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La capacidad de aceptarse | JuanRo Aguiló | TEDxSantiago


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how well it had been ravaging
expected
I always do motivational talk and
I wanted to do something different so
I’m a little nervous but I care
it relaxes me who imagine that you a
are playing mario bros
I do not know if it was a video game
son you hours and in a moment what
are happening here have opened
entertained until they are left with only
one day there are many people in this world
with a single life well and do not achieve
enjoy life thoroughly lived by
You feel fear has somehow
diminished or paralyzed and there is little
people who manage to get ahead people
fighter because what to do in
life is finally continue playing
to win the road but I also
just as they are I’m not going to lie to you and
when the boy I had several friends
agreement had some friend obviously
but I was always afraid to cross that
thin line of friendship aa
establish a loving relationship
so it was a complicated one I think
more than anything by the fact of having
born in arms entity to be
different something negative and that when I
I would like to take that big step
Maybe a little kiss is not inviting her to
go out to an ice cream I do not know if that rejection
then so with that fear of rejection
I remember that when I was like 6 5th 6th
basic started the party in the
school
one had its shortage of rewinding a
Latin makes a down and so on a
written
we put the fabulous cadillacs
authentic decadents we ran the
furniture that does not use a lot of sun in the
living room
we ran the good ones and started talking
found between said until they arrive
the slow damn and that’s slow and
now knows as few and distribute
books and with little to michael jackson like
a zombie
I felt like almost with mannequins
because I really felt like dyn as
be stuck
what I think the closest thing to
be with women as well as well
near or sin was when we played the
dark piece in responded with some
companion in the book closet always
it was as well as the fact mine to
face my situation to face the
background my reality
time later when they were sixth
basic as the possibility of going with my
family in brazil and it was quite
challenging
first because the country was different
because culture was different and for
some way like I do not know if the woman
and man not as a body cult that
I had no better from day
that I’ve made it to the school in
American school and they imposed on a
sing it anthem of united states of
school the anthem of brazil and I have
examined lousy and when I’m like this
as in the row it began to vary the
people over here and he was the only rooster
settled across the school a corner
the first day of class
and that time will not be for nothing is
know if I think it was enough
uncomfortable after school was very
big was about 400 students
to do but as a course by level
were in this course the woman was
Voluptuous ovacionado is arranged much
fattest they always had
makeup makeup in class
more of my friend actually
I was doing jitsu and now like ramón like that
as flacuchento established as
tremendous
then I felt quite uncomfortable
like that because I feel like I felt
that I was already superior and somehow I
I wanted just like the rest of the days ago
good looking or wanted to have two brazil not
accept as I was in fact end up in
3rd and 4th of mine gave me another studying in
one in a large school per man and of
pretty weird sense
more above because there is always a
different school get a school
man of force it is said that in the end no
it ends up falling in love the teacher of
50 years be totally true I continue
looking at a little weird but it happens but
so when I was doing I said
really if it will be possible in a moment
find my princess because
circles have closed I have 31
year and it falls what circles has
shown more does not end up coming out with the
same people the weekend then
I was meeting this woman and ig
well I’m going to have to change I’m going to
have to start going to another world is going to
have to go out as what they call
the comfort zone and explore the world
it was unknown to me I do not know if
some of you have a couple in
some nightclub concert in the house of
a friend on a reel
I think this was something different and
maybe some of you know this
world that laughs and said good if you
are closing the possibilities are
closing my circumstance I will have
what to create new solutions
then I got into this application
it was always someone who enhanced the
theme of digital relationships
find a partner online
when my friend through when
we were in the university of
Duoc announced that more than three
applications that honda I ‘m not that
wave i want to meet someone really
like face to face at a party I do not know
and it was funny because inevitably
When he’s been strong for a while, I said
I would make this world will have to me
I will look for these solutions then it was
the photo that I had and that has already
finished by tencent in this photo to
champion
photo and the only thing that they fill and face
because I was not and accepting I started
I spent 29 years there and it ‘s with me
arm in the photograph and start with
different girl had enough
beautiful other not in fact the first
photos to do is win like this eche
that you could one can also handle
the high rank so good I’ll have
that lower the age range a bit but
I mean also some pretty
strange
that’s how I was establishing
conversations that I feel a bit the
scared I even got to have a
whatsapp and that we’re going out one day
before
I backed down and because in the
background I was afraid that to this
it would happen that until that
person who will lead and herat utah not
It was the same as me well internal
Like I’m getting in then
keep looking at that moment until
in a moment I arrived
find I feel my princess that
until today he lived with her but
this princess I was very much a
super entertaining relationship because no
it was only a between had was nice
also his little thing obviously imposed
but the most entertaining thing was that I was
a young man and he does not like the cold
what I did with her was to pass it
well throw the size was someone always
as well charismatic then like that
the whole relationship was advanced in the background
to speak like this as arch madness is
entertaining interesting and quite
successful and we talked enough time with
together we are talking about guasa
as close
more or less a month and when
have died talking time tell me already
I’m going to call for time we do not have to
get out
what do you think if fine lime has been
taken some the little pond to go eat
and then you do not know that this end of
week I go because I have to get together with
a friend and is another week and I
ask the same thing today the board in a wing
and aceta and I do not have to go the end of
week to the beach near vineyard of the sea
I can not Mass there and when it ‘s in
weekend
I’m getting up like the other day
Sunday through Sunday and I got a
message by whatsapp and juanro tells me
we will gather on Thursday at 8
the night in the araucano park that the
front because they are giving movies to the air
free
you go or you do not go and it was like he put on
gun to the head as well as I have to
go the bottom
I was very scared but I will not tell you
that’s not because it finally takes all this
weather
this tim dekay app by day
then whatsapp and if not step
if you really did not have an iphone and
this exhibition of getting together that is
making this application and merits value
and hess and very scary because one day
before when it was Wednesday to do was
the night of the iguana with his with his son
I have to tell you but not a topic
for me at all since I do not have
thank you and tell me that I already knew and
as who surprised how he did not know
yes
I knew it but I did not know it was so
famous because I had not accepted
never on facebook but already low as well
a whole day coming down from the world up
that gave a public publication that
said john red an example to follow that
it was an interview my talk
motivational is the subject of overcoming
personal says he started to put on youtube
it began to get in every day already
had on youtube he realized that at
final had no arm but that moment
that my son does not really care that
I did not have arms but good as I
I relieved schubert fed up and we ‘re already going to
the appointment and we met at the appointment and
preceded good connection between had
because I already had joined as the
I had already beaten him , I knew that
I had all the ability to carry
a relationship because it was entertaining
nice
we went to eat sushi and we went to the cinema
in the movies they are having a good time
favor of an Argentine film in a
moment of the movie I like everything
momentum missed us more rationally as
who grabbed my hand and the middle
movie I said I can not let go of my hand
we were already as uncomfortable about as
well we were a piece of 13 like the
position was like maybe the tiniest
tense and finished the movie and tells me
when I have to go now
of eleven o’clock at night the other day I have
that work did not go right said jacob
I did it but how do they get the worst
part of the car and I have a car adapted
he gets in the car and obviously
I had made a lawsuit because I heard you
hip hop metal that music I’m going to
train to like then he asked
a friend that made me help do
deployments then I put on chili
peppers or so music that I never
they listened to the car and then we are
spin music took her from the house and in
the time spontaneously and
First kiss and to this day I continue
with her because I finally realized
that you have to say this is mine from
that will beat bowser like in several hours
that the benefits of the big
mine if we can visualize and
we giving to realize
there is a greater benefit that fear
we will somehow
supernatural we will achieve transfer
that fear that many times are imposed
by ourselves as I told them
since I was a kid and I got that fear of
I reject people but in truth
it was never like that it was just something that
I said to myself and many times
it happens that we do not say not all
the same thing that could not achieve this I’m going to
to marry I invite him to the area a little
more optimistic to see the guide with eyes
of hope the guide positive way
because we have to always
have a look yes to get over
this mine is going there I
according to the appointment and every day already
except for the bonsu we go to the park
we go to different places and I already
I accepted it as a fact you
he asked and he gives you a little fear
be with someone who does not have an arm
you do not know that at all and when we go
hand in hand I feel super as from
that day that I took the hand has them
every day we hold hands and
well a super rich experience and so
how we manage to fall in love is already there and he
until today we live together in a
small apartment but with much more
thank you very much
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