In many areas, we are getting used to
To account for the current situation,
And the discovery of alternatives.
So, it would be strange
Do not try to do the same
With marriage.
These basic options seem available
To organize our personal life:
First: Traditional marriage
Positive aspects: Constant possession of a loved one,
Commitment, ensuring children’s security,
Financial Stability and Social Integrity.
But there are also negative aspects:
Sexual boredom, indignation,
Lack of appreciation,
Suspicion of better alternatives abroad.
Option 2: Divorce
Positive aspects here:
New prospects for sexual arousal,
Put an end to repeated discontent,
And the possibility of considering all the problems of the past
Others wrong.
Negative aspects here:
Troubled children, financial chaos,
The probability of not having a better person,
In fact, it is our fault too!
Option 3:
Marriage conditional on the duration,
Which they negotiate every 10 years
Pros Here: The possibility of sexual excitement,
And a lot of appreciation and effort,
And relative safety of children.
But there are also drawbacks:
Insecurity, jealousy, terror of abandonment,
And there may not actually be a better person,
And hard to lead!
There is a fourth option:
Marriage with secret relationships,
Positive aspects: fragile stability,
With some excitement
But the negatives are: deception, jealousy, cheese
And a lot of shame!
What about multiple relationships at the same time? As a fifth option:
The pros here are: continuous sexual choices,
And a little bit of daily discontent.
But there are also drawbacks:
Not socially fit, a lot of jealousy around you,
Children may have trouble,
Disruption, exhaustion and professional chaos.
What about the sixth option?
The non-binding link person by person,
Pros are: Lots of sexual potential.
Negatives: worn unit, and the possibility of a lot of insecurity.
What about the seventh option?
Living together
Here are the positives:
Child care,
And gender diversity.
Cons, however:
Excessive idealism, a lot of jealousy, partying
And fight.
Option Eight: Tibet
Well, the pros here:
You have time to work and think
There are also drawbacks:
Unity and sexual humiliation.
We see a recurring theme:
Conflict between loyalty and freedom
We can invest in more loyalty,
But we will inevitably risk the suffering of boredom,
Lack of appreciation and sexual frustration.
Or we can invest in more freedom and risk chaos,
Lack of commitment, exhaustion, jealousy and humiliation.
It seems that whatever our choice would be very painful.
Choice is not between error and happiness,
But between the types of suffering we will eventually prefer.
That is why our quote is very favorite
Is the flowing, surging, gloomy and gloomy words of “Kirkgard”
From his book “Either / or”:
“Married and regret it
Do not get married, you will regret it too
Married or not married, will regret in all cases “
“I mock the absurdity of the world, you will regret it
Weep on them, you will regret too
I mock the absurdity of the world or cry over it,
“Trust a woman, she will regret
Do not trust her, you will regret too “
“Hang yourself, you will regret
Do not snoop yourself and regret it too
Hang yourself or do not snoop yourself, you will regret anyway
Whether you hanged yourself or did not sneeze yourself will regret in both cases! “
“This, sir, is the essence of all philosophy”
However we have a suggestion:
Human efforts should not be made in the restructuring of external relations
But to reconsider the humiliating main issue we have been dealing with while it is hidden:
Why is it difficult for others to love,
And why it is difficult, by extension, to live with them.
In other words, the answer may not lie
In a new kind of relationship as much as in improving emotional skills.
The solution to the maze of relationships should increase our understanding of how love is
And not just to facilitate the creation and expulsion of new lovers.
To account for the current situation,
And the discovery of alternatives.
So, it would be strange
Do not try to do the same
With marriage.
These basic options seem available
To organize our personal life:
First: Traditional marriage
Positive aspects: Constant possession of a loved one,
Commitment, ensuring children’s security,
Financial Stability and Social Integrity.
But there are also negative aspects:
Sexual boredom, indignation,
Lack of appreciation,
Suspicion of better alternatives abroad.
Option 2: Divorce
Positive aspects here:
New prospects for sexual arousal,
Put an end to repeated discontent,
And the possibility of considering all the problems of the past
Others wrong.
Negative aspects here:
Troubled children, financial chaos,
The probability of not having a better person,
In fact, it is our fault too!
Option 3:
Marriage conditional on the duration,
Which they negotiate every 10 years
Pros Here: The possibility of sexual excitement,
And a lot of appreciation and effort,
And relative safety of children.
But there are also drawbacks:
Insecurity, jealousy, terror of abandonment,
And there may not actually be a better person,
And hard to lead!
There is a fourth option:
Marriage with secret relationships,
Positive aspects: fragile stability,
With some excitement
But the negatives are: deception, jealousy, cheese
And a lot of shame!
What about multiple relationships at the same time? As a fifth option:
The pros here are: continuous sexual choices,
And a little bit of daily discontent.
But there are also drawbacks:
Not socially fit, a lot of jealousy around you,
Children may have trouble,
Disruption, exhaustion and professional chaos.
What about the sixth option?
The non-binding link person by person,
Pros are: Lots of sexual potential.
Negatives: worn unit, and the possibility of a lot of insecurity.
What about the seventh option?
Living together
Here are the positives:
Child care,
And gender diversity.
Cons, however:
Excessive idealism, a lot of jealousy, partying
And fight.
Option Eight: Tibet
Well, the pros here:
You have time to work and think
There are also drawbacks:
Unity and sexual humiliation.
We see a recurring theme:
Conflict between loyalty and freedom
We can invest in more loyalty,
But we will inevitably risk the suffering of boredom,
Lack of appreciation and sexual frustration.
Or we can invest in more freedom and risk chaos,
Lack of commitment, exhaustion, jealousy and humiliation.
It seems that whatever our choice would be very painful.
Choice is not between error and happiness,
But between the types of suffering we will eventually prefer.
That is why our quote is very favorite
Is the flowing, surging, gloomy and gloomy words of “Kirkgard”
From his book “Either / or”:
“Married and regret it
Do not get married, you will regret it too
Married or not married, will regret in all cases “
“I mock the absurdity of the world, you will regret it
Weep on them, you will regret too
I mock the absurdity of the world or cry over it,
“Trust a woman, she will regret
Do not trust her, you will regret too “
“Hang yourself, you will regret
Do not snoop yourself and regret it too
Hang yourself or do not snoop yourself, you will regret anyway
Whether you hanged yourself or did not sneeze yourself will regret in both cases! “
“This, sir, is the essence of all philosophy”
However we have a suggestion:
Human efforts should not be made in the restructuring of external relations
But to reconsider the humiliating main issue we have been dealing with while it is hidden:
Why is it difficult for others to love,
And why it is difficult, by extension, to live with them.
In other words, the answer may not lie
In a new kind of relationship as much as in improving emotional skills.
The solution to the maze of relationships should increase our understanding of how love is
And not just to facilitate the creation and expulsion of new lovers.
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