[Music]
in this
Hello good afternoon
I know I want to be happy but like
I can achieve
There is a recipe that helps me
achieve happiness
I will share a series of experiences
which I have gone through throughout my
life in search of so longed for
happiness but to understand a little bit
plus my motivations I will start talking
tell them about my origins
I am originally from guamuchil sinaloa and
I was born to live and lived until the end of
high school my parents are people from
my dad field
finished until the 1st grade
my mom second primary
we were created in a humble way
you see here this is me you see there was
freedom
I’ve always been Zito cachetón
this is our king size
ergonomic
something that I want to highlight and that is very
important has to do with two
people who have marked my life and who
Without a doubt, it has been the heroines
to achieve that what I have achieved
so far one of these people
it’s my mom here is my younger sister
This is me and my brother I know he’s
taking the photo here
one of the dreams and the definitions
of my mom’s success is not that we had
a better future
his definition of success was to achieve
rather to get my children to study
in the best university in the country
I do not know how it is but
it was a fact and it’s something that happened
in my childhood
it was a happy childhood however with
the goal of always trying to
study at the best university in
country I was too killed I always
I was studying her like that , I’m already spoiled
in primary and secondary
in that moment for me happiness was
very simple if I played but my
priority was to study dedicate myself to 100%
get good grades additional to
to be studying I worked in the trunk
he collected boats and irons and then
sold by kilo my most successful business
an attempt outside the house
I rented it for minutes and it generated 50
daily weights I come from a culture that
my parents gave me savings and
effort dedication then this was
my story up to high school
at 18 years old, the tec de monterrey arrived
with scholarship obviously with many fears
with many fears with certain
insecurity
I never had gone up the elevator
great avenues scared me and
fact he lived in a house of assistance
what was happening the drink that was
llama eugenio garza sada that is in front
this mural that sells a photo lived in
the third floor and the first days I
I could see the great skill with a
squirt of cars scared me I was trying
see how the students were dressed and
monterrey
I spent my first seven semesters of the
I was a career studying mouse
library
because he says it that way because at that moment
my model of happiness was that you go
well at school be successful that you
Dad will feel really good because you
is going well in school and so I
I felt happy
in fact in that house we lived seven
foreign students and on Fridays then I
you say ah let’s go to the movies we’re going to give a
back to go to a dive my answer
it was always
he said is that right now the role
It’s my turn to study so that I can go
well keep the scholarship and x and be happy
because my parents are going to be happy
with my performance since I graduated that
I work to earn my own money I go
to be able to give all those those luxuries and those
exits and so one raisin is seventh
semester
here I am dreaming in the tec
you can see that the latina followed me for a long time
weather
what happened at the end of the seventh
semester
a trigger event happened because I get
a notification where they tell me that at
be the student with the highest average
tec engineering de Monterrey was
invited to eat with the president that
at that time he was the ernesto doctor
zedillo ponce de león because I do not
I could believe imagine so many efforts
15 years studying
and get to the point where I could go to
able to talk with the president and eat
with him
the event was a trigger not for the
message that I’m not president not because
we ate with him
the event was a trigger because once
I returned to the assistance house
after this apparent great achievement
I remember very well that we had in the
Help house a sofa
where when I was calmer I
I would sit and start thinking after
this event I said hey something was achieved
which your parents feel very
proud
and the answer was obviously no I’m not
happy after 15 years of effort
that high notes will take me to
success and to feel fulfilled in that
moment was not happy
So I decided
change a little the boy the nerd the
always nailed to school in the
classes in the library tucked up
late hours at night
and I said I have to reinforce my part
social now yes rasa
and this Friday cinema we are going to do that
there is a gap I do not take the
happiness of being nerd being child
It is killed and it changed my life
Friday will not be neither this and pachanga
friends
notice that the academic question
it decreased but it did not go to the ground
began the change to such a degree for example
here they were giving me a recognition
but for partying with this
compadre we arrived late for the award
and then we each gave ourselves the
respective recognition
to that degree of change
time goes by
I still did not like it
I feel in today’s show
because the academic part there goes
the social part I already have friends and I leave
I already have fun and had a great time
happy
that they think was missing
for the girlfriend a girlfriend
I already had friends everything was fine is a
Mark then weighs you to that desire
at the parties we left
obviously I was already aiming well
clear a girl so that this model
of happiness that was built
it was more complete
more integral
and I applied
obviously the bride arrived
we had a great time we followed
sharing with friends we went out to
parties and one night or rather one
morning after
back from the one of the pachanga
I feel again on the couch
and the same question you always are
the answer is not
then he added that he was missing
my model
I had focused school social part
simple mental part felt that I had to
believe in something else
having a certain sense of
belonging to a somewhat higher belief
and decide to reinforce the spiritual part
in the assistance house there were three
people of different religions we were
seven there were three to aim for
transfers to see my concern as all
they approached me and invited me
and churches
I remember one of them very curious
where he accepted the invitation when he arrived
the church I had received very well
a tub at the bottom with water and one of the
rites was that one were all formed they were
advancing when they reached the tub you
they put their heads
in the corner with water and I asked you
and so I went forward in the row advancing
until he arrived
they take me by the neck
I put my head in the water and they ask me
saw goodbye
no sir
no not the good
then they do it again
says goodbye
I really do not see it I ‘m already
worried
to the third routine I tell you I already saw it
so as not to tell them a long story
finally I stayed in a religion in
the one who went to church every Sunday and
so to feel good makes me relax and
It made me feel the easy interior that
I was in need
now that I see it with the passage of time
this model that was building
Student amendment
It depends on what you set your time
that you dedicate to him is where you go to
get the results better than that
whether you focus on the academic part
you better go well and you have
to go because all your time and energy
you are getting into that
the challenge
if you stick too much in the part
social then definitely the others
legs of the table will keep things
if you focus too much on the spiritual
it’s probably the same
at that moment my conception of
happiness was to achieve this balance
so that as a person I felt
accomplished
here we have graduating from the
college
if I could return the time
would start seventh of our eighth
semester to try to balance and to
balance my life
the qualifications are important but
they are not everything
within my professional development of
been in the area of human resources
perfectly that the profile of
professional that is sought is a
integral professional a person
integral not only one person
pinned on the ratings
so let me give you some advice
to young people is to have genes
the school is important but it’s not all
try to deform integrally
coming to congresses
participating in representative teams
an obvious international experience
have a girlfriend of course
[Music]
Well no planets rules or nothing
we had a great time was more than a year of
courtship and at that time was a part
very important in life
one more reflection they would like
to mention them here is that we are so
accelerated
we always walk to the races always
we have many things to do that few
Sometimes we stop and make a stop on
the way to see if what we are
doing leads us to what we want
achieve always walk in the lane of
high speed is more imagine what
pass
if we go through the high-speed lane
and suddenly a pothole or
a cap that we make reach of
dodge it like you squeeze the body and
you go
where do I go with this
if we really want to build our
own model of happiness we have to
do those jumps on the road we have
that slow down we can not walk
accelerated all the time and we have to
question what we are doing and
is what we want
the purpose that we have in life is
very important to be able to reach
happiness as a person now back
because it is
this model
according to the priorities he conceives
in his person there is no recipe is not a
universal model
and is dynamic or was blamed modifying
As time went on I graduated from the
college
I know
to the second big pillar to heroin
of my life that is here present
here
[Music]
pachangas we also left
I took her to know where I come from
roots I feel very proud
I said if you pass the test of endurance
there the ranch
and so not to tell them the long story
here they already have me signing, see the face
here no no no no no I decided
make him a sun
this kid has his face
time passes the model of happiness
follow
the academic part becomes part
professional
sentimental as part of courtship
pass the couple relationship part of
a happy marriage
the social part continues and the part
spiritual I no longer had the red sofa but
it is necessary you are happy
what do you think
so not totally
not totally missing the sense then
natural and normal of any person’s
want to transcend and leave something
in whom
who motivates you to make a better world
and then came the part of the next
table leg
I love this photo
our son Andrew
Now if you ask me again it’s
happy
whatever the answer may be
and the professional part well
social well the spiritual part is
keep from chance part
sentimental good transcendence as there
with our son and we call it go
all right
but shares by another on the other hand
the table could be complicated
here what I want to convey to you is that
the model of happiness
It does not have to do so much with how many legs
or which legs you put to your table if it is
important to go building but there is something
more important
the key is in the sense that you look
in your life
and the people around you because
I go with this there is a study
that probably some of you
they saw
from another talk this Mr. Robert
Wallinger is a hardware researcher
who is doing a study at 724
people giving you follow-up for 75
years of their lives
trying to see what it is that makes them
happy
at the end of its existence that was the
those triggers that made that
outside people happy people
not to do
long the study and they will be able to see there but
Happiness
is not in the social ascent
it’s not fame it’s not wealth or what
big
after all a study of more than 75
following years following 724 people
the conclusion is simple
good relationships make us more
happy and more
good relations with people with
those who work good relationships
obviously with your family with your partner
Good relations
with society with the community with the
that you develop there is the key and
in that investigation it also comes out that
the highest quality relationships that
You must take care while you are looking for your
happiness model are relationships
with people close to your partner
with your children with your family
this is a newer photo of me
family
and here is what they made him transmit
is that the challenge we have to look for is
that as one goes conforming this
table or these legs of your table
Happiness model has to do it
caring relationships at all times
personal especially those
personal relationships with people who
is closer to one that are the ones that at
end of the road you will be
accompanying in any situation
criticism you have
to end
[Music]
three phases first dare to do their
own model of happiness see which ones
have and see what those points are
they want to achieve second
in that model of happiness they must
be looking for the balance but for
that and of knowing and questioning if
are achieving they must make stops in the
path
third enjoy the trip and take care
much the relationships they have with the
people close to you many
Thank you
[Applause]
[Music]
in this
Hello good afternoon
I know I want to be happy but like
I can achieve
There is a recipe that helps me
achieve happiness
I will share a series of experiences
which I have gone through throughout my
life in search of so longed for
happiness but to understand a little bit
plus my motivations I will start talking
tell them about my origins
I am originally from guamuchil sinaloa and
I was born to live and lived until the end of
high school my parents are people from
my dad field
finished until the 1st grade
my mom second primary
we were created in a humble way
you see here this is me you see there was
freedom
I’ve always been Zito cachetón
this is our king size
ergonomic
something that I want to highlight and that is very
important has to do with two
people who have marked my life and who
Without a doubt, it has been the heroines
to achieve that what I have achieved
so far one of these people
it’s my mom here is my younger sister
This is me and my brother I know he’s
taking the photo here
one of the dreams and the definitions
of my mom’s success is not that we had
a better future
his definition of success was to achieve
rather to get my children to study
in the best university in the country
I do not know how it is but
it was a fact and it’s something that happened
in my childhood
it was a happy childhood however with
the goal of always trying to
study at the best university in
country I was too killed I always
I was studying her like that , I’m already spoiled
in primary and secondary
in that moment for me happiness was
very simple if I played but my
priority was to study dedicate myself to 100%
get good grades additional to
to be studying I worked in the trunk
he collected boats and irons and then
sold by kilo my most successful business
an attempt outside the house
I rented it for minutes and it generated 50
daily weights I come from a culture that
my parents gave me savings and
effort dedication then this was
my story up to high school
at 18 years old, the tec de monterrey arrived
with scholarship obviously with many fears
with many fears with certain
insecurity
I never had gone up the elevator
great avenues scared me and
fact he lived in a house of assistance
what was happening the drink that was
llama eugenio garza sada that is in front
this mural that sells a photo lived in
the third floor and the first days I
I could see the great skill with a
squirt of cars scared me I was trying
see how the students were dressed and
monterrey
I spent my first seven semesters of the
I was a career studying mouse
library
because he says it that way because at that moment
my model of happiness was that you go
well at school be successful that you
Dad will feel really good because you
is going well in school and so I
I felt happy
in fact in that house we lived seven
foreign students and on Fridays then I
you say ah let’s go to the movies we’re going to give a
back to go to a dive my answer
it was always
he said is that right now the role
It’s my turn to study so that I can go
well keep the scholarship and x and be happy
because my parents are going to be happy
with my performance since I graduated that
I work to earn my own money I go
to be able to give all those those luxuries and those
exits and so one raisin is seventh
semester
here I am dreaming in the tec
you can see that the latina followed me for a long time
weather
what happened at the end of the seventh
semester
a trigger event happened because I get
a notification where they tell me that at
be the student with the highest average
tec engineering de Monterrey was
invited to eat with the president that
at that time he was the ernesto doctor
zedillo ponce de león because I do not
I could believe imagine so many efforts
15 years studying
and get to the point where I could go to
able to talk with the president and eat
with him
the event was a trigger not for the
message that I’m not president not because
we ate with him
the event was a trigger because once
I returned to the assistance house
after this apparent great achievement
I remember very well that we had in the
Help house a sofa
where when I was calmer I
I would sit and start thinking after
this event I said hey something was achieved
which your parents feel very
proud
and the answer was obviously no I’m not
happy after 15 years of effort
that high notes will take me to
success and to feel fulfilled in that
moment was not happy
So I decided
change a little the boy the nerd the
always nailed to school in the
classes in the library tucked up
late hours at night
and I said I have to reinforce my part
social now yes rasa
and this Friday cinema we are going to do that
there is a gap I do not take the
happiness of being nerd being child
It is killed and it changed my life
Friday will not be neither this and pachanga
friends
notice that the academic question
it decreased but it did not go to the ground
began the change to such a degree for example
here they were giving me a recognition
but for partying with this
compadre we arrived late for the award
and then we each gave ourselves the
respective recognition
to that degree of change
time goes by
I still did not like it
I feel in today’s show
because the academic part there goes
the social part I already have friends and I leave
I already have fun and had a great time
happy
that they think was missing
for the girlfriend a girlfriend
I already had friends everything was fine is a
Mark then weighs you to that desire
at the parties we left
obviously I was already aiming well
clear a girl so that this model
of happiness that was built
it was more complete
more integral
and I applied
obviously the bride arrived
we had a great time we followed
sharing with friends we went out to
parties and one night or rather one
morning after
back from the one of the pachanga
I feel again on the couch
and the same question you always are
the answer is not
then he added that he was missing
my model
I had focused school social part
simple mental part felt that I had to
believe in something else
having a certain sense of
belonging to a somewhat higher belief
and decide to reinforce the spiritual part
in the assistance house there were three
people of different religions we were
seven there were three to aim for
transfers to see my concern as all
they approached me and invited me
and churches
I remember one of them very curious
where he accepted the invitation when he arrived
the church I had received very well
a tub at the bottom with water and one of the
rites was that one were all formed they were
advancing when they reached the tub you
they put their heads
in the corner with water and I asked you
and so I went forward in the row advancing
until he arrived
they take me by the neck
I put my head in the water and they ask me
saw goodbye
no sir
no not the good
then they do it again
says goodbye
I really do not see it I ‘m already
worried
to the third routine I tell you I already saw it
so as not to tell them a long story
finally I stayed in a religion in
the one who went to church every Sunday and
so to feel good makes me relax and
It made me feel the easy interior that
I was in need
now that I see it with the passage of time
this model that was building
Student amendment
It depends on what you set your time
that you dedicate to him is where you go to
get the results better than that
whether you focus on the academic part
you better go well and you have
to go because all your time and energy
you are getting into that
the challenge
if you stick too much in the part
social then definitely the others
legs of the table will keep things
if you focus too much on the spiritual
it’s probably the same
at that moment my conception of
happiness was to achieve this balance
so that as a person I felt
accomplished
here we have graduating from the
college
if I could return the time
would start seventh of our eighth
semester to try to balance and to
balance my life
the qualifications are important but
they are not everything
within my professional development of
been in the area of human resources
perfectly that the profile of
professional that is sought is a
integral professional a person
integral not only one person
pinned on the ratings
so let me give you some advice
to young people is to have genes
the school is important but it’s not all
try to deform integrally
coming to congresses
participating in representative teams
an obvious international experience
have a girlfriend of course
[Music]
Well no planets rules or nothing
we had a great time was more than a year of
courtship and at that time was a part
very important in life
one more reflection they would like
to mention them here is that we are so
accelerated
we always walk to the races always
we have many things to do that few
Sometimes we stop and make a stop on
the way to see if what we are
doing leads us to what we want
achieve always walk in the lane of
high speed is more imagine what
pass
if we go through the high-speed lane
and suddenly a pothole or
a cap that we make reach of
dodge it like you squeeze the body and
you go
where do I go with this
if we really want to build our
own model of happiness we have to
do those jumps on the road we have
that slow down we can not walk
accelerated all the time and we have to
question what we are doing and
is what we want
the purpose that we have in life is
very important to be able to reach
happiness as a person now back
because it is
this model
according to the priorities he conceives
in his person there is no recipe is not a
universal model
and is dynamic or was blamed modifying
As time went on I graduated from the
college
I know
to the second big pillar to heroin
of my life that is here present
here
[Music]
pachangas we also left
I took her to know where I come from
roots I feel very proud
I said if you pass the test of endurance
there the ranch
and so not to tell them the long story
here they already have me signing, see the face
here no no no no no I decided
make him a sun
this kid has his face
time passes the model of happiness
follow
the academic part becomes part
professional
sentimental as part of courtship
pass the couple relationship part of
a happy marriage
the social part continues and the part
spiritual I no longer had the red sofa but
it is necessary you are happy
what do you think
so not totally
not totally missing the sense then
natural and normal of any person’s
want to transcend and leave something
in whom
who motivates you to make a better world
and then came the part of the next
table leg
I love this photo
our son Andrew
Now if you ask me again it’s
happy
whatever the answer may be
and the professional part well
social well the spiritual part is
keep from chance part
sentimental good transcendence as there
with our son and we call it go
all right
but shares by another on the other hand
the table could be complicated
here what I want to convey to you is that
the model of happiness
It does not have to do so much with how many legs
or which legs you put to your table if it is
important to go building but there is something
more important
the key is in the sense that you look
in your life
and the people around you because
I go with this there is a study
that probably some of you
they saw
from another talk this Mr. Robert
Wallinger is a hardware researcher
who is doing a study at 724
people giving you follow-up for 75
years of their lives
trying to see what it is that makes them
happy
at the end of its existence that was the
those triggers that made that
outside people happy people
not to do
long the study and they will be able to see there but
Happiness
is not in the social ascent
it’s not fame it’s not wealth or what
big
after all a study of more than 75
following years following 724 people
the conclusion is simple
good relationships make us more
happy and more
good relations with people with
those who work good relationships
obviously with your family with your partner
Good relations
with society with the community with the
that you develop there is the key and
in that investigation it also comes out that
the highest quality relationships that
You must take care while you are looking for your
happiness model are relationships
with people close to your partner
with your children with your family
this is a newer photo of me
family
and here is what they made him transmit
is that the challenge we have to look for is
that as one goes conforming this
table or these legs of your table
Happiness model has to do it
caring relationships at all times
personal especially those
personal relationships with people who
is closer to one that are the ones that at
end of the road you will be
accompanying in any situation
criticism you have
to end
[Music]
three phases first dare to do their
own model of happiness see which ones
have and see what those points are
they want to achieve second
in that model of happiness they must
be looking for the balance but for
that and of knowing and questioning if
are achieving they must make stops in the
path
third enjoy the trip and take care
much the relationships they have with the
people close to you many
Thank you
[Applause]
[Music]
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