this is the draft report on you
basically it goes poor bill skinny black
great physical stature and strength lack
the ability and ability to avoid the
rush lacks a really strong arm can’t
drive the ball downfield the not
solenoid type spiral system pipe layer
you can get exposed if forced to have
little
and gets not down I kind of gets me
fired up because that’s age and you know
the hell these people know
does it bother you that so many people
are happy to see you fail
absolutely at the end of the day all the
people that do know me to fail day they
gotta wake up tomorrow has the same life
that they had before they woke up today
and they got same personal problems they
had today you know and I’m gonna
continue to live the way I want to live
and continue to do the things that I
want to do with me and my family and be
happy with that so they can get a few
days or a few months or whatever the
case may be on being happy about not
only myself with the Miami Heat now
accomplishing their goal but you know
gotta get back to the real world
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you don’t pay a lot attention to reviews
and those kind of things
[Music]
well you know you’re always affected by
opinion but the more opinions there are
of you to me the more I the less I look
at them because I just can’t live my
life based upon what other people think
about me so I can’t concern myself too
much with what other people think you
know it’s just not healthy I don’t think
I can I could continue to do what I do
if I was constantly learning about what
somebody thought about it
you
father garrison could be in with me
[Music]
I think every time I say I’m about to do
something to do it waiting for me to
humble that’s probably one of the
biggest motivations behind a lot of
Iraq’s is the amount of people that want
me to fall or whatever I think that that
should be the motivation of the most
rapid the further you climb towards the
top the more the more hands you have on
the pant leg dragging for the bottom
so many people I talk to about collie
Pegasus this is the stupidest idea you
have ever gotten but I think I don’t
rather stupid a club as long as people
use it now we have 800 million people do
you think this all ok
I want to do something I’ve never done
before and I don’t know how but I can
imagine
I want to engage in the unknown I
truthfully want to pursue the unknown
and in the pursuit of the unknown
something comes to realization and I’m
never prepared for it so when I set out
to do what I set out to do I set out to
do median cost everybody told me you’re
not you can’t do that you can’t do that
and that’s also consistent with all
entrepreneurs there’s always a legion of
people who will tell them you can’t do
that and even if you couldn’t why would
you there’s so many better things to do
[Music]
well the biggest struggle man was just
getting around other people that would
say I can do it I mean that’s the
biggest struggle just you get around one
guy says yeah you can do it and then you
talk to him tomorrow and he’s like
nowadays it’s brick you can’t do it you
know there’s so few people telling you
to do it you know what there is a lot of
save your money
protect yourself conserve don’t spend
don’t take risk taking risk is the new
way to be risk adverse so we’re the
biggest struggle for me was my family
man the people closest to me was the
biggest struggle every time I went out
to do another deal everybody told me you
don’t need to do that it wants to be
accelerated on and then you got some a
new vacuum fan hey be careful nobody
likes the backseat
and so they’re sitting there they’re
putting their putting mental pressure on
the brakes and you’re trying to go
[Music]
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I think I have an insatiable appetite to
make things and share things to the
world I have you know compelled beyond a
reasonable doubt to do what I do I don’t
think that it can be a reasonable or
logical choice
I get a certain point you’re compelled
to do it
it’s too painful too brutal too neurotic
of a path to take so I think that back
compulsion has to be there has to be
something that you you can doubt all the
time but deep down inside you know that
this is something you have to do and you
know I think I’ve dealt with some of the
adversity some of the challenges of
which we’ve had many you know I started
a band in the world laughed at me
and we’ve had an incredible life as a
result so if I have listened to the
choir the chorus of everyone I would
have stopped because that’s what people
want you to do for some reason some
people would rather kill your dreams and
see you succeed I don’t know what that
is you know you know I think it’s
important to be stubborn and to follow
your dreams no matter what
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the only prize is this one and what can
you feel and what you want to accomplish
and if you can as you start out these
what could be Lanier’s or could be
factored I feel that I very often watch
a lot of young people sort of meander
around without any idea about why
they’re doing what they’re doing I mean
to want and to be ambitious and to want
to be successful is not enough
that’s just desire to know what you want
to understand why you’re doing it to
dedicate every breath in your body to
achieve if you feel you have something
to give if you feel that your particular
talent is worth developing is worth
caring for and then there’s nothing you
can’t achieve
then how’s your new your coming out so
far
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[Music]
statistics show that 95% of the people
that actually made a new year’s
resolution have already broken it by
today
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I mean think about it most people don’t
even make a resolution anymore why
because they banned them from years and
years and years and they know they’re
not going to follow through so after a
while who wants to disappoint yourself
who wants to be upset with yourself why
even bother to set a new standard for
this year you know it’s going to be the
same as last year so the question is you
know what is it that makes us even want
to make a resolution
it goes beyond tradition it’s something
inside of us that makes us want to make
things better and I think part of it is
the calendar gives us this idea that we
can have a fresh start that we can it
start from fresh and have this great
victory let’s use the calendar to serve
you today
let’s just see what does it really take
to make this thing happen because
there’s no denying that inside of you
the only thing that’s going to make you
happy and but you’re adding the decades
ahead it’s going to be having you have
an experience work on a regular basis
you feel like your life is making
progress so the secret to real happiness
is progress
progress equals happiness and if we can
make progress on a regular basis we feel
alive and that’s why at the beginning of
the year we get this thing like okay I
can have this fresh start I could really
do what my soul desires I could expand I
could grow I could improve I can change
or maybe better than change I can
progress so if you want to make real
progress then you really got to look at
your life in a different way you got to
say I got to take control of this
process and not just hope that’s going
to work out like people do to make a
resolution this really is not what
they’re really doing at the beginning of
the year and saying well here’s my
resolutions for the year and they really
basically tell you their wishes it’s
their wish list it’s what they hope it
all comes together and then they call it
a resolution but they don’t know what a
resolution is when you resolve something
to have a resolution as to resolve it
when you resolve this is how it’s going
to be that’s when you cut off any
possibility except the thing you’ve
committed to you’re going to find a way
to make things work and most people
they’re stating what they hope will come
together and if it doesn’t happen then
they’re disappointed look they’re not
too disappointed if they’re not too
vested what does it take successfully
create a lasting change in your life to
not only have a new year’s resolution
you fall through laws but really have a
lasting change the first step for
lasting change is very much like making
a new year’s resolution fundamentally
it’s the same the first step is you got
to have a vision a vision for what it is
you really truly want
I mean what are most people’s New Year’s
resolutions I’m going to stop eating
sugar and I’m going to stop smoking I’m
going to lose ten pounds probably that
is it’s not very inspiring for most
people you know it’s not telling you
what you’re going to get it’s only what
you’re not going to do it’s kind of hard
to have you move forward with that a
vision is about what you’re here to
create a vision that really works is one
that excites you if you say well my you
know my resolution my goal my how come
for this month this week this year is to
lose ex-member pounds that’s okay but
it’s not very compelling it has to be a
compelling vision that if something has
the power to pull you not something you
have to push yourself to do well the two
different types of motivation push
requires willpower and willpower never
last but will last is told having
something so exciting so attractive so
something to desire so much and you have
a hard time going to sleep at night you
get so up early in the morning to rock
it and take it to the next level that’s
what you’re looking to create another
easy to get
in the bottom line of our follows who
comes down to our emotional intensity
you gotta have strong enough leave them
that you’re going to follow through when
the going gets tough
they don’t have strong enough reasons to
push themselves through what’s going to
be necessary to get that dream to get
that goal when the inevitable challenges
come up when you’re starving hungry and
you’re cut you want to die like when you
got no time you’re stressed out you
haven’t worked out so that’s what you’re
supposed to do when the economy gets
tight and what you thought you’re going
to do does its work and so you give up
on the goals instead of finding another
way to get there you don’t let the fear
take you over if you’ve got strong
enough reason reasons come first answers
come second if you get a compelling
vision and you got strong enough reasons
that will push you through the tough
time you’re going to do things other
people don’t do it put a collapsing even
if you get off target you won’t go oh I
blew it you’ll get right back on target
make the change make things happen when
you really get clear and it’s compelling
and you’re reviewing it every day got
strong reasons you’re reviewing it every
day and you’re feeling it the brain
becomes incredibly acute at noticing
anything to get you to move forward
you know what do people do with New
Year’s resolution they come up with
something they kind of want it’s not a
compelling vision they don’t really have
strong enough reason
and they never review it again and tell
them notice that they broke up what they
said they really want to have make
happen because they didn’t really
resolve you resolve you have the vision
and compelling review of daily and you
feel it you envision it you experiencing
sniffles it’s out now ultimately what is
this really about ultimately if you’re
going to have lasting change in anything
really talking about just raising your
standards rave you are standard
what does that mean Corning’s downs
raise your standards well thank you for
the breakthrough thought coming lasting
change is different than involved you
don’t always get your goal but you
always get your standards
but when you decide something is a must
for you an absolute must when you cut
off any possible you say I’m going to
find a way I’m going to make the way
human beings when they resolve things
and they have make a real revolution
inside themselves which is they rave the
standard they make it a must they find
the way
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and you say s today well unreal rough
hard to stop smokin but you know I’m
going to smoke for my whole life run you
know I am a smoker I know your days are
numbered you going to be back smoking
cigarettes again because we all act
consistent with who we believe we are
I tell people the strongest force in the
whole human personality is this need to
stay consistent with how we define
ourselves
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and you defined yourself as somebody who
is really conservative if you’re a
really crazy person you act gray the
outrageous playful you don’t act
conservative because it’s not who you
are
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burn often people say well I can’t do
that I’m not that kind of push it and I
always say to people merely when did you
define yourself
I mean very often we made decisions in
our youth or very young about what to
believe about what we were capable of
about who we are as a person and that
becomes the glass ceiling if you will to
control this will power doesn’t last the
rituals can last a lifetime I bet you
have some rituals in your life right now
you’ve been doing three years even
though some of them don’t serve you once
you lock you in that identity your brain
finds a way to keep you there understand
wake yourself up you want a new year and
a new life you don’t need you to start
in January first start today start with
a little video then how’s your new year
coming out so far
when did you define yourself I mean
really how many years ago did you come
up with what you could and couldn’t do
in your life how many years ago most
people if they really look at how to
live in your life today it’s based on a
set of standards a set of beliefs that
they made choices about 10 20 30 or more
years ago
if you want to if you want to live in
your passion whatever your passion is
you have to be willing to not make money
at it
and want to do what you love you got to
do yes you have a choice you can choose
money or you can choose what you love
you
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my parents I’m sure I’ve moved his
occurrence they get a good job try make
the money make a good living
yeah and because I think that security
may go and make money but he do a job we
make money to leave that job yeah and
use the money they have nothing he used
your passion
I should have mentally make money to
lose money because always an actor
passion be happy for them actually mad
or not you’re safe you know right and
and let the challenge of that is that it
might be eight years or four years
before you’re actually making a living
at it perfect for something
and really when I wrote it I thought
nobody would read it I thought nobody
would read it I thought this story’s so
crazy I just have to tell this story
these things that seem to be spend all
your time trying to engineer the perfect
thing and the truth is we have no
control we just don’t know what’s going
to work or what’s not going to work
[Music]
we’re here because we’re meeting we’re a
little bit broken someone’s alone we
haven’t should you do it you want to
take in all the criticism that comes in
and more found you wouldn’t even work on
it so it don’t take it personally if you
have the filter inside that takes in all
criticism not personally and not
judgmental you taking the creditor than
you think
is that true this is a hard with
yourself if it’s true you what Calvin
and change it it’s not you to throw it
out at any while enjoy the journey
without the destination a lot of us been
lay our happiness when I get to this
love if I did my degree when I get the
kid it’s what I get married I’m going to
be happy enjoy the journey is going the
whole step the whole process everything
that you get up to scrap or whatever it
is are after you know I’m a goal
laureate again you know celebrate we can
get to the finish lab celebrate all
along the way so we all along the way
how do I speak German because I couldn’t
even comprehend the alternative the
biggest poison in us is regret you won
the ultimate ultimate lottery and you’re
not driven and you’re not fired up and
you’re not going for it and you’re
willing to sit like a lump and just wait
till you die success without fulfilment
is the ultimate failure
success without fulfilment is the
ultimate failure if you’re going to have
an extraordinary life one of the master
skills for actually creating that life
is mastering this mastering the ability
to take what you envision and make it
real
it’s always worth it to do your best and
to believe in something and to work
towards the attainment of the goal and
if it is that you have to expand your
vision then you climb higher and you do
that and you don’t be afraid to
I’m sitting between intellect and
instinct intellect can describe it but
only instinctive
and some the prints of that ideology I
need you to go back to all of my life
and begin to see not only me but others
how is they position themselves between
intellect an infant and most men to you
to this one that makes me think whether
it’s an elephant announces a new issue
raising a family it is simply over there
I put anything what it takes to
withstand the pressure but the neighbors
say you don’t know what you got you
don’t know what some guy until all hell
breaks loose
in your life you don’t know I’m sorry to
have until you’ve been under fire and
I’m this trouble and them the graces you
can’t learn what’s in you getting back
into lazy boy serious the remote control
once at a 300-mile that’s when you get
to see what you got
hope and creativity are two of the most
important things in the world
[Music]
to any creative person who’s had a door
slammed in their face
[Music]
or actors who have had their auditions
cut off or waited for a callback to
didn’t come or anybody anywhere really
that feels like giving up sometimes
finds it in themselves to get up
moving forward I share this with you
because the truth is if you want to be
an anomaly you’ve got a athletes
I love the climb through the step back
is exciting
I love with open those law is where I
finally this is hot every day is hard
and if you don’t have the stomach to
whether this board will not be
successful
what you got custard neighbor found made
of something
Malou wrong we’ll just be told that
we’re not because there’s a lot of money
a lot of money in telling us that we’re
not pretty enough still in love more
than a good enough that I want to tell
you that
[Music]
[Applause]
I let this go
my dream
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and ready I’ve got the lead you’re here
for
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Rossum Venga cable being ripped to
shreds
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well the whole goal means that some
opera fans we as human seated after the
heading for home already
[Applause]
[Music]
[Applause]
of an improbable comeback
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yeah
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ah
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a senator
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[Music]
in the acting business you fail all the
time early on in my career I auditioned
for a part in a Broadway musical perfect
role for me I thought I didn’t get the
job but here’s the thing I didn’t quit I
didn’t fall back I walked out of there
to prepare for the next audition and the
next audition and the next condition I
prayed I prayed and I prayed but I
continued to fail and fail
so you will catch a break and I didn’t
catch you away
last year I did a play both men
one two Tony Award but here’s the kicker
he was at the court people
is that main theater that I failed at
the first audition
certainly
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you know every time you lose something
you’re one step closer woman the next
time a difference between successful
people are not successful if you are
people you love the hardest thing we
like to learn is to lose winnings easy
you’re waiting you’re happy you know
high five your friends are happy it’s
your ability to take a long get up the
next day just your soap off and keep
going I have lost it everything you can
imagine
seriously we have I have going to eat
out up and put down and everything that
can go wrong
what’s gone wrong but
[Applause]
[Music]
for those of you that have experienced
some hardships don’t give up on your
dream no one could have convinced me by
holding on by continuing to push forward
by continuing to run toward my dream at
one day I would have my own talk show
it’s a long shot ladies and gentlemen
from Liberty fitting abandoned building
Auto floor
now we’re knowing my mother and father
it’s a long shot
being here with you today in this zone
in Atlantis a long shot
no college training label that you can
for mental record but I kept ready to
watch my tree
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our members rented my very first show I
worked my butt off say $12,000 tax
returns the legs and arms lot money I
say that work hard things myself ready
the 14th Street played out put that show
up thought that 1,200 people would come
over weekend and early showed up and I
knew everyone but I didn’t stop that
didn’t deter me I was in 1992-93 same
thing happened that in 94 95 96 my seven
of the 1998 playing the other faces
nobody’s showing up in the archive
building one show a year working with
different promoters trying to get the
show up and nobody showed up but I
didn’t stop can much might mind what I
say to you now looking at me now Here I
am a human being there’s no difference
between my human and your Indian the
only thing is that you’re trying to get
cannot stop believe in any way no matter
what anybody says no matter what anybody
tells you you have to know it beyond
noise
[Music]
just keep going find that thing you love
because it’s tough work
time out of time you got to wake up that
you got a drive you got to be driven to
to go get something to down I feel like
anybody know anything about the run it
depends on how bad you want and I wanted
to do it
determination to me is not more
importantly desire desire comes from a
place of thinking I needed that or the
presupposition is I’m not good enough
because I don’t already have it
determination is simply a case of wealth
this one focuses where I’m going now I
don’t need it I’m just choosing to get
it and get out of the damn way because I
move the very minute if you decided on
something you know that’s what you want
you’ll know you’re going to do it all of
these negatives that have been following
you they pick up their baggage and get
out they just move out
they can’t live in the positive my
[Applause]
passion thank you
nobody can nobody control that nobody
can help with absolutely that’s all
about you
every every vitally reason one desperate
aggravator no one ever 100% in the Box
the hope no player
Romario maybe one for all nobody else to
make definitive that you have to move
with courage with faith with
determination in connection with
carrying out for desert disapperance
nobody you can do the mantra
not Catholic Martin Natalie and to make
your time could you move with I feel
you can relax use are allowed to do that
audibly what are you going to be the
pills not know this person this person
calls me up like if I could maybe we
could have but it doesn’t have it dry it
did you know and so therefore if you
don’t have drive you
you quit cultivating your talent
you
basically it goes poor bill skinny black
great physical stature and strength lack
the ability and ability to avoid the
rush lacks a really strong arm can’t
drive the ball downfield the not
solenoid type spiral system pipe layer
you can get exposed if forced to have
little
and gets not down I kind of gets me
fired up because that’s age and you know
the hell these people know
does it bother you that so many people
are happy to see you fail
absolutely at the end of the day all the
people that do know me to fail day they
gotta wake up tomorrow has the same life
that they had before they woke up today
and they got same personal problems they
had today you know and I’m gonna
continue to live the way I want to live
and continue to do the things that I
want to do with me and my family and be
happy with that so they can get a few
days or a few months or whatever the
case may be on being happy about not
only myself with the Miami Heat now
accomplishing their goal but you know
gotta get back to the real world
[Music]
you don’t pay a lot attention to reviews
and those kind of things
[Music]
well you know you’re always affected by
opinion but the more opinions there are
of you to me the more I the less I look
at them because I just can’t live my
life based upon what other people think
about me so I can’t concern myself too
much with what other people think you
know it’s just not healthy I don’t think
I can I could continue to do what I do
if I was constantly learning about what
somebody thought about it
you
father garrison could be in with me
[Music]
I think every time I say I’m about to do
something to do it waiting for me to
humble that’s probably one of the
biggest motivations behind a lot of
Iraq’s is the amount of people that want
me to fall or whatever I think that that
should be the motivation of the most
rapid the further you climb towards the
top the more the more hands you have on
the pant leg dragging for the bottom
so many people I talk to about collie
Pegasus this is the stupidest idea you
have ever gotten but I think I don’t
rather stupid a club as long as people
use it now we have 800 million people do
you think this all ok
I want to do something I’ve never done
before and I don’t know how but I can
imagine
I want to engage in the unknown I
truthfully want to pursue the unknown
and in the pursuit of the unknown
something comes to realization and I’m
never prepared for it so when I set out
to do what I set out to do I set out to
do median cost everybody told me you’re
not you can’t do that you can’t do that
and that’s also consistent with all
entrepreneurs there’s always a legion of
people who will tell them you can’t do
that and even if you couldn’t why would
you there’s so many better things to do
[Music]
well the biggest struggle man was just
getting around other people that would
say I can do it I mean that’s the
biggest struggle just you get around one
guy says yeah you can do it and then you
talk to him tomorrow and he’s like
nowadays it’s brick you can’t do it you
know there’s so few people telling you
to do it you know what there is a lot of
save your money
protect yourself conserve don’t spend
don’t take risk taking risk is the new
way to be risk adverse so we’re the
biggest struggle for me was my family
man the people closest to me was the
biggest struggle every time I went out
to do another deal everybody told me you
don’t need to do that it wants to be
accelerated on and then you got some a
new vacuum fan hey be careful nobody
likes the backseat
and so they’re sitting there they’re
putting their putting mental pressure on
the brakes and you’re trying to go
[Music]
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I think I have an insatiable appetite to
make things and share things to the
world I have you know compelled beyond a
reasonable doubt to do what I do I don’t
think that it can be a reasonable or
logical choice
I get a certain point you’re compelled
to do it
it’s too painful too brutal too neurotic
of a path to take so I think that back
compulsion has to be there has to be
something that you you can doubt all the
time but deep down inside you know that
this is something you have to do and you
know I think I’ve dealt with some of the
adversity some of the challenges of
which we’ve had many you know I started
a band in the world laughed at me
and we’ve had an incredible life as a
result so if I have listened to the
choir the chorus of everyone I would
have stopped because that’s what people
want you to do for some reason some
people would rather kill your dreams and
see you succeed I don’t know what that
is you know you know I think it’s
important to be stubborn and to follow
your dreams no matter what
[Music]
the only prize is this one and what can
you feel and what you want to accomplish
and if you can as you start out these
what could be Lanier’s or could be
factored I feel that I very often watch
a lot of young people sort of meander
around without any idea about why
they’re doing what they’re doing I mean
to want and to be ambitious and to want
to be successful is not enough
that’s just desire to know what you want
to understand why you’re doing it to
dedicate every breath in your body to
achieve if you feel you have something
to give if you feel that your particular
talent is worth developing is worth
caring for and then there’s nothing you
can’t achieve
then how’s your new your coming out so
far
[Applause]
[Music]
statistics show that 95% of the people
that actually made a new year’s
resolution have already broken it by
today
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I mean think about it most people don’t
even make a resolution anymore why
because they banned them from years and
years and years and they know they’re
not going to follow through so after a
while who wants to disappoint yourself
who wants to be upset with yourself why
even bother to set a new standard for
this year you know it’s going to be the
same as last year so the question is you
know what is it that makes us even want
to make a resolution
it goes beyond tradition it’s something
inside of us that makes us want to make
things better and I think part of it is
the calendar gives us this idea that we
can have a fresh start that we can it
start from fresh and have this great
victory let’s use the calendar to serve
you today
let’s just see what does it really take
to make this thing happen because
there’s no denying that inside of you
the only thing that’s going to make you
happy and but you’re adding the decades
ahead it’s going to be having you have
an experience work on a regular basis
you feel like your life is making
progress so the secret to real happiness
is progress
progress equals happiness and if we can
make progress on a regular basis we feel
alive and that’s why at the beginning of
the year we get this thing like okay I
can have this fresh start I could really
do what my soul desires I could expand I
could grow I could improve I can change
or maybe better than change I can
progress so if you want to make real
progress then you really got to look at
your life in a different way you got to
say I got to take control of this
process and not just hope that’s going
to work out like people do to make a
resolution this really is not what
they’re really doing at the beginning of
the year and saying well here’s my
resolutions for the year and they really
basically tell you their wishes it’s
their wish list it’s what they hope it
all comes together and then they call it
a resolution but they don’t know what a
resolution is when you resolve something
to have a resolution as to resolve it
when you resolve this is how it’s going
to be that’s when you cut off any
possibility except the thing you’ve
committed to you’re going to find a way
to make things work and most people
they’re stating what they hope will come
together and if it doesn’t happen then
they’re disappointed look they’re not
too disappointed if they’re not too
vested what does it take successfully
create a lasting change in your life to
not only have a new year’s resolution
you fall through laws but really have a
lasting change the first step for
lasting change is very much like making
a new year’s resolution fundamentally
it’s the same the first step is you got
to have a vision a vision for what it is
you really truly want
I mean what are most people’s New Year’s
resolutions I’m going to stop eating
sugar and I’m going to stop smoking I’m
going to lose ten pounds probably that
is it’s not very inspiring for most
people you know it’s not telling you
what you’re going to get it’s only what
you’re not going to do it’s kind of hard
to have you move forward with that a
vision is about what you’re here to
create a vision that really works is one
that excites you if you say well my you
know my resolution my goal my how come
for this month this week this year is to
lose ex-member pounds that’s okay but
it’s not very compelling it has to be a
compelling vision that if something has
the power to pull you not something you
have to push yourself to do well the two
different types of motivation push
requires willpower and willpower never
last but will last is told having
something so exciting so attractive so
something to desire so much and you have
a hard time going to sleep at night you
get so up early in the morning to rock
it and take it to the next level that’s
what you’re looking to create another
easy to get
in the bottom line of our follows who
comes down to our emotional intensity
you gotta have strong enough leave them
that you’re going to follow through when
the going gets tough
they don’t have strong enough reasons to
push themselves through what’s going to
be necessary to get that dream to get
that goal when the inevitable challenges
come up when you’re starving hungry and
you’re cut you want to die like when you
got no time you’re stressed out you
haven’t worked out so that’s what you’re
supposed to do when the economy gets
tight and what you thought you’re going
to do does its work and so you give up
on the goals instead of finding another
way to get there you don’t let the fear
take you over if you’ve got strong
enough reason reasons come first answers
come second if you get a compelling
vision and you got strong enough reasons
that will push you through the tough
time you’re going to do things other
people don’t do it put a collapsing even
if you get off target you won’t go oh I
blew it you’ll get right back on target
make the change make things happen when
you really get clear and it’s compelling
and you’re reviewing it every day got
strong reasons you’re reviewing it every
day and you’re feeling it the brain
becomes incredibly acute at noticing
anything to get you to move forward
you know what do people do with New
Year’s resolution they come up with
something they kind of want it’s not a
compelling vision they don’t really have
strong enough reason
and they never review it again and tell
them notice that they broke up what they
said they really want to have make
happen because they didn’t really
resolve you resolve you have the vision
and compelling review of daily and you
feel it you envision it you experiencing
sniffles it’s out now ultimately what is
this really about ultimately if you’re
going to have lasting change in anything
really talking about just raising your
standards rave you are standard
what does that mean Corning’s downs
raise your standards well thank you for
the breakthrough thought coming lasting
change is different than involved you
don’t always get your goal but you
always get your standards
but when you decide something is a must
for you an absolute must when you cut
off any possible you say I’m going to
find a way I’m going to make the way
human beings when they resolve things
and they have make a real revolution
inside themselves which is they rave the
standard they make it a must they find
the way
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and you say s today well unreal rough
hard to stop smokin but you know I’m
going to smoke for my whole life run you
know I am a smoker I know your days are
numbered you going to be back smoking
cigarettes again because we all act
consistent with who we believe we are
I tell people the strongest force in the
whole human personality is this need to
stay consistent with how we define
ourselves
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and you defined yourself as somebody who
is really conservative if you’re a
really crazy person you act gray the
outrageous playful you don’t act
conservative because it’s not who you
are
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burn often people say well I can’t do
that I’m not that kind of push it and I
always say to people merely when did you
define yourself
I mean very often we made decisions in
our youth or very young about what to
believe about what we were capable of
about who we are as a person and that
becomes the glass ceiling if you will to
control this will power doesn’t last the
rituals can last a lifetime I bet you
have some rituals in your life right now
you’ve been doing three years even
though some of them don’t serve you once
you lock you in that identity your brain
finds a way to keep you there understand
wake yourself up you want a new year and
a new life you don’t need you to start
in January first start today start with
a little video then how’s your new year
coming out so far
when did you define yourself I mean
really how many years ago did you come
up with what you could and couldn’t do
in your life how many years ago most
people if they really look at how to
live in your life today it’s based on a
set of standards a set of beliefs that
they made choices about 10 20 30 or more
years ago
if you want to if you want to live in
your passion whatever your passion is
you have to be willing to not make money
at it
and want to do what you love you got to
do yes you have a choice you can choose
money or you can choose what you love
you
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my parents I’m sure I’ve moved his
occurrence they get a good job try make
the money make a good living
yeah and because I think that security
may go and make money but he do a job we
make money to leave that job yeah and
use the money they have nothing he used
your passion
I should have mentally make money to
lose money because always an actor
passion be happy for them actually mad
or not you’re safe you know right and
and let the challenge of that is that it
might be eight years or four years
before you’re actually making a living
at it perfect for something
and really when I wrote it I thought
nobody would read it I thought nobody
would read it I thought this story’s so
crazy I just have to tell this story
these things that seem to be spend all
your time trying to engineer the perfect
thing and the truth is we have no
control we just don’t know what’s going
to work or what’s not going to work
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we’re here because we’re meeting we’re a
little bit broken someone’s alone we
haven’t should you do it you want to
take in all the criticism that comes in
and more found you wouldn’t even work on
it so it don’t take it personally if you
have the filter inside that takes in all
criticism not personally and not
judgmental you taking the creditor than
you think
is that true this is a hard with
yourself if it’s true you what Calvin
and change it it’s not you to throw it
out at any while enjoy the journey
without the destination a lot of us been
lay our happiness when I get to this
love if I did my degree when I get the
kid it’s what I get married I’m going to
be happy enjoy the journey is going the
whole step the whole process everything
that you get up to scrap or whatever it
is are after you know I’m a goal
laureate again you know celebrate we can
get to the finish lab celebrate all
along the way so we all along the way
how do I speak German because I couldn’t
even comprehend the alternative the
biggest poison in us is regret you won
the ultimate ultimate lottery and you’re
not driven and you’re not fired up and
you’re not going for it and you’re
willing to sit like a lump and just wait
till you die success without fulfilment
is the ultimate failure
success without fulfilment is the
ultimate failure if you’re going to have
an extraordinary life one of the master
skills for actually creating that life
is mastering this mastering the ability
to take what you envision and make it
real
it’s always worth it to do your best and
to believe in something and to work
towards the attainment of the goal and
if it is that you have to expand your
vision then you climb higher and you do
that and you don’t be afraid to
I’m sitting between intellect and
instinct intellect can describe it but
only instinctive
and some the prints of that ideology I
need you to go back to all of my life
and begin to see not only me but others
how is they position themselves between
intellect an infant and most men to you
to this one that makes me think whether
it’s an elephant announces a new issue
raising a family it is simply over there
I put anything what it takes to
withstand the pressure but the neighbors
say you don’t know what you got you
don’t know what some guy until all hell
breaks loose
in your life you don’t know I’m sorry to
have until you’ve been under fire and
I’m this trouble and them the graces you
can’t learn what’s in you getting back
into lazy boy serious the remote control
once at a 300-mile that’s when you get
to see what you got
hope and creativity are two of the most
important things in the world
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to any creative person who’s had a door
slammed in their face
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or actors who have had their auditions
cut off or waited for a callback to
didn’t come or anybody anywhere really
that feels like giving up sometimes
finds it in themselves to get up
moving forward I share this with you
because the truth is if you want to be
an anomaly you’ve got a athletes
I love the climb through the step back
is exciting
I love with open those law is where I
finally this is hot every day is hard
and if you don’t have the stomach to
whether this board will not be
successful
what you got custard neighbor found made
of something
Malou wrong we’ll just be told that
we’re not because there’s a lot of money
a lot of money in telling us that we’re
not pretty enough still in love more
than a good enough that I want to tell
you that
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I let this go
my dream
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and ready I’ve got the lead you’re here
for
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Rossum Venga cable being ripped to
shreds
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well the whole goal means that some
opera fans we as human seated after the
heading for home already
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of an improbable comeback
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yeah
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ah
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a senator
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in the acting business you fail all the
time early on in my career I auditioned
for a part in a Broadway musical perfect
role for me I thought I didn’t get the
job but here’s the thing I didn’t quit I
didn’t fall back I walked out of there
to prepare for the next audition and the
next audition and the next condition I
prayed I prayed and I prayed but I
continued to fail and fail
so you will catch a break and I didn’t
catch you away
last year I did a play both men
one two Tony Award but here’s the kicker
he was at the court people
is that main theater that I failed at
the first audition
certainly
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you know every time you lose something
you’re one step closer woman the next
time a difference between successful
people are not successful if you are
people you love the hardest thing we
like to learn is to lose winnings easy
you’re waiting you’re happy you know
high five your friends are happy it’s
your ability to take a long get up the
next day just your soap off and keep
going I have lost it everything you can
imagine
seriously we have I have going to eat
out up and put down and everything that
can go wrong
what’s gone wrong but
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for those of you that have experienced
some hardships don’t give up on your
dream no one could have convinced me by
holding on by continuing to push forward
by continuing to run toward my dream at
one day I would have my own talk show
it’s a long shot ladies and gentlemen
from Liberty fitting abandoned building
Auto floor
now we’re knowing my mother and father
it’s a long shot
being here with you today in this zone
in Atlantis a long shot
no college training label that you can
for mental record but I kept ready to
watch my tree
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our members rented my very first show I
worked my butt off say $12,000 tax
returns the legs and arms lot money I
say that work hard things myself ready
the 14th Street played out put that show
up thought that 1,200 people would come
over weekend and early showed up and I
knew everyone but I didn’t stop that
didn’t deter me I was in 1992-93 same
thing happened that in 94 95 96 my seven
of the 1998 playing the other faces
nobody’s showing up in the archive
building one show a year working with
different promoters trying to get the
show up and nobody showed up but I
didn’t stop can much might mind what I
say to you now looking at me now Here I
am a human being there’s no difference
between my human and your Indian the
only thing is that you’re trying to get
cannot stop believe in any way no matter
what anybody says no matter what anybody
tells you you have to know it beyond
noise
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just keep going find that thing you love
because it’s tough work
time out of time you got to wake up that
you got a drive you got to be driven to
to go get something to down I feel like
anybody know anything about the run it
depends on how bad you want and I wanted
to do it
determination to me is not more
importantly desire desire comes from a
place of thinking I needed that or the
presupposition is I’m not good enough
because I don’t already have it
determination is simply a case of wealth
this one focuses where I’m going now I
don’t need it I’m just choosing to get
it and get out of the damn way because I
move the very minute if you decided on
something you know that’s what you want
you’ll know you’re going to do it all of
these negatives that have been following
you they pick up their baggage and get
out they just move out
they can’t live in the positive my
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passion thank you
nobody can nobody control that nobody
can help with absolutely that’s all
about you
every every vitally reason one desperate
aggravator no one ever 100% in the Box
the hope no player
Romario maybe one for all nobody else to
make definitive that you have to move
with courage with faith with
determination in connection with
carrying out for desert disapperance
nobody you can do the mantra
not Catholic Martin Natalie and to make
your time could you move with I feel
you can relax use are allowed to do that
audibly what are you going to be the
pills not know this person this person
calls me up like if I could maybe we
could have but it doesn’t have it dry it
did you know and so therefore if you
don’t have drive you
you quit cultivating your talent
you
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