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Just Like Us | Meyer & Mullins | TEDxYouth@Dayton


there are over 60 million people that

have been forced from their homes due to

violence and oppression around the world

these people are often left without

their families without any basis of

support and there we usually generalize

these population as refugees if these

refugees are within the lucky half of 1

percent of their population that gets

resettle permanently into another

country they’re subject to not knowing

the language or the culture or anyone

outside of their own family one of the

places that they may end up is right

here in our home of Dayton Ohio

now last year Spencer and I created a

program that connects teenage refugees

who knew to the country with native-born

teenagers it was based on an art project

was focused on each person’s idea of

home this along with the occasional hike

or cookout or soccer game let us spend

time with these people and get to know

them and form relationships that will

last a lifetime all while making a

program to advocate for the population

through art through this program I met

my friend Eric Eric was born in a

refugee camp and he lived there his

entire life Eric Eric if you don’t know

anything about refugee camps they’re

often unsanitary overpopulated in

understaffed places they’re not ideal

places to be and many of the people in

our program grew up in refugee camps now

this might sound terrible but Eric is

statistically lucky because on average

it takes 20 years to even get in to a

refugee camp and once you’re there it

can take on average another 8 years to

be resettled into another country the

challenges faced by Eric the rest of the

kids in our program and their families

are not unique stories these stories

could be going to be told time and time

again by families all over the country

in the world now we have refugees in our

program from the Democratic Republic of

the Congo Eritrea Myanmar and a couple

other places and while it’s clear that

Spencer and I come from drastical

different backgrounds from these kids

our time with the program and with these

refugees has helped it helped us to see

it differently and through our art work

we have established every a lot of

people’s idea of home we brought

together two kids from drastically

different backgrounds to express what

makes themselves unique and what their

idea of home is my partner for this

project was my friend Eric I’m sorry my

friend Steve and to do this artwork we

would take a bunch of pictures from the

internet whether it’s flags or food or

other miscellaneous items we’d find what

makes us feel most at home and we glue

them onto our cardboard now if you were

to look at me and Steve’s piece of

artwork you would see a bunch of

miscellaneous items strewn about the

cardboard but if you look closely you

will see two identical cutouts of tater

tots pasted proudly on the piece this

was not planned was not discussed and

was not discovered until after we’d

already glued them on there you also see

on ours as well as most others the great

unifier soccer the sport that crosses

all boundaries and just like Noah I had

a partner for this art project and his

name was Eric and he’s who I talked

about earlier Eric and I had a lot in

common like Steven Noah but the thing

that surprised me the most and still

makes me smile to this day is the fact

that before I even had a chance to put

anything on this poster Eric had already

put a picture of LeBron James’s face

onto the poster now LeBron James is

someone who a lot of Ohioans identified

with someone who defines our home and

Eric who was born on another continent

in a refugee camp identifies LeBron

James as his home just like many of us

and I do now LeBron James and tater tots

and soccer may seem irrelevant but these

similarities persists despite thousands

of miles between our places of birth and

that shows just how connected we really

are well the things on the surface like

where we were born

what cultures we grew up around may be

different when you peel the layers away

and the deeper you get really not that

different at all

and while LeBron James might not seem

like it’s that close to the core in

reality it is

because Eric and I find LeBron James and

the Cavs is part of our home and you

can’t get much closer to the core than

your home and despite all of our

superficial differences as humans we all

crave this idea of home this desire to

have a home as with Spencer and I have

found is at the heart of all people rich

or poor man or woman black or white

everyone craves a place to feel welcomed

people who understand them in a place

they can truly call their home in

through a group we also like to work for

advocacy because we believe that talking

about the issue is just as important as

working with the refugees and and if

you’ve even remotely paid attention to

the political climate in the current

events in the past couple of years you

know this issue is extremely relevant

and with all of the hatred in the

widespread distrust of the refugee

population a little bit of acceptance

and a little bit of kindness can go a

long way and this is true not just with

the issue of refugees but with many of

our plenty of any of the issues that

plague our country and in inner world

and the steps to solve many of these

problems are just they’re simple acts of

kindness these acts of kindness aren’t

hard either Spencer I did not create a

Million Man March and setting up a

couple of soccer games or a cookout or

an art project for group of people does

not take a rocket scientist it only

takes the amount of time it takes to

send a couple of text messages or make a

couple of phone calls but it could make

all the difference in the world for

someone who is struggling to feel

welcome in the new home he was

marginalized or who just feels lonely

well we’re all human and the people in

our program crave a home in a community

to be a part of just like everybody else

here and we knew that we were making an

impact on these people when our

get-togethers they were only supposed to

last until 9:00 lasted until midnight

and this happened more than once the

tangible buzz of the joy and the

excitement that was present in at these

gatherings showed that we were giving

them a home now our initial intentions

was with this program we’re not all

quite as noble as you may think as

seniors in high school we’re required to

do a social justice

project that had some kind of real-world

implementation and we thought hey this

would be great for that and what we

certainly did love the idea of giving

back to the community and doing

something good

it was also a way to fulfill this

requirement and maybe put something good

in a resume we had our own intentions as

anybody would but as the blessings of

our programs started to come out we

started to feel good for doing it and we

started to see that the community in the

home that we had that we had started and

become part of and if we had a chance to

do this over again without any thought

of a senior a senior project or any

resume we would do it again in a

heartbeat

our involvement in this program is hope

has helped to open our minds and our

hearts in a way we could not imagine

more than just learning about the issue

of refugees we have come to know the

people behind the statistics and the

home that we have helped to build for

them has become a home for us as well

because in the end even those who are

most different from us at their core

just crave a home in a community and in

the end they are just like us thank you [Applause]

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