Signs You’re Holding Yourself Back

peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again signs you’re holding yourself
back can I get a Hello in becoming your
greatest version there are things we all
need to stop doing to ourselves
so I have what I call to stop holding
yourself back alone beep beep beep and
it goes off every single time I feel I’m
holding myself back whether you want to
travel start a music career leave a
terrible relationship I don’t blame you
stop eating healthier I don’t blame you
what is holding you back ok
it all starts with seeing the signs if
you start a conversation with one day
and n your conversation with one day or
start your conversation with Once Upon a
Time and end your conversation with once
upon a time chances are you are holding
yourself back once upon a time when the
grass was green I used to run well the
grass is still green and you can still
run ok what about one day I will have
lots of time to spend with you I take
off the one day and I say I will and it
is so powerful because words are the
commands that govern every single action
whatever you say is usually gonna happen
if you say I will chances are you’re
gonna do it if you say one day or once
upon a time forget about it if you are a
good talker chances are you’re holding
yourself back what do I mean if you talk
and talk and talk but don’t have any
you don’t back it up with radical action
chances are you’re holding yourself back
we’ve all been in front of someone who
is just rambling and the problem is when
you’re just talking and talking about
what you want to do a lot of the times
you’re focusing on problems when you
start stepping into the radical action
now you focus on the solutions because
action is all about solution and that’s
what’s helped me along my journey if you
are making a thousand and one excuses
chances are you’re holding yourself back
because excuses justify where we are I
can’t do it I can’t no no I can’t do it
okay we’ve got a million excuses for
everything that’s a big sign you’re
holding yourself back what else you need
external validation that has become your
green light for me it’s wonderful to get
approval but at the same time if that
now governs what you do and don’t do
chances are you’re holding yourself back
what else the waiting game when you are
waiting for the perfect moment you’re
holding yourself back and you don’t even
know it
I love talking to people and they say
once again one day once upon a time we
always are waiting for that perfect
moment which never comes because life
itself is fluid you see there is no
perfect moment we have to create the
perfect moment we have to make the best
of any moment we are in to help elevate
ourselves
to the highest level what else if you
are constantly thinking you can do
everything by yourself that’s a sign
you’re holding yourself back
that was me along my early journey I
said forget about it I don’t need
anybody and boy was I wrong
why because let’s face it we live in a
world full of lots of people so imagine
if I connect with you you connect with
me guess what we can help each other out
and your life source but as long as you
feel no I’m independent nobody is
independent because we live in an
interdependent world and planning ok
what else you constantly are judging
yourself and criticizing yourself
shouting it yourself that’s not a good
sign that’s a sign you are holding
yourself back now what happens when you
start to judge yourself immediately
you don’t trust what you’re doing
anymore and I saw it alone my early
journey when I used to talk down myself
but the moment you start praising
yourself treating yourself with a little
bit more care great things happen what
else you are a perfectionist chances are
that’s a sign you are holding yourself
back I’ve seen there is no perfect no
perfection here I’m sorry
there is only practice and that is why
it is ok to make mistakes
okay because as long as you want to get
everything right chances are you are
gonna do anything what else if you are
always trying to please other people
if you make that your sole objective
chances are you are holding yourself
back because people that love the people
please all the time they end up under
other people’s jurisdiction but once you
start doing it from your heart space the
pressure just disappears okay also if
you are afraid to fail then you’re not
gonna try chances are that’s a sign
you’re holding yourself back I found a
long life journey that just as long as
you are doing something hopefully
productive but even if you’re relaxing
that could be the most productive thing
you’re doing in the day then that’s a
good sign you are helping yourself
become your greatest version and that’s
what I do along my journey if you are
getting used to the mister or missus
serious face all the time that’s a sign
you’re holding yourself back look there
was a time where I thought that was the
only face I could make and then I tried
to stop smiling and it worked okay a
smile is not that bad don’t worry about
it that helps us create more mental
health physical health emotional health
just by loosening up and that propels us
in the direction of our true desires and
lastly
if you always are running away from a
certain fear that you really should face
by now chances are you’re holding
yourself back now I’ve seen that we all
have so many fears but you gotta face
that’s what life is all about I was
afraid of moving out of my comfort zone
so I booked a one-way to get to
California and I never looked back but
that fear was serving me
okay certain fears if you get past them
they’re gonna open up this wellspring of
amazingness so there you have it don’t
hope they have it don’t hold yourself
back anymore with you infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy