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Freedom and the Third Brain | Michael Sanders | TEDxSanJuanIsland


Translator: Mennatullah Mustafa Checker: Anwar Dafa-Alla
I would like to share with you today a story about something that changed my life,
It may also change your life.
And while we are, why not enjoy some fun?
How many of you were a very ambitious young man?
Wonderful, I am also an ambitious young man.
In fact, my only goal was when I entered the labor market
Is to reap the greatest possible amount of money.
I could not reap enough. I was not shy about it
She descended from a poor family.
I remember when I was a kid that my father left home
For a pack of cigarettes and no longer.
My sister and I were raised with government assistance.
I swore when I was bigger, I would make enough money.
Or will not mock me again
The clothes I wear or the house I live in
Early in my career I got a nice job in Los Angeles.
Where she worked for a large company.
On that particular day,
The annual meeting of managers was held
Its a very nice hotel.
The manager of the company was there himself,
Delivers rewards for excellent performances.
But I did not get one.
Frankly, given the past I did not deserve one either.
But that did not stop the ambitious young man inside me
His attempt to attract attention and appreciation anyway.
So that plan was developed.
I’ll sit in the front row,
Very soon for the manager and even I can touch the platform.
When you go to the questions and answers section,
I had that genius question I wanted to ask him,
It was a very smart question
He was very attentive and appreciated.
I could not wait, I could not wait.
But a few minutes before the meeting,
My phone started with gas.
Calls all the time, I thought I would wait after the meeting
But calls continued; it seemed important.
So I thought I would get out of the meeting, call up,
I will use the toilet at the same time.
I can go back before the answers and questions begin.
I finished my call after ten minutes,
The toilet is beautiful, wonderful, and great
At the San Gabriel Hilton Hotel.
Great room.
But what comes to mind at first is:
“What a cheaper hotel San Gabriel Hilton
They do not even have urinals in men’s bathrooms “
(Laughter)
The second idea that came after the first is,
“You are in women’s toilets!”
(Laughter)
Quickly, I scowled and rushed to the door
I opened it, but the bad moment,
There was an elegant businesswoman standing at the entrance.
She has a muddled look on her face.
She looked at me, and looked at the sign on the door,
Then she looked at me again with a different look this time.
(Laughter)
A new plan has been planned.
I bent a little on my jacket, and said,
“The situation is safe, madam, safe mode you can login now”
She said, “Well, thank you”
I said “No thank you for coming to San Gabriel Hilton”
She continued to talk to my streetwalker.
(Laughter)
You know, regarding this,
What makes us plunge ourselves into these dilemmas?
What happens to us, is it multitasking?
Is it an attempt to do more than one thing at the same time?
The answer is “no”.
The issue is much deeper.
An issue that makes us want to do all things at the same time.
Are not answering three of the simplest questions as they should be.
who am I?
what do I want?
How will I get what I want?
Who am I, what do I want, how will I get it?
Three simple questions, but the answers are not.
As you know, you can not get what you want if you do not know what it is,
You can not learn what you want, if you do not recognize yourself.
It’s hard to get to know yourself
When you can be 3 different people at some time.
You can inhabit three unique minds.
Let me explain more by using those nice balls
We were born with a basic mind.
This mind is very attentive, has a quick response.
We pay for this mind in every position.
Where you can this mind of doing amazing things in an emergency.
This mind will save your life.
But the problem lies in:
This is not the mind he can
Answer the question “What do I want?”
It will look like you’re having a walk in a war zone.
It is not appropriate.
Between the age of three and sixty years,
Complete the formation of our emotional mind,
Our limbic system,
The main reservoir of all our feelings.
This mind is also serving as our virtual mind.
We spend a lot of time inside our emotional mind,
Some, you know, never leave.
I mean, you go to work talking to others
They answer you with simple words,
They are dressed in fancy clothes,
But basically they look like they have six years.
Maybe that explains a lot about what’s going on in the labor market.
Although this is your default mind, you have no answer
“what do I want?”
But he has to go to the grocery store when he is hungry.
Or intend to leave the store with lots of fast food.
Between the ages of twenty and twenty-five,
The formation of the upper brain,
Our frontal cortex,
This mind is something else.
He plans, analyzes, resolves problems, predicts
Imagine, presents, has everything you need
To answer correctly a question, “What do I want?”
But the problem is how do we get to this brain?
This is not your virtual brain, nor the circumstantial.
We do not pay for this brain, but we should first go to it.
But I have good news for you today.
I brought you an application of the mind.
This application will allow you to enter your upper computer in seconds
Then we can answer the question “What do I want?” Correctly.
I will show you how to get what you want.
Let’s do it together.
Please, all, close your eyes for a minute.
Close your eyes and take a deep breath.
Exhale quietly.
Now rest your shoulders,
Your arms, rest your hands.
Rest your necks, so you.
Rest your whole face.
deep breath.
Exhale quietly.
Now imagine that you have a banana in your hands.
I carry a banana in your hand, golden, yellow, ripe.
Hold it.
Sensation of cortex.
deep breath.
Exhale quietly.
Now, peel the banana together, half down, four sides
First, peel
Second,
Third party, now the fourth party.
Look at this banana.
deep breath.
exhalation.
Now take a swig.
Taste the banana.
Taste the delicious banana that you have never eaten before.
Taste it.
Keep your eyes closed, breathe naturally,
Answer this question for me,
In a word or two, silently.
What do you really want?
what do you want?
You can open your eyes now.
I’ve just been in your frontal cortex.
In answering this question,
I can show you how to get what you want.
When I was young, I knew exactly what I wanted:
the money.
I got a lot of money.
At one time, I worked for a wealthy broker
In Beverly Hills.
He was called “Julian”.
I never saw him, I saw pictures of him
But I did not need that.
He was calling me for work, and I was saving him.
Then send me a large sum.
On that particular day,
He asked me to go to Long Beach Airport
Because one of his shipments was booked by customs.
I drove there, met a customs officer for an hour,
She was then able to exempt her from custody.
I contacted Julian.
He was very happy.
He said to me, “Mike, I’d send you a very large sum,
But I have to meet the young man who did it.
I want you to come to my office in Beverly Hills,
I have a reward for you. “
I thought, what will be, amount, money?
Car, ship? Maybe Real Estate?
My mind was gone.
I rushed to Rivley Hills, to Beverly Wilshire.
I stepped up to the ninth floor of this building.
I was almost taken from the entrance to his office.
But in front of me stood three large individuals
With three suits.
When I approached them, I saw a weapon under their suits.
I was scared.
One of them said, “Are you Mike?”
You
Gesture.
He said to me, “Enter.”
I entered the most beautiful office I have ever seen.
He had a panoramic view of Los Angeles.
There was a sofa, in the office.
There was a bar, a bar, in the office!
There was a picture of “Julian” on the wall embracing the governor!
I thought, “I’ve arrived, that’s it!”
I heard my name “Mike, go into the conference room.”
It was Julian.
I entered the room I sat down
I apologize to another huge person.
He began to tell me about his huge fortune,
Houses in Malibu, Group cars, holidays,
Commercial investment, investments,
Then suddenly stopped, he said,
“Learn, Mike, I did not send you here to tell you about me.
I came here to give you a special reward.
I would write you today a very large sum,
But after I met you in the last few seconds,
I did not see the right person for me “
I thought “I’m the right person for me, this is me”
“No, instead I decided to give you advice,
And then your freedom.
listen carefully.
Sometimes, the money you earn
Not worth the price you pay for it, and you are expelled. “
Then the huge man came and threw me in the doorway and closed the door.
I sat there stunned. That’s not how things go.
You do great things, reap a lot of money,
Do amazing things, reap a lot of money.
I do not remember Siri for my car.
I discovered several months later,
That “Julian” was involved in a crime.
That day, he made me known.
He gave me my freedom, before I hurt myself.
Maybe before I lose my life.
I have appreciated this,
On that day, I found a different answer to my question,
Because I asked him from another perspective,
A higher perspective,
I ask you to do the same thing.
By answering this question with the correct answer to this question,
I want to show you how to get what you want.
Let’s do this together?
Today, tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, on paper,
I ask you to write down all your tasks.
Everything you do, personally or professionally:
Removal of garbage, Weeding, Washing of dishes
– Sidi, your wife asked me to talk about it, I do not know why –
Holidays, reconstruction,
Business associations in which they participate, everything.
Without them, and do not write them through the computer.
Without them, use your muscle memory, expand your mind.
Then use your mind free application.
Wait a few seconds, then enter your brain,
Ask that question, and get your answer simple,
A word or two.
Open your eyes Look at your tasks.
Create a circle around tasks that support what you want.
This will make you better, believe me.
You will still have some leftover tasks.
I want to help you leave them now.
First, clear all unnecessary tasks.
And some, who do not know did not do from the foundation.
Place a big red X.
Remember: The deleted task is complete.
(Laughter)
Secondly: Give in return, give.
Look at those tasks that you exercise.
The work you do and what others are supposed to do.
All of you know what I mean.
Mark X on these as well, and remember:
Is not it always better to give rather than to receive?
(Laughter)
Third: Authorize the rest.
Turn that work around to others who can do it for you.
To delegate, you have to overcome some obstacles.
Obstacles such as fear of failure, inability to trust others,
Or obsession with idealism.
But beyond those obstacles,
Because we want to get rid of those tasks
Then you can get what you want.
You can imagine, if I did everything I told you today,
Maybe going through some difficult conversations.
In fact, I will pass by and I ask you this.
To pass those conversations for yourself and your future.
But I want to give you advice.
Advice from thousands and thousands of years,
Will help you.
You know, our original American ancestors taught us that our strength lies in our midst,
So if we lose some of them in the way, if we are weak,
Because we have given up.
But the good news is: your strength always belongs to you,
You can retrieve them, and grab them again.
All you have to do
It is remember who you are and what you really want
I will come to you running, believe me.
Remember who you are before going to work every morning,
You are sitting in your car.
Remember before you start an important meeting or a difficult beginning.
Remember if you are angry, or sad remember if you get scared,
And remember before you go to sleep at night
Dream dreams are very beautiful.
If I remember, as I ask you,
You will find that value and deep happiness that you deserve well.
For me, the answer to the question “What do I want?” Has changed.
No longer money.
From today, freedom has become.
But it is not the freedom to do the right things,
Which others want or expect from me,
But the freedom to do the right thing,
The right thing.
On that podium, now, here exactly I wish you ideals.
Just remember.
Thank.
( clap)
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