Most people will regard marriage as old-fashioned.
Isn’t it just that two people are doing things together?
Why do you still have to be red tape?
There are also some quirky antiques: churches, temples, hymns, wedding vows, and prayers.
Marriage is the religious custom left in the early days of mankind: it is simply stupid to the home;
Obviously it is not in line with modern social logic.
Marriage is to survive.
The core of marriage is to be restrained and to lower standards.
Once the breakup is broken, it will face a high price.
Then why are we getting married?
In the early years, we said to ourselves: This is the will of God, so we are married.
But now it’s not about God, but we have been determined not to get married, and the result is even worse.
On the one hand, your carefully selected acquaintances are present to witness that you will stick to the old.
You are willing to create a dilemma for yourself.
He looked back and admitted that it was a mistake.
At the same time, even if you want to clarify things,
It can be said that it will involve financial and legal disputes.
You have to know that the lawyers and accountants of both sides are enough to break you up.
It was completely over, but the results were very torn.
It’s quite strange to say that, in the midst of it, we seem to think that this is not bad;
Although it will be a bit uncomfortable, although it is difficult to break up,
But at least for both sides.
Historically, psychology has a well-known test called marshmallow;
Designed to measure whether a child has the ability to delay satisfaction:
See if you have the ability to consider longer-term issues.
Give a few three-year-old little boy a marshmallow,
At the same time tell them: If you can stick to the first bite for 5 minutes, they can get the second one.
As a result, many children failed to stick to the end.
Looking at the cotton candy in front of me, it’s too fragrant, I can’t wait to eat it later.
I can’t wait to wait for the reward.
More critically, observations have found that these children will be depressed in the future because they cannot control their impulses;
It costs more than a child who will consider long-term benefits.
Marriage is also impossible.
There are too many things that seem to be in jerk.
We want to escape because of anger; new love is more pleasing and wants to abandon old love.
Looking around, there seems to be no exit.
How much money it costs, it’s too shameful, it takes a few more years: it’s not a coincidence.
Marriage can strongly control your inner impulses:
Sexual excitement, betrayal, and wildness.
We are very clear about our own people, basically this is a complete receipt:
When people are impulsive, the choices they make are usually bad.
Marriage is to let us know that entering the marriage hall can control our impulses.
We willingly entrust ourselves to others because we don’t believe in ourselves.
If the two don’t bother to think about what it would be like if they didn’t get married, this kind of marriage is indeed rare.
However, getting married is not making these feelings irrelevant.
And these are doomed: Marriage keeps us from wants,
At the same time, let us be more clearly aware that those are not what we really want.
We grow and mature as much as we can in our marriage, and eventually become “complete people.”
We are often attracted to people
It is precisely because they have pointed us in the right direction.
But when we often go out with others, it is obviously not so friendly and normal.
In fact, on the basis of our self-improvement, we gradually become clear as time goes by.
There will be more and more opportunities for improvement in the future.
Especially when we no longer evade those people:
Those who would make us mistakenly believe that there is nothing wrong with them.
The stars have turned, and the fierce battle of marriage has also changed the subject:
It has nothing to do with the influence of the outside world on us.
But the focus of our real concern is that it is difficult for us to devote ourselves wholeheartedly.
In the past 50 years, the indoctrination of education has made it easier to break up.
The challenge now is on the other hand:
Constantly warned yourself why stress reactions sometimes make no sense;
Also remind yourself to wait and see, the next one may be better.
Isn’t it just that two people are doing things together?
Why do you still have to be red tape?
There are also some quirky antiques: churches, temples, hymns, wedding vows, and prayers.
Marriage is the religious custom left in the early days of mankind: it is simply stupid to the home;
Obviously it is not in line with modern social logic.
Marriage is to survive.
The core of marriage is to be restrained and to lower standards.
Once the breakup is broken, it will face a high price.
Then why are we getting married?
In the early years, we said to ourselves: This is the will of God, so we are married.
But now it’s not about God, but we have been determined not to get married, and the result is even worse.
On the one hand, your carefully selected acquaintances are present to witness that you will stick to the old.
You are willing to create a dilemma for yourself.
He looked back and admitted that it was a mistake.
At the same time, even if you want to clarify things,
It can be said that it will involve financial and legal disputes.
You have to know that the lawyers and accountants of both sides are enough to break you up.
It was completely over, but the results were very torn.
It’s quite strange to say that, in the midst of it, we seem to think that this is not bad;
Although it will be a bit uncomfortable, although it is difficult to break up,
But at least for both sides.
Historically, psychology has a well-known test called marshmallow;
Designed to measure whether a child has the ability to delay satisfaction:
See if you have the ability to consider longer-term issues.
Give a few three-year-old little boy a marshmallow,
At the same time tell them: If you can stick to the first bite for 5 minutes, they can get the second one.
As a result, many children failed to stick to the end.
Looking at the cotton candy in front of me, it’s too fragrant, I can’t wait to eat it later.
I can’t wait to wait for the reward.
More critically, observations have found that these children will be depressed in the future because they cannot control their impulses;
It costs more than a child who will consider long-term benefits.
Marriage is also impossible.
There are too many things that seem to be in jerk.
We want to escape because of anger; new love is more pleasing and wants to abandon old love.
Looking around, there seems to be no exit.
How much money it costs, it’s too shameful, it takes a few more years: it’s not a coincidence.
Marriage can strongly control your inner impulses:
Sexual excitement, betrayal, and wildness.
We are very clear about our own people, basically this is a complete receipt:
When people are impulsive, the choices they make are usually bad.
Marriage is to let us know that entering the marriage hall can control our impulses.
We willingly entrust ourselves to others because we don’t believe in ourselves.
If the two don’t bother to think about what it would be like if they didn’t get married, this kind of marriage is indeed rare.
However, getting married is not making these feelings irrelevant.
And these are doomed: Marriage keeps us from wants,
At the same time, let us be more clearly aware that those are not what we really want.
We grow and mature as much as we can in our marriage, and eventually become “complete people.”
We are often attracted to people
It is precisely because they have pointed us in the right direction.
But when we often go out with others, it is obviously not so friendly and normal.
In fact, on the basis of our self-improvement, we gradually become clear as time goes by.
There will be more and more opportunities for improvement in the future.
Especially when we no longer evade those people:
Those who would make us mistakenly believe that there is nothing wrong with them.
The stars have turned, and the fierce battle of marriage has also changed the subject:
It has nothing to do with the influence of the outside world on us.
But the focus of our real concern is that it is difficult for us to devote ourselves wholeheartedly.
In the past 50 years, the indoctrination of education has made it easier to break up.
The challenge now is on the other hand:
Constantly warned yourself why stress reactions sometimes make no sense;
Also remind yourself to wait and see, the next one may be better.
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