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On Being Hated


Knowing that someone hates us badly
Even if we do not do anything apparent to incite them to do so
One of the most challenging situations we face may be.
Because of the technology, it is also likely to get us this more and more
In the past, our enemies were confined to the surrounding areas.
Today, they are spread around the digital planet.
In the past, we may have accidentally read about ourselves in someone’s memoirs
Today, we can afford to ensure a quiet search for our names in Google.
The feeling that you are hated seems very serious for three main reasons:
Because we see hatred as a prelude to real practical danger.
Because we feel that those who hate us may be right
Although the negative information is annoying, it may carry something to teach us
But because we strongly believe in “basic wisdom”, “sanity” and “intelligence of the person” who attacks.
But each of these reasons can be a serious mistake.
It was a place, our enemy might come to kill us one night
No wonder we were worried.
But now, almost all the time, all they can do is leave my own wound
Their sick wishes are not tied to any other actions
Yet, it seems as if the part of our ancestors of our brain has failed to observe our freedom
We do not live in tribes anymore, and we can thrive independently
In the cities of vast civilization, exhilarating and unknown
Which is not restricted by the narrow judgment of a number of corrupt persons who are serving sentences.
Part of our weakness stems from the hatred of the intelligent way that is inherent within us and exciting
Which makes us accept criticism.
We know there is a lot to learn from other people.
So we continue to behave like the trusted school students we were on one day
We are waiting to receive the views of teachers who spread the good widely.
This ability is important to learn
May have the necessary limitations
What began as a virtue
Can with time lead to desperate weakness is not required
To any incoming information
In the end, to a kind of madness
While leaving ourselves vulnerable to attack from those who do not care about our interests frankly
We are seldom good at knowing whether our enemies are suitable rulers to govern
Our right to exist.
In the midst of our panic of news or hate
We failed to ask ourselves one important question
On the existence of any fact in the attack.
But even when criticism is true
We must never surrender our love for ourselves to people who will return it to us with contempt.
There is never any reason for cruelty.
We must differentiate between the critic, the hateful.
While the critic reduces psychological value and focuses on the point of contention,
The villain takes a small point of disagreement
As a way of delivering a whole bitter condemnation to us as human beings.
There’s a big difference between saying, “You’re full of nonsense” and between cleaning your throat and saying “I think you’re wrong at this point”
The first suggests that your fault is the result of an inherent mold within you
The second leaves an open possibility of being a noble person who has happened – as with most of us – to a reasonable misunderstanding of a complex issue
We must trust that anyone is deliberately hurting us
He must be a severely affected person, so he is an unreliable witness
We should not continue to believe that they may be angry, but smart.
Like an angry but basically wise teacher,
Driven by the search for truth, but difficult to deal with.
If the person is really wise, educated and mature
He will never want to make someone else fall apart
A desire to hurt a stranger can only carry large and problematic meanings
Something to discredit their rule
Depriving them of the right to self-confidence and impunity.
None of us are innocent, we all have enough to do until we grow old
Openness and acceptance of criticism is the key to developing ourselves
But we must aim to differentiate confidently from the critic and the hateful
We must worry only about our shortcomings
And the slaughter of wounded monsters
Which aims to punish us for their own tragedies.
Translation: team translate @autrjim
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