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Be comfortable being uncomfortable | Mukesh Bubna | TEDxCentennialCollege


good evening life is beautiful isn’t it

in this movie set up in World War how a

father gives a beautiful life to a child

in a camp it creates a world which is

very beautiful in a very sad environment

it’s a movie which gives you hope

optimism and gives you a reason to go on

but one thing which is coming again and

again in the theme of the evening that

only thing which is certain is

uncertainty for us even when this

diagnostic tool at the hospitals life is

measured by ups and down when it’s flat

it says life is missing so moving on

what makes life beautiful is because

it’s uncertain if it was certain just

imagine every day you’re getting up and

having the same serial same bread and

jam taking the same part go to the same

class doing the same subject it gets

boring you need change and you need to

embrace uncertainty rather than be

fearful of it what I’m going to do what

the next ten minutes is talk through

what I have gone through personally and

how my life has changed over the last

three years that’s for one of the next

one i was born in india a town called

calcutta that’s my picture when I was in

grade 3 I had a unique opportunity I was

the only boy in a girl school

fantastic we had a coed school or a 29

and that’s what the time was my first

love was happening the school decided to

turn itself into all-girls school and

throw me out there goes my love story

but it’s a great time moving on that’s

me turning around 18 I used to play a

lot of cricket or I felt I play lot of

cricket I was awful but that was my

dream I want to become a cricketer in

india cricket is a religion not a sport

so you can imagine everybody wanted to

become a such intense incur and I was

also out there but what happened during

this whole cricketing season was I never

got a chance to bat or bowl all I was

required to do was keeps course was

really really awful and when I kept

score I became very good at accounting

so that led to a path that I became a

certified public accountant right a good

outcome from what I playing sports came

out of however that led to the next very

transparent path of my life in India

when we grew up at my time it was a

simple parents told you choose become a

doctor lawyer engineer or charter

counted if you didn’t have these four

degrees you were abnormal kid so luckily

I fit into one of those four and guess

what I became a CPA and life is really

really good and i’ll show you how life

is good as you watch this video

hopefully place that’s me working at

citibank lots of parties city gave me

everything possible

great friendship great life money will

never an object to be worried about this

was a everyday scene for us

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are they great stop we can pause the yes

we can go back to the slide and city

took me to whatever I wanted to do so so

much so that I said hey I’ve done

running the operations side and we were

launching products after that I want to

run the technology department he said go

ahead they didn’t know whether I can run

I couldn’t write a piece of code ever in

life it said go run the technology

department then I came out and said in

and i’m bored of writing technology can

i become the finance head again because

that’s what I’ve trained for said be our

guest it threw me again an uncertain

Department very very strange

organization a global organization gave

me every possible opportunity which ever

i wanted to and then came 2003 they said

why don’t you go to Singapore and I

stayed there in Singapore again

uncertain time but not uncertainty which

is surmountable it’s very simple life

much better than what you living in

India in in fact in India getting a cab

itself is uncertainty right so Singapore

Hong Kong is a dream land for most

Indians to come to 20 years singapore

hong kong iOS talking to my son here and

I said I’ve been to Poland I’ve been to

Russia have been to so many countries

thanks to that world and I seen the

world and then 20 years later in the

company I could have literally be on the

top and enjoyed under the shadows of my

hard work of last 20 years and live the

next 10 years but they’re saying which

goes in the corporate world died at 40

buried at 70 right a lot of people do

that because they lose their passion

they lose the purpose of life they lose

they just come to work every day to just

manage that 925 chore and go back

something they love in fact we used to

call some people

weekend warriors they were full of life

on Saturday Sunday and they were dead on

Monday to Friday right while this was

happening I would love you to watch this

video this is what happened to me please

play this please watch this fully it’s a

story about an amputee how she took her

life in her own hands and climb Mount

Everest this is what I was going through

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she’s legendary right 49 trains over her

leg overnight fought for a cause which

was not hers because somebody else was

troubling somebody else in the Train

uneducated just was playing volleyball

for her state going to a city to play

the game life changed for her she could

have given up she could have got a job

based on a government grant and lived

her life but in that crisis moment she

decided she wants to climb Mount Everest

even sane people don’t make that choice

she did it there’s another story in this

this school is called life school it’s

run by my friend he had to give up his

education in grade 12 or financial

crisis have hit his family and their to

abandon the city and they’re to go live

in a village because that’s where they

would survive he started this school

about five six years back completely

after great wealth he was working as a

laborer in camps in India and from there

today he runs a very successful school

and he says our system school system

don’t teach us how to live life it

teaches how to do solve statistical

problem how to run economics books how

to reach philosophy but doesn’t tell us

how to run life life is only taught by

living a life and with adventure so he

brings these inspirational speakers and

he trains people across he’s got a motor

to train ten hundred thousand teachers

on his own money in India today how to

train kids to live life dutifully so two

stories in that that inspired me I had a

lot of fears because I was getting

everything going for me school college

kids wife good job traveling all over

the world in business class

but wasn’t happy I had to change

something Boris if you could please and

that’s where I left my job and I said

I’m going to do a start-up and that

startup is called manic so it’s two and

a half year old company in Hong Kong

full of challenges Boris was with me

he’s faced some of them it’s so when you

talk about financial services in a

start-up you have to talk about

regulators it’s not a cheap startup you

can do it’s not like an app which you

can build and sell it on 99 cents and

watch on apple store you have to look at

lot of regulations and do it so it costs

a lot of money so I literally spend all

my life saving building this company I

have a son who’s going to go to college

I don’t know where they’re going to be

able to pay that but we embraced it we

said and he’s been very supportive two

and a half years now we have paying

customers we’ve gone from Hong Kong to

India we have two markets which we are

working now it hasn’t been a smooth

sailing journey and in that time I came

through a term called VUCA it’s a

military term which is going to happen

to all of us whether it’s life or

anywhere else it stands for volatile

uncertain complex and ambiguous because

when you are in war that’s what happens

to every military guy on the field he

can’t run back and ask what should I do

he has to make that decision under that

volatile ambiguous complex and uncertain

situations and that’s what business is

all about but what has kept me going is

these three things which has come to me

and I have distilled that my learning in

the next three slides she could do what

you love love what you do it’s a long

journey when i joined the bank my

seniors would tell me mukesh slow down

it’s running a marathon you’re going to

be working for 40 years so don’t try and

finish everything today but they also

told me

that love what you do and I’ve been

telling myself I’ve been only able to

survive this two-and-a-half journey

because i love what i do every time i

meet a customer who tells me that this

my service is helping them do something

more it is simpler than going to a bank

it is faster than what i created by the

bank just gives me the motivation to

keep doing it again and again next one

well every day in his household milks

are spelt and then how you react to it

changes your day people go into out of

the house with that spirit milk in mind

kids yelled at and then they get into

road rage right or they come to school

and pee kids ask i’d bet that teacher

get out of the bed swarm right well it

all happens but don’t worry deal with it

calmly things will always be not in your

control and that’s what i have learned

in my business i can only control this

much the unexpected is much more than i

can imagine every morning is a new day

for me and very different while the

business keeps running i’m throwing with

new challenges every day and i don’t

necessarily react to it anymore i stake

the facts in and move on again people

have talked about stretching yourself

it’s it need not be climbing Mount

Everest whatever it is when you want to

sing a song whether you want to learn a

piano do it now they say one day or

today right just make that happen and I

love to say myself and I’ve said that to

everybody in my team get comfortable

being uncomfortable because if you’re

not comfortable being uncomfortable

nothing happens in the comfort zone

everything happens when you are

uncomfortable look at players who are

even in the world class or

pick when they go to the pool they go

and play the game it’s an uncomfortable

moment even though they’ve been training

for a long time it’s that one moment

which makes them tick make the next

Olympics so be uncomfortable at that

pace and they’re also uncomfortable even

don’t know they know that they’re

playing somebody whom they’ve won many

times the last one you will fail you

will fail many times it’s just like

riding a bicycle you will fail many

times in your journey but get up again

get on the bicycle and ride you will get

where you are because what you are

saying is i love what i am doing i am

passionate about doing what i like to do

and i am going to move forward so with

this all I will say is go ahead and

conquer your own Mount Everest whatever

it is continue to find happiness in what

you’re doing again a great movie how

this gentleman in fact there’s a moose

scene in this movie where this gentleman

sees a car pull out and it goes across

to the gentleness asst tell me what you

do and how do you what kind of money you

make and from there from just being an

uneducated person he becomes the world’s

best trader so again I wish everybody

happiness continue purchasing your part

be passionate and you’ll get there thank

you very much [Applause]

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