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Flying Out of the Pigeonhole with Comic Relief | Clare Ruble | TEDxFurmanU


think of your favorite comedian any

comedian and keep that in your head for

just a bit while I talk laughter is the

best medicine this is a lovely saying

that choose to make light of negative

situations however the creator of this

passive remark forgot one important

detail when people say this phrase you

see when the joke is made by a woman

suddenly a bunch of ailments occur when

a woman makes a joke suddenly a bunch of

adjectives and categories get pinned on

her just because she’s trying to be

funny a woman must suddenly be funny but

not vulgar slapstick but not sloppy

pretty but not unordinary you see a

woman is suddenly pinned into a lot of

categories with a lot of details put on

her just because she’s trying to make a

joke I simply call this being

pigeon-holed a pigeonhole according to

Webster’s dictionary as a neat category

that fails to reflect actual

complexities essentially women in comedy

are being pigeon-holed that comedian you

thought of you probably thought of a

male right I mean I do when I think of

the people that are my role models in

comedy I often think of men but what

about women what about women comedians

are so many of their I mean look at Amy

Poehler Tina Fey and Ellen DeGeneres

wonderful women comedians out there who

are making an impact but they have

adjectives pinned on them such as blonde

quirky and lesbian in no particular

order

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these women are automatically put into a

category just because they’re trying to

be funny a lot of people say when I hear

them talking about comedians they’re

often like oh they’re too much or too

sexual or two in my face or just my

taste not my taste like we’re describing

some side dish at a restaurant or a

wedding venue for our friends not my

taste these are people making their

careers out of this but it’s just not

our taste so I’ve dissected this taste

we have four female comedians and I’ve

come up with two apparent flavors two

different categories for women to be put

into these are the overly feminized and

the overly masculine eyes be overly

feminized these are female comedians

that must be women in order to be funny

they are often with pretty with a low IQ

they talk about nail salon

misunderstandings dumb boyfriends

self-doubt escapades of the gym they

must look sexy and pretty on stage in

order to sell tickets these are women

such as Mindy Kaling Jenny slate Ellie

Kemper and iliza shlesinger having to

look like that in order to sell tickets

be overly feminized they’re really

masculine eyes is on the other side of

the scale these are women who equate men

to be funny they are in your face or

brass their crash their unabashedly

sexual they talk about one-night stands

and drunken escapades throughout the

cities they are simply matching a male’s

humor in order to be funny these are

women such as Sarah Silverman Amy

Schumer Chelsea Chelsea Handler Lena

Dunham and Leslie Jones the over

masculinized so we have these two

categories for women to be pigeonholed

I’m on the improv troupe here at Furman

improv is a fast style of comedy and

which you make up humor on the spot

there is no script no nothing you just

go out there and do impromptu theatre

will be demonstrating this later this

afternoon but in improv I found that

whenever I want to alter a scene or

dominate a scene I enter the stage as a

man I come on and create a character

that is a man and I find when I am a man

I can be unabashedly in other people’s

faces I can be unapologetic and I can

make the women on stage feel smaller I

also can bring a lot of physical humor

into my style for example so when I’m

not rolling around on the stage or being

a man on stage I become ridiculous women

the northern mom and an ice storm who’s

trying to find tostitos for her kids the

flight is sexy flight attendant whose

bending over to arouse passengers the

teenage girl at a sleepover with a

horrible list that keeps saying Shanna

peach don’t you see what I do i migrated

from flavor to flavor to flavor of

ridiculous women pigeonholing them as I

go along and the sad thing is is I

choose to do this I choose to create

ridiculous women on stage to make

something funny female comedians have to

stand up on stage simply being

themselves and get pigeonholed

automatically in order to sell tickets

they have to be in your face or really

pretty in order to give butts in the

seats they’re being pigeon-holed so we

have these two blatant categories for

women to be put into and I stand here

today as a 21 year old female going into

the world of show business wondering why

why do we just have to gat aghori for

women to be put into as some Nell

Scovell of Marie Claire magazine says

comedy is a contact sport and no one

wants to get beat up by a girl right

right my older sister when I was

creating this talk asked me a very

important questions you said what do you

do when you imitate other whim

what do you do when you imitate other

comedians how do other people imitate

you it becomes a bit in our improv

troupe to imitate me on stage a lot of

times people walk in and they’re very

dominating and very physical to start

rolling around on the stage and talking

over people I’m kind of proud of that

but that’s how I’m being pigeon-holed in

my comedy so people are imitating me in

a specific way a man named Christopher

Hitchens wrote an article for Vanity

Fair called why women aren’t funny in

this article he said that there’s a few

decent female comedians out there but

when it boils down to it they’re either

hefty Judd I key or Jewish or some combo

of the three he says that men dominate

the style comedy they set the standard

for what is funny and they want women as

the audience and when women aren’t the

audience they are able to critique them

they don’t want women in on the joke or

god forbid to make the joke for them

they just want them to sit there and

listen if they sit if they don’t they

become superior and unattractive and

then therefore they can be critiqued

Samuel s Jonas the study for the

American Journal of psychoanalysis he

studied comedians behaviors and IQ

factors that factor into it so he did a

test taking male and female comedians

and then average people I don’t know

what to call them someone just call him

average people average people and so he

did this IQ test and he found that male

comedians had an average of 138 on the

IQ test female comedians had an average

of 126 on the IQ test and the average

person got a score of 90 on the IQ test

138 126 and 90 this gap in the IQ shows

that the comedian’s automatically have a

superior IQ to most people it’s not

saying I’m smarter than most of you

but society teaches us that superiority

features intelligence in order to be

smart it’s seen as more attractive

however a man likes being the one that’s

smarter than the woman so when a woman

suddenly has a higher IQ and more

intelligence she becomes unattractive to

them and to quote Carol Burnett I people

are afraid to be unattractive I’m not

afraid of that goodness knows but all

but one in a million women are afraid to

mess up their hair not wear lipstick

slouch or look flat-chested they labor

under the necessity of being feminine

they are afraid that being funny is

unfeminine so we have these two

categories for women do put into the

overly feminized where you have to be a

woman in order to be funny in the /

masculinized where you have to match a

male sense of humor in order to be funny

is there a way that we can weave these

two categories together do they have to

be mutually exclusive can we be both

feminine and masculine onstage or do we

just have to be just one men tend to

have the upper ground of being way over

the top and their humor they can be an

average person just simply speaking on

stage no added hype no added performance

or they can be way flamboyant over the

top very very mundane very boring women

only have the upper ground of being

feminized or the lower ground of being

masculinized is there this middle ground

for women to be put into can women be on

stage with no added hype no added

performance and still be funny can we

make the two categories be combined to

be both feminine and masculine at the

same time I believe we’re starting to do

that I mean look again at the comedians

Amy Poehler Tina Fey and Allen DeGeneres

women who have said you know what I’m

going to make my comedy for myself I’m

going to be funny and I don’t care what

you say Tina Fey in her book bossy pants

said on the topic of critics like

Christopher Hitchens saying why women

aren’t funny she said when faced with

sexism ageism look ism or even really

aggressive Buddhism

ask yourself the following question is

this person between me and what I want

to do if the answer is no ignore it and

move on Amy Poehler said in her book yes

please you have to care about your work

and not the result you have to care

about how good you are and how could you

feel not about how good people think you

are or how good people think you look in

Ellen DeGeneres when she recently

received the presidential medal of

freedom by President Obama this past

fall when she was given the award for

truly being herself President Obama said

L encounters in society what too often

divides us and binds us together with

the counts that countless things that

divide us inspires us to be better one

joke one dance at a time so we have

these female comedians who are changing

the face of being pigeon-holed they’re

teaching us that you can be two

different things that you don’t have to

care about what other people say in

order to be funny you can simply just be

funny I mean look at ourselves how are

we pigeon holing other people what are

we forcing people to do to be to be

funny to be anything are you pigeon

holing yourself I mean look at Furman

guys we have a category a name and

identity for every single thing we do on

campus our chemistry majors spend way

too much time in the lab and our music

majors don’t have a social life our

Barbara jacket and beans boots bean

boots keep us warm in the winter and our

giant t-shirts and nike shorts keep us

cool in the summer I’ve seen way too

many north face backpacks and

birkenstocks around campus we are so

busy and have enough free time and I’m

so tired we have a category and identity

that we must fit is there a way to break

out of this is there a way that you

don’t have to be just yourself you can’t

just wear j.crew you could wear lily and

you could wear bohemian clothes you can

be whatever you want to be you don’t

have to be put into a pigeon hole I

think if we start with ourselves start

telling us that we can be any identity

and the idea of what we want to be we

can do that I don’t have to be over

masculinize or overly feminized to be

funny I can simply be funny I’m trying

slowly but surely this pigeon is flying

out of her hole

thank you

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