you got rich kids who who don’t know
they purpose in life it’s not the hair
that you would though baby it’s how you
play your hair
it’s obsessed or average one of the two
so pick just pick get a t-shirt obsessed
or get another t-shirt average the kid
that’s sitting right now in a desk and
saw this in a feed and you hate your job
I’m not stand up get the out of here and
do you what’s up believe nation that’s
Evan my one word is believe and I
believe in you I believe you have
Michael Jordan level talent at something
and I want you to find it embrace it and
use it to make a difference now I
started the belief life series to once a
week tackle topics that are outside just
a realm of building a business so to
help you live your best believe life
today we’re gonna look at how you need
to become obsessed or be average also if
you want to know what Eric Thomas Grant
Cardone Will Smith and other successful
entrepreneurs have to say about building
unstoppable confidence check out my new
2:54 confidence series where every day
for the next 254 days I will send you a
30 second to five minute video for free
every morning to help you build your
confidence check out the link in the
description below I have a ritual where
even if you and my closest friend I have
boundaries so just because it’s my
company it doesn’t mean I can take calls
all day right I have boundaries so you
can’t call me in a certain time why I’m
working confidence where do you get your
self-confidence you can’t buy it at the
store folks can’t dress it up can’t eat
it you can’t buy it
you can’t even manufacture it yourself
you have to go build self-confidence
I was excited about taking a shot the
fact that it was so strange you know as
an artist it was it was a fun to get out
on that on that limb and hoping it
doesn’t break under your feet
[Music]
okay let’s kick it off with rule number
one wanted bad enough with Eric Thomas I
need you to wanted as bad as you want to
breathe listen to me very closely
listen to me when I wrote my dreams and
my goals down look when I wrote my
dreams and my goals down take a look at
it guys when you want to succeed as bad
as you want to breathe I’m telling y’all
I’m telling y’all the four-year degree
the masters the PhD when I went after
I’m showing you right where I graduated
from that’s why I’m standing here
because I need y’all to see it I need
y’all to see where I watched across the
stage this is where I did it y’all I
wanted as bad as I wanted to breathe I
got up in the morning and I walked them
down
give me before I get out of here you
ain’t got it when you you ain’t gotta
had the best hand in life I’m leaving
you with this you ain’t gotta had the
best hand in life you ain’t got to start
with the two-parent background
you ain’t got to start with wealth you
ain’t got to start with your parents
graduated it’s not the hand that you
dealt you got rich kids who own drugs
you got rich kids who committed suicide
you got rich kids who who don’t know
they purpose in life it’s not the hand
that you were dealt baby it’s how you
play your hand it’s your boy et said if
it was easy to do everybody would do it
I’m not saying it’s gonna be easy but
you have what it takes if you listen it
to make it happen so do me a favor get
up get out and go get some rule number
two be obsessed with Grant Cardone I
hear a lot of guys saying right now like
hey only do the things you want to do
dude I do stuff I don’t want to do every
single day okay so I don’t know who
these people are that don’t do the
things they don’t want to do maybe they
were given a business or something but
I’m gonna tell you something man if you
don’t do the things you don’t want to do
you’re not gonna grow your business you
won’t keep your business I’m telling you
you have to be willing to do you got to
be so obsessed that you don’t collect
care see an obsessed person doesn’t care
if they have to clean a toilet uh-huh
you know an obsessed person doesn’t care
if they if they don’t like that activity
but they have to do it you’re obsessed
you’re in it you do it anyway no matter
what I remember my mom told me one day
she’s like you know grant I love you
just the way you are because I tell I’m
telling her about all these dreams I
have as a child right yeah and I was
reminded
my sister told me like 30 years later
you know grant you’ve done a lot we love
you just the way you are and I’m like
dude I wonder how many times I’ve been
told that you know and the fact is so
what they love me just the way I am I
don’t I don’t love me just the way I am
which opens up to this whole field of
people that’s like just love yourself
the way you are look if you’re broke
you’re not living on purpose you don’t
like your job you can’t get away from
your job dude if you’re stuck in a house
you don’t like why would you want to
love that you should become obsessed
with hating it man it’s obsessed or
average one of the two so pick just pick
get a t-shirt obsessed or get another
t-shirt average which one would you be
more proud wearing right yeah who do I
want to be man who do I want to be how
do i how do I want to die man I want to
die all in rule number three dedicate
your life to your dream with Will Smith
I think was 94 something like that they
were open to Planet Hollywood I found
myself in a room with Arnold
Schwarzenegger Bruce Willis and sly and
I was like oh my god I got these three
guys in the room and I was like okay I
want to be the biggest movie star in the
world and I need you guys to tell me how
to do it and Arnold Schwarzenegger he
said he said if your movie is only big
in America it doesn’t matter you’ll be a
movie star only when you’re a movie star
in every country in the world you have
to travel you have to girl you have to
meet the people thanks for the tip fax
son fax that became the way that I
started looking at movies I wanted to be
in every country in the world in that
part of my career I refused to do
anything that wasn’t
in the best interest of the goal I had
set for myself and there’s probably a 12
year period of my life where I didn’t
take a drink
I have a drink where I didn’t go out in
weekends that I was so set on my goal it
created a serious circle of protection
and an elevation because I refused to do
anything that wasn’t in my best interest
it’s hugely important that if you have a
dream that you have to dedicate their
life to it and there every hour of every
day it has to be dedicated to bring it
into fruition the things that you dream
about move number four take life by its
throat with Gary Vaynerchuk just enough
enough enough
like living by somebody else’s rules is
a humongous mistake I just literally sat
down with five people under the age of
27 and it’s so refreshing it is so
refreshing if you have not jumped on the
bandwagon of doing exactly what the you
want to do which is skiing for the next
three years or working at a job that’s
not what your parents want or what
society wants this video is just called
enough enough make this little one two
minute video depends on when I finish
the piece of content that gets you to
stand up and take life by its throat do
something stopping scared stop letting
the way you were raised the fear as an
offense take that away let me be the
person I’ll take the blame I loved that
some of my employees are like my parents
don’t love what you’re saying good
parents because if you are playing
defense and if you are living a life
where your kids lives are the way you’re
being fulfilled you’re a loser
parents and so enough enough parents
imposing their way you want your kids to
be happy on your terms enough the kid
that’s sitting right now in a desk and
saw this in a feed and you hate your job
enough stand up get the out of here and
do you live your life you’ve got one
life do something about it and rule
number five the last one before a very
special bonus clip is focus with Tony
Robbins
everyone in this room knows how to
create you’re not a manager of your life
you’re a creator of your life or you
wouldn’t be in this room how do you
create your life you get hungry for
something don’t you who has done
something in your life that once seemed
difficult or impossible and now it’s
part of your life who’s got something in
your life in this area say I how did you
do it you created it three ways number
one you decided there’s something you
wanted so bad that you unleashed all
your desire you became obsessed with it
if it was a business or a car or a
relationship or a transformation in your
body if there’s something you want sin
vision and now it’s real it’s because
you didn’t just envision it you brought
so much emotion to it then now it’s in
your life it was once a dream it was
once a goal and now it’s in your life
how many have something like that in
your life now say I you may take it for
granted now hopefully not but it was
once just a vision may have seemed
impossible at one time so how did you do
it you started with a concrete vision of
what you wanted and you focused on it
continuously didn’t you where ever focus
goes energy flows you envision something
you got clear about it and then you
started thinking about all the reasons
why you wanted it you got excited about
it so this is what’s next for me now
I want this you may have dreamed about a
thought about and talked about it but
when you focus on something continuously
something magical happens you get
insights don’t you you overhear a
conversation he’s here something you
wouldn’t have heard if you didn’t have
that outcome or goal that you wanted so
badly who’s ever come up with something
obsessed about it didn’t even know how
to do it and it just happened and it
came together who’s that that experience
say I so why don’t we tap into that
power now for your business in life
you
now I’ve got a really special bonus
David Goggins clip on how to detest
mediocrities I think you’re really gonna
enjoy but before that the three
questions I want to make sure you’re
moving from just watching another video
into actually taking action in your life
or in your business so here are the
three questions you can think about them
for yourself write them down talk about
them with a friend or leave the answers
in the comments below one two three
question number one what are you
obsessed with making happy question
number two is to Bart’s how badly do you
want it and what are you willing to do
for it and question number three what
are you gonna do this week to focus on
making it happen thank you guys so much
for watching I believe in you I hope you
continue to believe in yourself and
whatever your one word is much love I’ll
I say what if a lot it sounds corny and
it sounds weak but it’s true one of the
recruiters said there’s not many black
Navy SEALs in fact I was a 36
african-american seal in history is in
over 60 years because the water you know
I mean people get mad at me it’s true
just get over it and so I was like man
what story would it be if my fat dumb
lying to be friends with people insecure
ass can overcome this and that what if
mentality like that that dreamer
mentality just would always fuel me it
was true in man what if I can be but if
I can be a seal man what if I can go
from wearing a quarter of mile now I run
205 miles what if I can go but just what
if I can go in and what if how would
that feel if I’m graduating kind of get
at that graduation thing I was talking
about 224th like the video I said then
I’ll watch this command officer stood up
and he said to the graduation guys
you’re graduating buds like 18 of them
he said we live in a society where
mediocrities often rewarded and we want
to say something about these men to test
mediocrity and I wanted to be a man that
the test mediocrity altruistic world
domination
honey Empire right I’m grateful I
understand why I’m here I think because
I am so open I wanted to think I see
it’s a bloody brief life all of you have
the potential for enormous success if
you want to know what Gary v-d-j Khalid
Oprah and others know about empire
building that most people miss check out
the link in the description for a free bonus video
they purpose in life it’s not the hair
that you would though baby it’s how you
play your hair
it’s obsessed or average one of the two
so pick just pick get a t-shirt obsessed
or get another t-shirt average the kid
that’s sitting right now in a desk and
saw this in a feed and you hate your job
I’m not stand up get the out of here and
do you what’s up believe nation that’s
Evan my one word is believe and I
believe in you I believe you have
Michael Jordan level talent at something
and I want you to find it embrace it and
use it to make a difference now I
started the belief life series to once a
week tackle topics that are outside just
a realm of building a business so to
help you live your best believe life
today we’re gonna look at how you need
to become obsessed or be average also if
you want to know what Eric Thomas Grant
Cardone Will Smith and other successful
entrepreneurs have to say about building
unstoppable confidence check out my new
2:54 confidence series where every day
for the next 254 days I will send you a
30 second to five minute video for free
every morning to help you build your
confidence check out the link in the
description below I have a ritual where
even if you and my closest friend I have
boundaries so just because it’s my
company it doesn’t mean I can take calls
all day right I have boundaries so you
can’t call me in a certain time why I’m
working confidence where do you get your
self-confidence you can’t buy it at the
store folks can’t dress it up can’t eat
it you can’t buy it
you can’t even manufacture it yourself
you have to go build self-confidence
I was excited about taking a shot the
fact that it was so strange you know as
an artist it was it was a fun to get out
on that on that limb and hoping it
doesn’t break under your feet
[Music]
okay let’s kick it off with rule number
one wanted bad enough with Eric Thomas I
need you to wanted as bad as you want to
breathe listen to me very closely
listen to me when I wrote my dreams and
my goals down look when I wrote my
dreams and my goals down take a look at
it guys when you want to succeed as bad
as you want to breathe I’m telling y’all
I’m telling y’all the four-year degree
the masters the PhD when I went after
I’m showing you right where I graduated
from that’s why I’m standing here
because I need y’all to see it I need
y’all to see where I watched across the
stage this is where I did it y’all I
wanted as bad as I wanted to breathe I
got up in the morning and I walked them
down
give me before I get out of here you
ain’t got it when you you ain’t gotta
had the best hand in life I’m leaving
you with this you ain’t gotta had the
best hand in life you ain’t got to start
with the two-parent background
you ain’t got to start with wealth you
ain’t got to start with your parents
graduated it’s not the hand that you
dealt you got rich kids who own drugs
you got rich kids who committed suicide
you got rich kids who who don’t know
they purpose in life it’s not the hand
that you were dealt baby it’s how you
play your hand it’s your boy et said if
it was easy to do everybody would do it
I’m not saying it’s gonna be easy but
you have what it takes if you listen it
to make it happen so do me a favor get
up get out and go get some rule number
two be obsessed with Grant Cardone I
hear a lot of guys saying right now like
hey only do the things you want to do
dude I do stuff I don’t want to do every
single day okay so I don’t know who
these people are that don’t do the
things they don’t want to do maybe they
were given a business or something but
I’m gonna tell you something man if you
don’t do the things you don’t want to do
you’re not gonna grow your business you
won’t keep your business I’m telling you
you have to be willing to do you got to
be so obsessed that you don’t collect
care see an obsessed person doesn’t care
if they have to clean a toilet uh-huh
you know an obsessed person doesn’t care
if they if they don’t like that activity
but they have to do it you’re obsessed
you’re in it you do it anyway no matter
what I remember my mom told me one day
she’s like you know grant I love you
just the way you are because I tell I’m
telling her about all these dreams I
have as a child right yeah and I was
reminded
my sister told me like 30 years later
you know grant you’ve done a lot we love
you just the way you are and I’m like
dude I wonder how many times I’ve been
told that you know and the fact is so
what they love me just the way I am I
don’t I don’t love me just the way I am
which opens up to this whole field of
people that’s like just love yourself
the way you are look if you’re broke
you’re not living on purpose you don’t
like your job you can’t get away from
your job dude if you’re stuck in a house
you don’t like why would you want to
love that you should become obsessed
with hating it man it’s obsessed or
average one of the two so pick just pick
get a t-shirt obsessed or get another
t-shirt average which one would you be
more proud wearing right yeah who do I
want to be man who do I want to be how
do i how do I want to die man I want to
die all in rule number three dedicate
your life to your dream with Will Smith
I think was 94 something like that they
were open to Planet Hollywood I found
myself in a room with Arnold
Schwarzenegger Bruce Willis and sly and
I was like oh my god I got these three
guys in the room and I was like okay I
want to be the biggest movie star in the
world and I need you guys to tell me how
to do it and Arnold Schwarzenegger he
said he said if your movie is only big
in America it doesn’t matter you’ll be a
movie star only when you’re a movie star
in every country in the world you have
to travel you have to girl you have to
meet the people thanks for the tip fax
son fax that became the way that I
started looking at movies I wanted to be
in every country in the world in that
part of my career I refused to do
anything that wasn’t
in the best interest of the goal I had
set for myself and there’s probably a 12
year period of my life where I didn’t
take a drink
I have a drink where I didn’t go out in
weekends that I was so set on my goal it
created a serious circle of protection
and an elevation because I refused to do
anything that wasn’t in my best interest
it’s hugely important that if you have a
dream that you have to dedicate their
life to it and there every hour of every
day it has to be dedicated to bring it
into fruition the things that you dream
about move number four take life by its
throat with Gary Vaynerchuk just enough
enough enough
like living by somebody else’s rules is
a humongous mistake I just literally sat
down with five people under the age of
27 and it’s so refreshing it is so
refreshing if you have not jumped on the
bandwagon of doing exactly what the you
want to do which is skiing for the next
three years or working at a job that’s
not what your parents want or what
society wants this video is just called
enough enough make this little one two
minute video depends on when I finish
the piece of content that gets you to
stand up and take life by its throat do
something stopping scared stop letting
the way you were raised the fear as an
offense take that away let me be the
person I’ll take the blame I loved that
some of my employees are like my parents
don’t love what you’re saying good
parents because if you are playing
defense and if you are living a life
where your kids lives are the way you’re
being fulfilled you’re a loser
parents and so enough enough parents
imposing their way you want your kids to
be happy on your terms enough the kid
that’s sitting right now in a desk and
saw this in a feed and you hate your job
enough stand up get the out of here and
do you live your life you’ve got one
life do something about it and rule
number five the last one before a very
special bonus clip is focus with Tony
Robbins
everyone in this room knows how to
create you’re not a manager of your life
you’re a creator of your life or you
wouldn’t be in this room how do you
create your life you get hungry for
something don’t you who has done
something in your life that once seemed
difficult or impossible and now it’s
part of your life who’s got something in
your life in this area say I how did you
do it you created it three ways number
one you decided there’s something you
wanted so bad that you unleashed all
your desire you became obsessed with it
if it was a business or a car or a
relationship or a transformation in your
body if there’s something you want sin
vision and now it’s real it’s because
you didn’t just envision it you brought
so much emotion to it then now it’s in
your life it was once a dream it was
once a goal and now it’s in your life
how many have something like that in
your life now say I you may take it for
granted now hopefully not but it was
once just a vision may have seemed
impossible at one time so how did you do
it you started with a concrete vision of
what you wanted and you focused on it
continuously didn’t you where ever focus
goes energy flows you envision something
you got clear about it and then you
started thinking about all the reasons
why you wanted it you got excited about
it so this is what’s next for me now
I want this you may have dreamed about a
thought about and talked about it but
when you focus on something continuously
something magical happens you get
insights don’t you you overhear a
conversation he’s here something you
wouldn’t have heard if you didn’t have
that outcome or goal that you wanted so
badly who’s ever come up with something
obsessed about it didn’t even know how
to do it and it just happened and it
came together who’s that that experience
say I so why don’t we tap into that
power now for your business in life
you
now I’ve got a really special bonus
David Goggins clip on how to detest
mediocrities I think you’re really gonna
enjoy but before that the three
questions I want to make sure you’re
moving from just watching another video
into actually taking action in your life
or in your business so here are the
three questions you can think about them
for yourself write them down talk about
them with a friend or leave the answers
in the comments below one two three
question number one what are you
obsessed with making happy question
number two is to Bart’s how badly do you
want it and what are you willing to do
for it and question number three what
are you gonna do this week to focus on
making it happen thank you guys so much
for watching I believe in you I hope you
continue to believe in yourself and
whatever your one word is much love I’ll
I say what if a lot it sounds corny and
it sounds weak but it’s true one of the
recruiters said there’s not many black
Navy SEALs in fact I was a 36
african-american seal in history is in
over 60 years because the water you know
I mean people get mad at me it’s true
just get over it and so I was like man
what story would it be if my fat dumb
lying to be friends with people insecure
ass can overcome this and that what if
mentality like that that dreamer
mentality just would always fuel me it
was true in man what if I can be but if
I can be a seal man what if I can go
from wearing a quarter of mile now I run
205 miles what if I can go but just what
if I can go in and what if how would
that feel if I’m graduating kind of get
at that graduation thing I was talking
about 224th like the video I said then
I’ll watch this command officer stood up
and he said to the graduation guys
you’re graduating buds like 18 of them
he said we live in a society where
mediocrities often rewarded and we want
to say something about these men to test
mediocrity and I wanted to be a man that
the test mediocrity altruistic world
domination
honey Empire right I’m grateful I
understand why I’m here I think because
I am so open I wanted to think I see
it’s a bloody brief life all of you have
the potential for enormous success if
you want to know what Gary v-d-j Khalid
Oprah and others know about empire
building that most people miss check out
the link in the description for a free bonus video
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