no downs
for me it’s about being in the now where
everything is neutral so sometimes
people say oh Ralph you must be feeling
so great
I’m like yeah when I was first making
videos I felt great as well but you see
a lot of us once again we create what I
call a trap where we love to separate
things we say okay when when I get a
million dollars I’m gonna be happier no
you won’t trust me okay
as a child think about this as a child
you had no money and you were playing on
swings and you were so happy right I was
playing on the monkey bars baby and I
was so happy so happiness is something
you create you see a lot of us we have
externalized our happiness we say when I
get this job I will be happy so what
I’ve realized along my journey is to say
yes it might add to your happiness but
it all starts from within and whenever
things start to fall apart just realize
that the Downs you have right now are
only gonna make the ups feel even so
much better baby
can I get a Hello number eight there is
a lesson when things fall apart I didn’t
want to learn certain lessons along my
journey when my life was crumbling right
before my eyes it felt like the world
was ending and I would never get my life
back and then I said this I said okay
what is the lesson I can learn maybe
just maybe
maybe this is a time to reflect you see
a lot of us we don’t realize when things
fall apart it is not by accident you
gotta find the lesson in that okay so if
your life is crumbling right before your
eyes see ask yourself what can I learn
from this experience is there something
the universe is trying to tell me I
realized when I was needing great foods
my body was talking to me through
metaphors like I was on the toilet for a
long time everything was falling apart
there was a lesson for me there to say
okay we’re out if you don’t change your
diet things ain’t gonna be too good so
what I thought was actually bad was
actually a blessing in disguise
slow motion that’s like because then I
woke up with a bunch of strawberries in
my mouth baby the night thing you should
never forget when everything falls apart
is that everybody you see is going
through something right now you aren’t
the only one and you got to realize this
nobody said it would be easy I see
challenges as runs on the ladder okay
you want to go to the next level you
need a new challenge and new challenges
come with greater difficulty which means
in evolving to become your greatest
version
going to the next level everything will
fall apart like when I’m learning
something new sometimes I’m playing the
guitar I want to learn a new song I
can’t do it everything is falling apart
nobody said it would be easy but at the
same time I can be patient if I can
stick with it I’ll end up playing it
after a few years and this it will be
great ok we want it easy we want to easy
want things now we want it simple but
nothing that comes easy is worth having
you got to work for it you got to sweat
for it you don’t have to do it actually
just come into nature and then relax for
it but it’s never gonna be as easy as
you think if you don’t put in the
practice if you don’t respect the craft
and the more you do that the easier it
will become the 10 thing you should
never forget when everything falls apart
that everything is falling apart because
everything is reshaping itself to come
together certain times you might lose
certain friends I did said where’d you
go nobody knows but I realized that my
frequency was changing the universe was
now making space for new people to enter
into my life because I was speaking
about crazy stuff beautiful stuff weird
stuff that these people were accepting
me for
okay the Sun will rise again just say
that three times whenever just say that
just say that three times just say that
three times whenever things start to
fall apart the Sun will rise again Sun
will rise again slow it down
the Sun will rise again yes okay you
need seasons to experience them to
appreciate them that’s it right there
what you think is bad
cuz it’s falling apart could be the
greatest blessing in disguise because
once you let go not only do you feel
free up but there’s a whole weight of
your shoulders have a beautiful day
whoa breathing in that good ass prana
baby it feels so good to be alive can I
get a hello infinite waters diving deep
once again without hit we in nature baby stay well stay healthy

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