what would we give to be back where we
are with all the possibilities in the
help that we have right now if you keep
anything anything so if it’s something
you would give it would give anything
for I think you should really enjoy it
now while you have
I think you just sort of think about
your life and I’d like you to sort of
fast forward right just scroll forward
all the way to the end of it we’re all
living biological based organisms forget
for a moment whether there’s life after
death whether there’s God whether you
float up into the arms of Jesus on the
wings the Angels anything forget about
that but if you don’t mind just for the
moment and let’s just say that the end
of your life is not going to be as
pleasant then look forward to kind of
experience so I’d like to just sort of
fast forward you to the end and give you
a sort of mental exercise to help you
maybe appreciate even more the kind of
stuff that you have in your life right
now so let’s just go on that white train
to the end of life and you’re in a hot
little bed and you were rushed there in
some general some reason and you are now
being told by your doctor then pretty
much this is a one way hospital bed
right basically as hospital bed it’s
going to like open up drop you into the
grave they’re going to throw dirt in
your face covered you up and you will
live only on in memories of people
photos and I guess maybe the art video
kind
so you just been told and you know
statistically what it’s going to be even
if you take care of yourself it’s going
to be cancer isn’t it hot disease or
something like that
something is going to put you in that
situation where you realize that you’re
not getting back out of this one this is
this is kind of it now I just want you
to think about that for a moment if you
don’t mind just just think about that
now I’m 39 years old so you know with
any luck I’m a little shy of halfway
through my life and I’m not sure how old
you are assuming you’re not already on
your deathbed then this will still be of
relevance to you now I want you to think
about if you don’t mind think about what
it’s going to be like when you’re 85
years old
95 however old it’s going to be when
it’s going to happen we know it’s going
to happen we don’t know when think about
how you would feel if somebody gave you
the option or the possibility to go back
in time 40 years so you’re 85 years old
let’s say for me it would be let’s say I
died at a by if somebody’s going to say
to me to death for 50 bucks or something
like that for a certain amount of money
I’m going to give you the chance to go
back 46 years to be 39 again now can you
imagine what an incredible thing that
would be what an incredible offer that
would be at the end of your life to be
offered to be returned to health and
vitality and youth and with all the
decades and possibility you’re headed
can you imagine what incredible exciting
mind-blowing the generous gift that
would be can you think if there’s
anything that you wouldn’t give that you
wouldn’t give to get those four or five
or six decades back and have the
ultimate do-over in your life I would
give anything because you’re facing the
blank wall the drop-off the fiery
waterfall into nothing of death
to be given the opportunity to come back
in time to where you are right now would
be the most incredible gift and what
would you not give to that I would give
anything I would arms my client to get
these out there and Dallas this machine
I’ll get it I’ll have a colostomy
whatever doesn’t matter to me because
helping your life rather than death
now I’m not sort of saying this to sort
of freak you out about your own
mortality though it’s not a bad thing
think that sometime to talk to someone
helps make being alive sort of more rich
more wonderful but let’s just say that
we’re the same a 2:39 resolve is energy
now what would be the most incredible
gift at the end of my life would be to
come back to where I am right now with
use and health and vitality and fitness
and possibilities and all of these
wonderful things that would be the most
incredible gift that someone could give
to me at the end of my life and it would
be the same thing for you as well it
would be the most incredible gift that
anyone could give you at the end of your
life to come back to where you are right
now now this is sort of what I’m trying
to get at here this thing that would be
the most incredible gift for you to get
in the future
that you would give anything to receive
while hanging on the thin thread of life
over the chasm of death what would be
the most incredible gift what you would
weep with joy to have a chance to
receive even for one day let alone for
the next four or five decades this thing
called youth and how possibility
you already have it right now what it
would be the most incredible gift at the
end of your life you were living every
day of your life right now because at
the end of your life you’re going to get
that sit down to the doctor as you can
adhere those faithful would with any
luck right hoping you’re not in some
terrible accidents tomorrow but you’re
going to get those painful words from
the doctor the doctor is going to sit
down very nice and gentle and say you
know mr. Molyneux all we can do right
now is to make you as comfortable as
possible
I think about this actually sometimes
when I see a ambulance going tot I think
I mean I not always but sometimes I can
tell think that one day that ambulance
is going to be for me and one day that
ambulance is going to be for you and
it’s a one-way trip your TV is going to
be left on your dinner is going to be
half uneaten and you’re not coming back
to clean up that’s going to be for your
next of kin or whoever but one day right
that ambulance is going to come from us
that me or knew I was going to come from
us that for us and we’re not going to
come back it’s a one-way trip because
it’s all one bite trip to the grave for
us living beings right that’s way
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so I just sort of like to say to you
that once would be an incredible gift
for you later on in life to be able to
come back and be ready you are right now
even if you’re 70 even if you’re 84 to
get another year of life when you’re
hanging on the edge of death would be I
mean you couldn’t ask for anything more
but what would be such an incredible
gift in the future is already available
to you right now in the presence you’re
living the most incredible gift that any
human being can have which is life and
vitality and probably you that have to
something written podcasting is not a
lot of bogeyed wrote I say this isn’t
somebody who’s probably a fogey to you
but so that’s sort of the first thing
that I would say that is a way of really
appreciating and enjoying what you have
right now understanding that if you
would have be given it in the future it
would be the most amazing unbelievable
gift and that we should really really
try and appreciate every day of your
life when you die you turn the – you
don’t get to feel the breeze you don’t
get to climb stairs you don’t get to go
to the gym or see a movie or make love
to your wife with your husband you don’t
get any of those things you don’t care
because you’re gone I’m just talking
about the time before while you’re still
conscious of what you could happen
somebody gave you the life that you have
right now so I’m just trying to say
really really try and appreciate the
life that you have right
[Music]
so that’s one of the first way of
approaching it now the second way of
looking at something like this to make
it a little bit less like you know five
six decades in the future maybe another
way of looking at this that can be quite
powerful is you know you go for checkout
for your to doctor and he gives you a
call back the next week or whatever in
up here in Canada like Sigma so it gets
you a call back and he says oh boy
Steph I am so sorry to have to tell you
this my friends you have leukemia and
you have like a week and you really are
not going to have much luck there is no
treatment for it there’s no possibility
of bypassing this you are a deluxe
okay well I mean imagine to put that
into the wood chipper if your mental
processes and let that blend through for
a little bit what’s going to fall out
just imagine that you get that call you
get that diagnosis and you have not that
kittens not here it’s not even months of
weeks till it what is that going to do
to your thinking about how you’re
spending your time what is that going to
hand have you do regarding what you push
that you spend how you spend your time
last night or last week or last month or
how you’re going to spend your time
tomorrow what the day after I’m not
saying that you’ve got to live like
every day as your last at the cliche is
not really possible than even would it
be a sensible to do that but what I am
saying is that it is again rather than
every day that we have a live as if
we’re healthy is again yes we all get
migraines with snuper toes and that’s
why I’m not saying that you know you
live on this perfect now sign magic
carpet all just humming but when you
start to look at the stresses in your
life and the problems in your life what
it is the people making you like
difficult problems work and this and
that the other you know that it’s a
larger perspective than I put in trying
to communicate you with these mental
headlines that can really help you
appreciate and love much more at the
time that you have in the ritual you
have the use of vitality to help the
energy all of this sort of stuff you had
now you get to diagnosis and you live
with it for a nice and use it with it
for a day and you live with it for
another night and you’re sort of
planning your funeral you’re looking at
your kids realizing everything that
you’re not going to see around them
everything that’s to do with your life
you are really reading in a way that’s
completely different from anything which
came before
[Music]
well now imagine the following situation
that your doctor phones you up the next
day and says oh my god I can’t believe
that I I don’t even know what to set
please don’t sue me but there’s another
guy with your exact same name the files
got mixed up
he’s the one who’s dying you’re
perfectly healthy I mean just imagine
that imagine that imagine what that
would do to your appreciation of
everything that you have right now and
everything that’s to come everything
that you have right now imagine what
that news that false diagnosis of
imminent death would do to your
appreciation when that sentence was
lifted wouldn’t that be the most
incredible thing wouldn’t you wake up
and hug everybody and just feel
overjoyed as living and yes that will
fade they say the Benjamins all of that
but those ways of keeping it alive for
yourself there’s ways of keeping that
appreciation alive for yourself that are
quite powerful so just try that at the
mental exercise you’re going to die the
reprieve comes and you are allowed to
live again how much would you enjoy the
feel of sunlight on your face how much
would you enjoy a little bit how much
would be would you be subject to all
those little days irritations and the
grumbling so those distractions and Road
rages and this and that
yeah that’s not going to make your life
perfect not like you’re going to on grow
up into the sunset on the cloud or
lesbian pleasure but it is going to mean
that you can’t appreciate what you have
just that little bit more and really
that’s a very powerful thing to do
alright
number three is to look at it this way
I’m married just literally married left
my wife like I can’t even express and I
can express a lot and so can express
there
but imagine that you get the news you
get the phone call which says this is
officer so-and-so I regret to inform you
that your wife has been involved in a
fatal car crash or your husband has been
involved or your child be mommy dead
whoever it is that you really love has
been involved in a fatal car crash and
would you come down and identify the
body and so on and so and so right so
imagine how that hit you imagine what a
a.split that is going to be in your life
imagine you think your life’s going one
way
Wham out of nowhere right life is a
constant series of sudden cycles right I
mean there’s the death is omnipresent do
you like to stay to complete turn and
everything that your treasure about that
relationship is now gone never to return
[Music]
and what is that going to do to your
thinking into your feeling in that
moment
maybe you feel relief in vegetation that
may be an indication of true nature of
that relationship but let’s just say
it’s somebody that you you genuinely
love and you genuinely respect and the
absence of whom in your life would be a
catastrophe for you and to live with
that for an hour I’m not going to give
you some dramatic scenario where you go
down to identify the body and it’s a
scent trucker named Bert or something
we’ll just talk about you get another
phone call words like mistaken identity
your your wife Blanche or wallet to this
person who died and I’m glad she’s fine
I mean what a I mean what a what an
incredible release that would be for you
I mean to to know that you face this
future without the person in your life
that you love the most natural central
core relationship see that black hole
that was going to be your future than
black chasm of loss and loneliness and
missing somebody with your whole being
then to find out that they’ve realized
and that was not going to be your future
wouldn’t that be the most incredible bit
wouldn’t that be the most amazing thing
wouldn’t you just want to run into that
person’s arm and tell them everything
maybe you tell them everything already
but wouldn’t you just appreciate that
person in a way that would be so hard to
imagine
[Music]
because I mean all of these things are
possible we all know people who have
this occurs the more please regret event
these things are all possible and
they’re all inevitable everybody we love
we’re going to lose everybody who loves
us is going to lose them we are going to
lose ourselves and we’re going to lose
the work world is going to end for us so
what does that mean relative to having
all of these things you have right now
imagine that you lost everything you
lost your job you lost your house you
lost your family you love whatever you
had some terrible occurrence and then
you just them all back how would you
feel how do you feel about having those
things back in your life how do you feel
now maybe thinking about bounce before
words of the future extending episode
after a sudden readers I’ve been sending
out sonar for the future having it
bounced back to see how much you would
give at the end of luckier life to be
right back where you are right now if
all the possibilities and all the health
and the vitality the energy ahead of it
but that’s what we should enjoy that’s
what we should take as an it kind of
against everyday in my life if you don’t
mind me saying so highlight trying to
talk about personal liberty here
personal happiness yeah we got problems
with the government you have we got
problems with this that the other but
what we do have right now is the
greatest gift what we would give
anything to to have mass at the end of
your lives and that’s really a very
powerful thought or imagination process
to go through and that’s sort of what I
would like to share with you as a way
that helped me really become more
really helped me live more richly and
more deeply and with a greater
appreciation of the days that we have
because I mean they’re gonna head right
I mean they’re absolutely going to end
one day the people we love we’re going
to slide off into the night of death we
are going to slide after them and
there’s going to be some period of time
very likely quite a considerable period
of time weeks months or years where we
know that it’s going to happen we know
that it’s going to end we know that our
life is going to end
what would we give to be back where we
are right now
what would we give to be back where we
are with all the possibilities in the
health that we have right now who give
anything anything so if it’s something
you would give it and would give
anything for I think you should really
enjoy it now while you have
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you
[Music]
are with all the possibilities in the
help that we have right now if you keep
anything anything so if it’s something
you would give it would give anything
for I think you should really enjoy it
now while you have
I think you just sort of think about
your life and I’d like you to sort of
fast forward right just scroll forward
all the way to the end of it we’re all
living biological based organisms forget
for a moment whether there’s life after
death whether there’s God whether you
float up into the arms of Jesus on the
wings the Angels anything forget about
that but if you don’t mind just for the
moment and let’s just say that the end
of your life is not going to be as
pleasant then look forward to kind of
experience so I’d like to just sort of
fast forward you to the end and give you
a sort of mental exercise to help you
maybe appreciate even more the kind of
stuff that you have in your life right
now so let’s just go on that white train
to the end of life and you’re in a hot
little bed and you were rushed there in
some general some reason and you are now
being told by your doctor then pretty
much this is a one way hospital bed
right basically as hospital bed it’s
going to like open up drop you into the
grave they’re going to throw dirt in
your face covered you up and you will
live only on in memories of people
photos and I guess maybe the art video
kind
so you just been told and you know
statistically what it’s going to be even
if you take care of yourself it’s going
to be cancer isn’t it hot disease or
something like that
something is going to put you in that
situation where you realize that you’re
not getting back out of this one this is
this is kind of it now I just want you
to think about that for a moment if you
don’t mind just just think about that
now I’m 39 years old so you know with
any luck I’m a little shy of halfway
through my life and I’m not sure how old
you are assuming you’re not already on
your deathbed then this will still be of
relevance to you now I want you to think
about if you don’t mind think about what
it’s going to be like when you’re 85
years old
95 however old it’s going to be when
it’s going to happen we know it’s going
to happen we don’t know when think about
how you would feel if somebody gave you
the option or the possibility to go back
in time 40 years so you’re 85 years old
let’s say for me it would be let’s say I
died at a by if somebody’s going to say
to me to death for 50 bucks or something
like that for a certain amount of money
I’m going to give you the chance to go
back 46 years to be 39 again now can you
imagine what an incredible thing that
would be what an incredible offer that
would be at the end of your life to be
offered to be returned to health and
vitality and youth and with all the
decades and possibility you’re headed
can you imagine what incredible exciting
mind-blowing the generous gift that
would be can you think if there’s
anything that you wouldn’t give that you
wouldn’t give to get those four or five
or six decades back and have the
ultimate do-over in your life I would
give anything because you’re facing the
blank wall the drop-off the fiery
waterfall into nothing of death
to be given the opportunity to come back
in time to where you are right now would
be the most incredible gift and what
would you not give to that I would give
anything I would arms my client to get
these out there and Dallas this machine
I’ll get it I’ll have a colostomy
whatever doesn’t matter to me because
helping your life rather than death
now I’m not sort of saying this to sort
of freak you out about your own
mortality though it’s not a bad thing
think that sometime to talk to someone
helps make being alive sort of more rich
more wonderful but let’s just say that
we’re the same a 2:39 resolve is energy
now what would be the most incredible
gift at the end of my life would be to
come back to where I am right now with
use and health and vitality and fitness
and possibilities and all of these
wonderful things that would be the most
incredible gift that someone could give
to me at the end of my life and it would
be the same thing for you as well it
would be the most incredible gift that
anyone could give you at the end of your
life to come back to where you are right
now now this is sort of what I’m trying
to get at here this thing that would be
the most incredible gift for you to get
in the future
that you would give anything to receive
while hanging on the thin thread of life
over the chasm of death what would be
the most incredible gift what you would
weep with joy to have a chance to
receive even for one day let alone for
the next four or five decades this thing
called youth and how possibility
you already have it right now what it
would be the most incredible gift at the
end of your life you were living every
day of your life right now because at
the end of your life you’re going to get
that sit down to the doctor as you can
adhere those faithful would with any
luck right hoping you’re not in some
terrible accidents tomorrow but you’re
going to get those painful words from
the doctor the doctor is going to sit
down very nice and gentle and say you
know mr. Molyneux all we can do right
now is to make you as comfortable as
possible
I think about this actually sometimes
when I see a ambulance going tot I think
I mean I not always but sometimes I can
tell think that one day that ambulance
is going to be for me and one day that
ambulance is going to be for you and
it’s a one-way trip your TV is going to
be left on your dinner is going to be
half uneaten and you’re not coming back
to clean up that’s going to be for your
next of kin or whoever but one day right
that ambulance is going to come from us
that me or knew I was going to come from
us that for us and we’re not going to
come back it’s a one-way trip because
it’s all one bite trip to the grave for
us living beings right that’s way
[Music]
so I just sort of like to say to you
that once would be an incredible gift
for you later on in life to be able to
come back and be ready you are right now
even if you’re 70 even if you’re 84 to
get another year of life when you’re
hanging on the edge of death would be I
mean you couldn’t ask for anything more
but what would be such an incredible
gift in the future is already available
to you right now in the presence you’re
living the most incredible gift that any
human being can have which is life and
vitality and probably you that have to
something written podcasting is not a
lot of bogeyed wrote I say this isn’t
somebody who’s probably a fogey to you
but so that’s sort of the first thing
that I would say that is a way of really
appreciating and enjoying what you have
right now understanding that if you
would have be given it in the future it
would be the most amazing unbelievable
gift and that we should really really
try and appreciate every day of your
life when you die you turn the – you
don’t get to feel the breeze you don’t
get to climb stairs you don’t get to go
to the gym or see a movie or make love
to your wife with your husband you don’t
get any of those things you don’t care
because you’re gone I’m just talking
about the time before while you’re still
conscious of what you could happen
somebody gave you the life that you have
right now so I’m just trying to say
really really try and appreciate the
life that you have right
[Music]
so that’s one of the first way of
approaching it now the second way of
looking at something like this to make
it a little bit less like you know five
six decades in the future maybe another
way of looking at this that can be quite
powerful is you know you go for checkout
for your to doctor and he gives you a
call back the next week or whatever in
up here in Canada like Sigma so it gets
you a call back and he says oh boy
Steph I am so sorry to have to tell you
this my friends you have leukemia and
you have like a week and you really are
not going to have much luck there is no
treatment for it there’s no possibility
of bypassing this you are a deluxe
okay well I mean imagine to put that
into the wood chipper if your mental
processes and let that blend through for
a little bit what’s going to fall out
just imagine that you get that call you
get that diagnosis and you have not that
kittens not here it’s not even months of
weeks till it what is that going to do
to your thinking about how you’re
spending your time what is that going to
hand have you do regarding what you push
that you spend how you spend your time
last night or last week or last month or
how you’re going to spend your time
tomorrow what the day after I’m not
saying that you’ve got to live like
every day as your last at the cliche is
not really possible than even would it
be a sensible to do that but what I am
saying is that it is again rather than
every day that we have a live as if
we’re healthy is again yes we all get
migraines with snuper toes and that’s
why I’m not saying that you know you
live on this perfect now sign magic
carpet all just humming but when you
start to look at the stresses in your
life and the problems in your life what
it is the people making you like
difficult problems work and this and
that the other you know that it’s a
larger perspective than I put in trying
to communicate you with these mental
headlines that can really help you
appreciate and love much more at the
time that you have in the ritual you
have the use of vitality to help the
energy all of this sort of stuff you had
now you get to diagnosis and you live
with it for a nice and use it with it
for a day and you live with it for
another night and you’re sort of
planning your funeral you’re looking at
your kids realizing everything that
you’re not going to see around them
everything that’s to do with your life
you are really reading in a way that’s
completely different from anything which
came before
[Music]
well now imagine the following situation
that your doctor phones you up the next
day and says oh my god I can’t believe
that I I don’t even know what to set
please don’t sue me but there’s another
guy with your exact same name the files
got mixed up
he’s the one who’s dying you’re
perfectly healthy I mean just imagine
that imagine that imagine what that
would do to your appreciation of
everything that you have right now and
everything that’s to come everything
that you have right now imagine what
that news that false diagnosis of
imminent death would do to your
appreciation when that sentence was
lifted wouldn’t that be the most
incredible thing wouldn’t you wake up
and hug everybody and just feel
overjoyed as living and yes that will
fade they say the Benjamins all of that
but those ways of keeping it alive for
yourself there’s ways of keeping that
appreciation alive for yourself that are
quite powerful so just try that at the
mental exercise you’re going to die the
reprieve comes and you are allowed to
live again how much would you enjoy the
feel of sunlight on your face how much
would you enjoy a little bit how much
would be would you be subject to all
those little days irritations and the
grumbling so those distractions and Road
rages and this and that
yeah that’s not going to make your life
perfect not like you’re going to on grow
up into the sunset on the cloud or
lesbian pleasure but it is going to mean
that you can’t appreciate what you have
just that little bit more and really
that’s a very powerful thing to do
alright
number three is to look at it this way
I’m married just literally married left
my wife like I can’t even express and I
can express a lot and so can express
there
but imagine that you get the news you
get the phone call which says this is
officer so-and-so I regret to inform you
that your wife has been involved in a
fatal car crash or your husband has been
involved or your child be mommy dead
whoever it is that you really love has
been involved in a fatal car crash and
would you come down and identify the
body and so on and so and so right so
imagine how that hit you imagine what a
a.split that is going to be in your life
imagine you think your life’s going one
way
Wham out of nowhere right life is a
constant series of sudden cycles right I
mean there’s the death is omnipresent do
you like to stay to complete turn and
everything that your treasure about that
relationship is now gone never to return
[Music]
and what is that going to do to your
thinking into your feeling in that
moment
maybe you feel relief in vegetation that
may be an indication of true nature of
that relationship but let’s just say
it’s somebody that you you genuinely
love and you genuinely respect and the
absence of whom in your life would be a
catastrophe for you and to live with
that for an hour I’m not going to give
you some dramatic scenario where you go
down to identify the body and it’s a
scent trucker named Bert or something
we’ll just talk about you get another
phone call words like mistaken identity
your your wife Blanche or wallet to this
person who died and I’m glad she’s fine
I mean what a I mean what a what an
incredible release that would be for you
I mean to to know that you face this
future without the person in your life
that you love the most natural central
core relationship see that black hole
that was going to be your future than
black chasm of loss and loneliness and
missing somebody with your whole being
then to find out that they’ve realized
and that was not going to be your future
wouldn’t that be the most incredible bit
wouldn’t that be the most amazing thing
wouldn’t you just want to run into that
person’s arm and tell them everything
maybe you tell them everything already
but wouldn’t you just appreciate that
person in a way that would be so hard to
imagine
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because I mean all of these things are
possible we all know people who have
this occurs the more please regret event
these things are all possible and
they’re all inevitable everybody we love
we’re going to lose everybody who loves
us is going to lose them we are going to
lose ourselves and we’re going to lose
the work world is going to end for us so
what does that mean relative to having
all of these things you have right now
imagine that you lost everything you
lost your job you lost your house you
lost your family you love whatever you
had some terrible occurrence and then
you just them all back how would you
feel how do you feel about having those
things back in your life how do you feel
now maybe thinking about bounce before
words of the future extending episode
after a sudden readers I’ve been sending
out sonar for the future having it
bounced back to see how much you would
give at the end of luckier life to be
right back where you are right now if
all the possibilities and all the health
and the vitality the energy ahead of it
but that’s what we should enjoy that’s
what we should take as an it kind of
against everyday in my life if you don’t
mind me saying so highlight trying to
talk about personal liberty here
personal happiness yeah we got problems
with the government you have we got
problems with this that the other but
what we do have right now is the
greatest gift what we would give
anything to to have mass at the end of
your lives and that’s really a very
powerful thought or imagination process
to go through and that’s sort of what I
would like to share with you as a way
that helped me really become more
really helped me live more richly and
more deeply and with a greater
appreciation of the days that we have
because I mean they’re gonna head right
I mean they’re absolutely going to end
one day the people we love we’re going
to slide off into the night of death we
are going to slide after them and
there’s going to be some period of time
very likely quite a considerable period
of time weeks months or years where we
know that it’s going to happen we know
that it’s going to end we know that our
life is going to end
what would we give to be back where we
are right now
what would we give to be back where we
are with all the possibilities in the
health that we have right now who give
anything anything so if it’s something
you would give it and would give
anything for I think you should really
enjoy it now while you have
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