One of the greatest and strangest dangers of falling in love with someone else
Is how to be our response on the day that the other party begins to reciprocate the feeling of love.
Some of the reasons why we fall in love with others is our long-term desire to escape from ourselves
By following the person who looks beautiful, perfect and achieves achievements while we feel we are deficient, loathsome and adorable.
But what if a person with such characteristics turned back and felt our love?
Nothing will make their reputation worse than that.
How can they be the sanctity that we anticipated when they had a bad taste and liked someone like us?
Prove that one of the main requirements in good relationships
It is our degree of affection that we built during our years and often in our childhood.
We need a legacy of feeling that we deserve love
So as not to respond very strongly to the passion given to us by the adult partner.
Without enough of our love for ourselves, the other person’s love will always show us disgusting and wrong
And we will start and destroy – unconsciously – to discourage and frustrate ourselves.
It seems simply natural and even more comfortable if we were not loved or ignored
This is mostly the feeling we know about ourselves.
If we are not convinced that we are loved, giving us passion will seem to give us an award for an achievement we never felt we would achieve.
People who are not fortunate enough to fall in love with self-hating people must fortify themselves against counter-accusations
Built on all kinds of wrong flattery.
There is an old teaser for Groucho Marx about not giving up on belonging to a club that might accept someone like him.
We laugh at putting Marx because it is a strange contradiction
How can we wish to join a club and then lose this desire when it becomes a reality?
Why not just be happy to let us join the club?
The answer lies in the person who hates himself; for many of us it is not like accepting us in a huge and beautiful club
Formed within our souls and accepted.
We wonder how we can keep faith in the club or even the beloved after they start believing in us.
Usually there is in every relationship Marx’s thorny moment
The moment when love appears to be reciprocal, and we can no longer admire someone from afar without wishing to exchange feelings.
This is why the solution lies in balancing the love of the soul with its hatred.
If the Authority has a self-loathing, that person who initiated love will declare that the beloved
(One excuse or another) is not adequate enough for him
(Insufficiently adequate with a set of virtues associated with inappropriate).
But if power gains power for itself, then both sides may accept it
Sharing their love is not a sign of how trivial a loved one is
But it is evidence of how easily their love has emerged.
It has proved that little knowledge of how we love ourselves can be one of the nicest things and even the most romantic ones that have
We learn to give it to our partner at all.
Translation: team translate autrjim @
Is how to be our response on the day that the other party begins to reciprocate the feeling of love.
Some of the reasons why we fall in love with others is our long-term desire to escape from ourselves
By following the person who looks beautiful, perfect and achieves achievements while we feel we are deficient, loathsome and adorable.
But what if a person with such characteristics turned back and felt our love?
Nothing will make their reputation worse than that.
How can they be the sanctity that we anticipated when they had a bad taste and liked someone like us?
Prove that one of the main requirements in good relationships
It is our degree of affection that we built during our years and often in our childhood.
We need a legacy of feeling that we deserve love
So as not to respond very strongly to the passion given to us by the adult partner.
Without enough of our love for ourselves, the other person’s love will always show us disgusting and wrong
And we will start and destroy – unconsciously – to discourage and frustrate ourselves.
It seems simply natural and even more comfortable if we were not loved or ignored
This is mostly the feeling we know about ourselves.
If we are not convinced that we are loved, giving us passion will seem to give us an award for an achievement we never felt we would achieve.
People who are not fortunate enough to fall in love with self-hating people must fortify themselves against counter-accusations
Built on all kinds of wrong flattery.
There is an old teaser for Groucho Marx about not giving up on belonging to a club that might accept someone like him.
We laugh at putting Marx because it is a strange contradiction
How can we wish to join a club and then lose this desire when it becomes a reality?
Why not just be happy to let us join the club?
The answer lies in the person who hates himself; for many of us it is not like accepting us in a huge and beautiful club
Formed within our souls and accepted.
We wonder how we can keep faith in the club or even the beloved after they start believing in us.
Usually there is in every relationship Marx’s thorny moment
The moment when love appears to be reciprocal, and we can no longer admire someone from afar without wishing to exchange feelings.
This is why the solution lies in balancing the love of the soul with its hatred.
If the Authority has a self-loathing, that person who initiated love will declare that the beloved
(One excuse or another) is not adequate enough for him
(Insufficiently adequate with a set of virtues associated with inappropriate).
But if power gains power for itself, then both sides may accept it
Sharing their love is not a sign of how trivial a loved one is
But it is evidence of how easily their love has emerged.
It has proved that little knowledge of how we love ourselves can be one of the nicest things and even the most romantic ones that have
We learn to give it to our partner at all.
Translation: team translate autrjim @
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