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Finding the extraordinary in the ordinary | Sanjay Sethi | TEDxIIFTDelhi


so imagine 20 million people having the

ability to live their lives are slightly

better imagine two and a half million

people being able to get to financial

security for the first time 100,000

women taking the first steps towards

financial independence by all means this

would be an extraordinary outcome most

people will agree that will be net for

the outcome so today for next I five to

ten 15 minutes I’m going to talk to you

about how series of ordinary can lead to

extraordinary low and I’ll come back to

this starting line one more time towards

the end so the story actually starts so

basic I’ll take it through maze of my

own journey and through this journey I’m

hoping that some of this will reconcile

and resonate with you and maybe in you

in your own endeavors you will find the

extraordinary you know through the

course of your careers so my earliest

imagination from childhood starts when I

was about five years old

and I remember a very stern looking lady

sitting right across from me on a table

asking me or almost commanding me to

take out ten marbles from a jar of

marbles so in my excitement I took out

20 and I conquered them I thought you

know a good job later I realized that I

failed my first entrance examination it

was admission to a Catholic school an

English Catholic school in a lava of

course my mom tried one more time next

year the same result so it was I was in

second grade coming home in a rickshaw

and you know this is not the auto

rickshaw that we talk about it’s a

rickshaw

you know people pull and I had my

friends who were also my schoolmates

coming back with me and there was this

old guy older guys fifth grade and I got

my report card that day so I showed it

to him

it’s a peak so pink color leaflet I

showed it to her I said dude can you

take a look at it

look at it he said and I asked him you

know there are these two red lines under

two of the marks what does this mean he

said dude you failed these two subjects

what was that

and the other was Hindi so basically I

imagine the horror of a parent not that

I’m a parent you know your child failing

math and language both even you’re

doomed

anyways Indian parents thank you

so you know one thing led to next events

and you know suddenly I find myself in

the fourth grade and fourth years

something very profound happened to me

the series of profound that have

happened and I’m trying to share some of

those with you but one of the profound

that happened to me and fourth grade was

my principal comes into my class and

says you know the 5th graders and it’s a

primary school right so 5th graders were

the sea demos class 5th graders will be

taken to the nearby nearby narrow

planetarium it was a big deal you know I

was into like most kids at that time

into Flash Gordon phantom space planets

stars spaceships it was a big bummer I

was I was I was told that only three

people from the fourth grade can be

taken because the entire fifth grade is

going but he’s just asking because we

have some more space we’ll take three

people from fourth grade and I was

definitely not one of them and there was

a big bummer I went home and I had a

conversation with my mom so it might

feel very you know like a very confident

guy having a short chat with with his

mom it was actually very scary event for

me I told her that you know can you

please stop teaching me I don’t want you

to help him homework anymore she was

shocked why it was she had a horrible

way of teasing by the way but anyways my

intent really was that I thought why

can’t I study on my own and I promised

her that in return I will maintain my

35th rank out of 40 in the class it will

not fall below that 35th rank and and

she she agreed and we

we tried this experiment I think I did

all right I probably got 3233 you know

it was fine but it was profound it was

profound because for the first time I

took agency over my own learning I took

control over my own learning and things

you know went on sixth seventh eighth

ninth tenth eleventh is again something

really profound happened to me it was in

11th grade English started making sense

to me I think and I’m think I mean trust

me I’m just looking back on my life and

I’m trying to say no what happened in

11th in 11th there was this time after a

very lackluster 10th exam you know when

you just barely make your first division

you know you go into this introspective

moon and or you’re forced into its

respective mood so I went into this

intersecting mood and I started thinking

about you know I have learned all my

life by rote just rut low and I had

remembered the definition from seventh

grade like for example force is a push

or pull with tends to start or stop or

otherwise change the direction of the

motion in on which it acts I can keep

going on I cannot give you mass

acceleration at Moody’s principal all of

them just I just know them by heart

but they didn’t ever made any sense to

me but it xi relate something very

fundamental happened I understood them

force is a push or a pull that can start

something or stop something or maybe

change the direction of the motion in

which it acts it certainly makes sense

it was almost like somebody who has not

who doesn’t know that needs glasses and

has poor eyesight and suddenly gets the

glasses for the first time the vision

corrected and you see that that blob of

green that you see in your front of you

which you call tree is actually

beautiful it has leaves in it each one

different no it’s a it’s an amazing

experience and and you know people who

have who have gone through the

experience know exactly I’m talking what

it happened to me so anyways that day

suddenly education started making sense

to be and things that had started

happening very rapidly and I was by 11th

sorry by 3rd

my school like I passed je we went to

IIT sorry and and by a third year of my

of my engine exam I had been offered PhD

in astrophysics by inter inner city

center for astronomy now astrophysics I

had published a paper on astrophysics

which was accepted by Monthly Notices of

the Royal Astronomical Society

I think things happen immediately those

were extraordinary outcomes for me but I

think the learning really was that

education has to make sense it became a

passion and the ordinary life led to

something extraordinary change of scene

I joined profession my first first job

for that broad color steel plant public

sector unit steel authority of india

limited for many people it was you know

a dream job Sakaki nakri after retiring

say that was the mindset for me it was

it was jarring it was jarring because as

soon as I entered my profession my first

few months I was dragged I was like like

dragged thoroughly Network we believe

that ragging only happens in school and

colleges trust me it happens in in in a

profession too and so the nature of

regular search I remember so I am barely

21 years old and I have 80 people who

report to me I’m a mechanical engineer

and I am responsible for the maintenance

of the steel plant at least the shop

that I was working at and during my and

these 80 people many of them many of

them had worked in Rattler steel plant

for more than my age so anyways so they

were they were there they were

entrenched and there was the one time I

remember there was this bucket elevator

that that broke down so I called my

charge man and said swine babu 42 a

bucket elevator you had to hear can you

please come

sir kipnuk a panel like a wrong I said

what’s up what Spanish should I get what

size Spanish trying it I said what size

manners I have no idea what you talking

about

he

Boult quantify sky I have no idea in the

four years of mechanical engineering I

don’t think I was ever told how to

figure out the size of a bolt and then

from a size of a bolt figure out the

size of spanner that is needed but

anyways I went home that night

thoroughly embarrassed also realizing

they 5-2 lead people I need to know my

and I home with a bunch of bolts of

different sizes from the storeroom went

home put them under a sheet cover so I

can’t see them and through my hands just

by touching them learnt how to tell a

cypher bolt but just just by feeling it

that was profound

but then few days later or maybe a few

months later I don’t remember we’re

working on this very expensive German

hydraulic press and it broke down it

broke because of a mistake I I didn’t

follow the standard operating practices

and it was very expensive I mean the

replacement part was 2 lakh rupees 2

lakh rupees at that time was very very

large sum of money even today it is and

I was scared I was about a year old

into steel plant I went to my boss I

told him sir broke the total machine I

am very sorry

don’t break this machine the same way

it changed many things so for for a very

long time I think it became a mantra for

me that mistakes are only mistakes when

they repeated that they’re not their

learning experience and that was

profound

anyways life went on I became a

tentative I became a father a bugling

parent you know screwing up things here

and there all the time

and I remember I went through a bunch of

startups companies that had like money

left for only two weeks I joined them it

was crazy it was exciting I was in the

US for about 15 years and then suddenly

there was this strong desire to come

back to India and and run a market place

I tried in 2009 you know I have two

first time we said it how can we do this

you know we’d be lived living there for

15 years how do we come back it’s a big

change what if you don’t like it if what

if the company doesn’t work you know

there were so many ifs that we never did

it so 2009 never happened 2011

situations exactly the same the mindset

changed and what changed is what I want

to share with you is that the mindset

changed that many many years ago I went

to college for four years I paid them

money to educate me and I got a degree

in a similar manner I will go to India

for four years start something of my own

pay myself the money and I was speaking

with some of you guys you pay 18 lakhs

to do your masters here you probably pay

200 to about 200,000 to 300,000 rupees

dollars in the u.s. to do masters so my

masters had to happen in India for years

pay yourself if it works great if it

doesn’t work you still have a degree

from real world and I think from that

but that day my I could differentiate

between danger and fear danger was real

you had to do something about it fear

was artificial

it was a story that your mind was

telling you long story short we started

swap loose and today we enable or we try

to enable 20 million people to make the

life slightly better two and a half

million people an opportunity to learn a

livelihood and one hundred thousand

women to take their first steps towards

financial security thank you [Applause]

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